Name: Merkley-Mitchell Mortuary
Address: San Diego, CA

Sue you are loved and missed by so many people, who will continue to keep the thought of you close to their hearts.  You were a sweet angel of love and light and today that light seems to be dim again, as we remember how much you touched our hearts. 
xoxoxo

It is hard to think tomorrow will be an entire year passed since we lost your beautiful light. Your loss has impacted so many & not a day goes by that we do not think of they way you touched our lives. Love you dear Sue & thinking of all your many family & friends missing you. xo

To everyone whom loved Sue, in commemoration of her life, we have a forum forever now as as we honor & remember her. May she truly be resting in peace forevermore.

To all of Sue's San Diego friends we have established a foundation in her honor & plan by community effort to hold an upcoming event & ceremony. Please visit The Sue Mercier SOSL Collaborative San Diego Facebook page. Or contact Syd Foja.

Continuing to send love to everyone who is missing Sue this holiday season. To her family, may you find comfort and support on every turn. ❤

I had only just known Sue for about a year and a half.  A friend of mine told me about what a natural talent she had for hair styling; so true.  Sue, was so precious and one of the nicest people I had ever known.  I will really miss the time she took to talk about issues in life we all experience.  Sue just had a way about her that was one of a kind.  She was a beautiful lady and again we will all miss her a lot.  I am only so glad I had a chance to see her in late August.  God Bless her!     kellyann Barcelos (Kearny Mesa)

Mr. and Mrs. Mercier and Amy, Family, and Friends,
There are no words to express my sympathy or to heal your hearts. It's obvious that Sue lives on in the hearts of so many from one coast to another from her kindness, friendship, and loving nature. Please call on me should you need anything at all during this most difficult, painful time. Heidi (Auvinen) Collins, Class of '91

Dear Louise and Bob,
I am terribly sorry for your loss.  I wanted to share Paco's thoughts with you.  He saw your girls as two of the smartest and nicest among all his patients.  He was always impressed by you two as parents.  May your burden be lightened over time.

Janice Flanagan Rubira, Eastham, MA

Sue was my confidant and dear friend for several years. We were very close and I will deeply miss her spirt, beauty, sensitivity and talent. I grieve that she is no longer with us. Sue supported my ion theatre company and came to our shows and contributed her services to our productions. On behalf of my husband, Claudio Raygoza and the entire ion family, we send our deepest sympathy and condolences to the family and Matt. We feel at a loss without our beloved, Sue, but trust that she has reached a high state of peace and tranquility.

Sadness has followed me everywhere since the news reach me.  I am still in shock. You are such beautiful spirit.  You are so kind and caring and always thinking of ways to help others. I know you are in peace and I will miss you forever my dear friend. Love to you.

I just found out today. I shared the news with four others who loved you too and didn't know. We are all devastated and heartbroken. I still cannot fully take it in. Wherever you are now, my only wish is that you can still feel how much love is pouring out to you. How big of a wake you have left. How large is the gap where you once stood. Through your grace, artistry and deep sensitivity you touched my life and made it better. I felt so much kinship and support from you as we carved out our careers, our love lives and our souls' grief, growth and healing. I would give anything to have you here to keep growing with and loving each other through the hard stuff. I'm so grieved to move on without you, Sue. You were an amazing friend. I'll aways love and miss you.

Sue was my stylist for almost ten years.  My wife and I are devastated that she is no longer with us.  I wish I would have known that she was suffering this much.  You will always be in my thoughts, Sue.  May you rest in peace...

Sue started cutting our hair in 2006. We moved from salon to salon with her over the years. Last year we moved back to D.C. and Sara still got her hair cut from Sue when she would fly back every few months. She was a family friend. We are so saddened by Sue's passing.

Sue, as we come together to share our despair on your passing. I'm holding a torch to you daily sister. I'm devastated & heartbroken alas I will not let your pain be in vain. I love you & miss you immensely. And will walk & talk to advocate. You will never be forgotten in my lifetime in San Diego. Xo

My heart hurts at this news. Sue was my stylist for the past 10 years. I'd move from salon to salon with her over the years because she was so good. I'm going to miss her a lot. My condolences and prayers to her family and loved ones.

