So sorry for the loss of our  friend who is fondly called daks by us in our place here in Pilar Village Las pinas Phil. Condolence to the family

When my family and I moved to Chicago, we knew we were in for big changes. What I didn’t expect was to find someone who would change not just our lives, but someone else’s — someone thousands of miles away.  Her name was Marissa. I met her in the most ordinary way — Filipino Gatherings, full of laughter and the smell of home-cooked Filipino food. But there was nothing ordinary about her. She had the kind of warmth that made you feel safe, like you belonged. She loved to cook — the kind of cook who doesn’t just serve food, but serves comfort. And kids? She adored them. Every child in the room would run to her as if she were their favorite auntie. I knew instantly: this woman is special.
And then I thought of Dax — my brother-in-law, living halfway across the world. Dax was kind, and driven. But just as I was thinking of introducing him to someone who could truly complement him, I heard the news: he was getting married. That couldn’t be right!
So I called him. “Dax, don’t get married yet.”
There was a pause on the line. He laughed, confused. “Why?” he asked. “Because I’ve found someone — someone who could be your forever.” I told him about Marissa — not the long version, just the sweet essentials:
She’s kind. She cooks like me! She loves kids. You’d be lucky if she even replied to your message, so… “bahala ka na dumiskarte!”
I gave him her number. And just like that — the spark was passed across continents.
What began as hesitant messages became nightly calls. What started as simple “Kamusta ka?” turned into hours of laughter, shared dreams, and emotional honesty. Time zones became irrelevant. What mattered was the feeling that, somehow, they’d known each other forever.  Dax called me months later, his voice quieter than usual, but full of something else. “She’s the one.” I smiled. 
And though Dax has since passed away, I know — and I will always believe — that he never truly left. Because a love like theirs doesn’t fade.

Dear Marissa,
Heard the sad news. I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept our sincerest condolences on the passing of your husband. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of your family.

From,
Carol Danetaras and family

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Roland Jamesolanim Evangelista

March 5, 1973 – May 13, 2025

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