Dear Bob and Lou,
Our time spent with Susan at holidays leave us with fond memories.  Our hearts and prayers go out to you.

Dear Bob and Lou,
 I just read about your beautiful daughter and her passing. I cannot even imagine your pain and grief. I am so sorry. Please know you are surrounded in love and caring, prayers and peaceful thoughts. My most sincere condolences are sent to your family.
 Sincerely, Sheila Gibbons

My deepest sympathy to Sue's family and friends.  I remember her fondly from high school- she had a beautiful spirit and smile.  My prayers are with you all today and during the difficult days ahead.

I am so sorry for the loss of a beautiful caring women, she touched us all with her kindness and wonderful soul. I will miss our Beach Yoga times and your big smile and funny little hats.

Leominster Sue, I will miss you so much.
My thoughts and prayers to family and friends, New York Dave

My heart breaks for your loss. I have not stopped thinking about Sue since I was made aware of her passing last week. We lived in an amazing 5 bedroom home in Little Italy about 10 years ago, and we were fortunate enough to have Sue as one of our roommates.  She was just starting to do hair ( I remember her practicing on me)! We shared mutual friends, laughs and wine on the "stoop" as we would people watch in our fabulous neighborhood. You will be missed by so many.

So sorry for your loss.  When thinking of Suzie I remember she couldn't say her J's so she used to call me Doanie.  Our deepest sympathies go out to everyone.

Love, cousin Doanie and kids

My deepest sympathies go out to all of Sue's family and loved ones. My daughter Nichole Johnson brought Sue into our lives as they became inseparable for a period of time during H.S. At Oakmont. I have such fond memories of Sue camping with us, spending many weekends in our home, birthday gatherings, sporting events, and much more, she was such a bright, funny, smart and adventurous soul. Her memories will last forever in those who grew up knowing her and for those that grew closest to her these past 20 years, but most of all her family! My thoughts and prayers for light and love are with you during this mourning process. Pam (Johnson) McNish.

Mr. and Mrs. Mercier and Amy, I am so very sorry for this terrible loss. I remember spending many afternoons at your house. I remember Sue, and your entire family, so fondly. I'm certain your extended Oakmont family all are keeping you in their thoughts during this devastating time, as I am also. RIP Sue.

I will never forget the vibrant young women who came to San Diego and touched so many hearts.  I will miss the sweet, funny, bright and beautiful person, who I created many memories with.  Sue, you will always have a place in my heart.
Sending love and light to your family.

My condolences to Sue's family and Father Claude. I attended Assumption College (1997) with Sue and remember her kind spirit and joyful presence. I am so sorry to hear of this news.

My deepest sympathies. Sue was a beautifully kind soul and she will be greatly missed.

Dear Bob and Lou, our hearts break for your loss. Our prayers for peace and strength are on the way.
Liz and Gene Farrll

My deepest condolences to Sue's family and friends -- if you knew Sue, you loved her. If you were Sue's friend, you were blessed.

Sue was a deep, spiritual soul....so kind, thoughtful, selfless with the perfect amount of twinkle in her eye. You know what I mean by that - perfect and beautiful.

We had just gotten close in the last year. I'm so fortunate to have known such a special person. 

Sue - I miss you so much. I know you will stay close to us as the beautiful spirit you are.

Dear Amy and Family,
My heart has been heavy since hearing about Sue. I met her the summer of '87. She was heading into 7th grade, as was my brother. I knew they'd get along well. It's been more than 20 years, but I can see her face and hear her laugh. My heart breaks for you. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Bob and Lou please accept out deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times.

La Bella Vita Salon of Little Italy Loves you Sue! l As soon as she walked in the door. Her beautiful blue eyes lit up the salon. My intuition recognized her east coast attitude and the good person she is. I knew this girl had all it took to become successful .She gave each day her very best . Built up an amazing clientel as well as making so many good friends that truly cared for her & I believe would have done anything for Sue .I'm thankful for those story book times with her that were truly beautiful . I am so sorry life is so hard at times and we have lost a most beautiful soul.I remember how well she spoke of her family, and how she just wanted to make them proud. My Deepest Sympathy to her family and all  who loved her. You will always have a special pace in my heart Sue . Rest in peace . See you in heaven. Michelle Impelluso

My deepest condolences! Sue was an amazing girl! Her incredible sense of humor and beautiful smile will always be remembered! Thoughts and prayers for the family!

Dear Bob, Loise, and Amy, I'm so sorry for your loss.   I haven't seen Sue since college but I will always remember her fondly.

I am so sorry for your loss of Sue.  She was an amazing role model for me in high school and I have many fond memories of her.  My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Bob, Loise and Amy, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Susan was such a smart, funny and warm person. I'll remember her fondly.

Dear Mercier Family,

So sad to hear the news of Sue's passing. She was a beautiful person inside and out. You are all in my thoughts.

Bob and Louise, I'm so sorry to hear this. I remember Susan in Confirmation Class at St Denis.  My prayers for Susan and family.

Dear Mercier Family -- I was terribly saddened to hear of this.  I literally had not seen her since high school days, but remember her well, and very fondly.  So sorry for your loss -- God's peace and comfort be with you.  --Matt, Oakmont '92

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Mercier and Amy, I am so sorry for your loss.  Sue was a beautiful person and a best friend to me growing up. I have so many wonderful memories of time spent with her that I will cherish forever.

Dear Mercier Family,

I am so deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Sue. She was someone so many of us younger girls looked up to in high school--beautiful, funny and genuinely sweet and kind. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers during this painful time.

A kind soul taken far too early. My sincere condolences for the Mercier family.

I am so sorry to hear about Sue's passing. My thoughts are with you all.

Our friendship will never be forgotten, memories we created when we were growing up in school will be for a life time. It breaks our hearts to say goodby to soon. Beautiful soul inside and out 
A prayer for all family to get through this terrible time of loss
My sincere condolances 
Stacey Sullivan

Sue had the best possible voice and deep kindness. I haven't heard it since 1993, but it's clear in my head! I hate that your family is in this great pain, and I pray you will feel God's love for all of you in a deep and tangible way. God bless you!

Dear Mr. Mercier, Mrs. Mercier, and Amy, I am so very sorry for your loss. I have so many fond memories of time spent with Sue through the years. She was a wonderful friend and a great person. She will always hold a special place in my heart.

Dearest Mercier Family.  I am so sorry to have heard about Sue.  You are all in my deepest prayers and thoughts.  All My Warmest Regards, Lydia Navarro, San Diego, Ca.

Dear Mr. Mercier, Mrs. Mercier, and Amy, I am so very sorry for your loss.  I have so many fond memories of time spent with Sue through the years.  She was a wonderful friend and a great person.  She will always hold a special place in my heart.

Beautiful Sue - I will miss you so very much - our monthly meetings all these years were the best.  Your smile lit up the room at Whole foods, but more importantly it lit up my heart.  I was your bookkeeper for eons, your friend and your adopted Mother.  I will miss you more than words can say.

Amy and family-

I am very sorry for you loss.  I remember Sue being very king and having a great sense of humor. I remember teasing Sue and my sister at Hamptom Beach when she would go with us. My prayers are for you as you grieve.

Dear Mercier Family, 
I am so sorry to hear about Sue. You are all in my thoughts.

Dear Bob, Louise and Amy,
I was so sorry to hear this vey sad news.  My deepest sympathy and prayers to all of you and your family.

So sorry for the loss of Sue! I enjoyed playing basketball with her on the team in the 90's. She will be missed.

No words can describe how saddened I am right now.  Sue was a great friend for so many years.  She'll always hold a special place in my heart.  I am so sorry for your loss.

I am so very sorry for your loss.  
Much love to you during this excruciating time.

Dear Bob and Louise:  We are saddened to hear the loss of Amy. So many great memories when she was in school. My deepest condolences and heartfelt caring during this time of struggle. Rest in Peace Amy. You have made many smiles that are left behind.

Bob and Louise
Our thoughts and prayers are
with you at this sad time. It
is hard to lose a child but
treasure the years you had
together. Deepest Sympathy
Pace e Bene

Louise and Bob,
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Bob Blanchard

I am heartbroken over this - Sue was one of my best friends and neighbor in high school and we shared so many laughs together.  I am drawn back to so many great memories, morning bus stop, field hockey double sessions, basketball, hanging out at the Merciers! So pretty, funny and fun-loving.  And she did always love to do hair!   My heart is breaking with you Mr. and Mrs. Mercier, Amy and your whole family.

Mr. and Mrs. Mercier, I am very sorry for your loss, you raised a beautiful, caring and loving daughter whom I was blessed to know for about 4 years. All of you are in my prayers during this trying time

I am so very sorry  for your loss. Sue was a great girl. She will be missed in this world emmencely. I haven't  seen her in 20 years and am shocked at all the memories  which come flooding back to me. You are in my prayers I am so sorry.

Terribly saddened of this news.  My condolences to all her friends and family.  Sue was a bright light in my high school.  She always had a sparkle in her eye and her voice could make you melt.

I adored Sue and enjoyed all the hours with her, over the past 7 years, while she made my hair fabulous, which she was the best at.  I loved catching up on our lives and what had been going on for us both in the months between  appointments.  I started taking my middle school daughters to Sue about a year ago and they loved her too. We are all so sad by her passing. Sue was such a giving, kind, talented, and beautiful person, with a biggest of hearts and she will be missed terribly.

Suzy Q
We love you hoo!
You gave good face, mad style & amazing Grace. Your support & smile were infectious & magnetic. Laughing with you made my soul soar. A sister from another mister. Thank you for the good years, as I fight back my tears. I loved you then and I love you now. So rest in peace Sue Mercier, as I take a bow. 
Syd Foja xoxo RIP Angel

Prayers are with your family. A beautiful young life taken to soon. Peace be with you.

Thoughts and prayers are being sent out to Sue's family. So many memories from school times.....heaven gained a beautiful, loving angel too soon. Rest in peace.....

Sue was my best friend, she was a beautiful soul. I met Sue a little over two years ago, we immediately became great friends. I cherished her and will hold her in my heart forever. I'm so sorry for your loss and my condolences to Mr & Mrs Mercier and Matt. I don't know how to be me without Sue. I'm heartbroken and will hold you all in my thoughts and prayers forever. Just know she loved you all so very much.

I am so very sorry for your loss. I have so many fond memories of Sue in high school from papier-mâché Latin projects to endless field hockey practices....She was a beautiful, funny girl and I will always remember those sparkling blue eyes and that smile. My love to you all.

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sue was one of my best friends in high school, she was so beautiful inside and out. She would make me laugh so hard I would cry. She was so caring and thoughtful --when I needed her, she was always there.... I lost touch with her and it breaks my heart that I'll never get to see her again. My love and prayers go to you guys.

Sue, you are such an amazing soul who has transitioned into the kingdom of gold , happiness, joy, and thank you for all that you helped me get threw. I will forever cherish and miss you. I will get back to health and my mom Lora Weiss and I are going on a hike in your honor. The hike I always talked with you about and smiles and laughed, shares the good and the bad, you blessed my life by opening my eyes to an amazing view / outlook on the world , I love you and know you are no longer in pain. My sincerely sympathy a to you and your family. To her family : she was one of a kind, the best heart anyone had, I treasure her memory and honor the amazing beautiful woman she truly is. I know her soul is living in pure happiness above looking down upon us as guide and protector. No one will ever replace her. I miss you dearly my good friend. I love you and will never forget any of the times we've shared. 
Sierra meekin

I am so sorry for your loss.  Sue was such a caring soul.  I feel blessed to have gotten to know her.  She cut my hair and everyone asked me" who cuts your hair?"  " I just love your hair"I referred a lot of people to her.  She was much more than a hair stylist to me.  She talked to me about my daughter and supported me through a tough time.  We talked about yoga, recovery, and life.  I am saddened that she was in so much pain but I know now her pain is gone and she is free! Our pain of missing her begins.  My prayers go up for all her friends and family.  
Love and Light
Lora Weiss

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