Thomas Xie

With broken hearts, we share the loss of our beloved Thomas, who passed away at the age of 20 following complications from a surgical procedure to treat his epilepsy.

Thomas was a gentle, kind, and soft-spoken young man whose quiet presence brought people together. He had a remarkable way of making others feel cared for and valued, always showing patience, compassion, and genuine concern for those around him.

A devoted Christian, Thomas’s faith was at the center of his life. He faithfully read the Bible every night before bed, and his love for God guided the way he lived, served, and loved others.

From an early age, Thomas had an extraordinary love for animals and nature. He was a devoted fan of Wild Kratts and Planet Earth and loved reading and learning about wildlife. During his daily walks and runs along the neighborhood trail, he photographed the animals, birds, and insects he encountered. His phone became a beautiful record of the natural world that fascinated him, and his deep knowledge of animals often amazed those around him. Thomas greatly admired Sir David Attenborough and hoped one day to have his favorite book, Life on Earth, autographed by him—a cherished dream he carried with him.

Thomas also loved LEGO, Star Wars figures, spaceships, and music. He played violin and bass, performed with a community orchestra, and shared his musical gifts by playing bass in his church band.

Diagnosed with infantile spasms as a baby and later with epilepsy, Thomas faced significant challenges throughout his life. Yet he met each one with courage, perseverance, and determination. He was a straight-A student and a dedicated leader at his community college, serving as student council secretary, treasurer, and vice president. He had recently been accepted to UCLA, where he planned to study psychology.

Thomas found great joy in serving others. He volunteered through his church and at local food banks, taught math enrichment camps for five consecutive years, and served as a media coordinator for the Epilepsy Foundation of Northern California. He also volunteered at epilepsy awareness events and summer camps, helping support children and families affected by epilepsy. Through his kindness and service, he made a lasting difference in many lives.

Above all, Thomas was a beloved son, grandson, and devoted older brother. He shared an especially close bond with his younger brother and treasured his relationship with his grandparents, whom he often called or messaged simply to say hello and good night. These small but meaningful acts reflected the love and thoughtfulness that defined him.

Thomas’s life was far too short, but the love he gave, the faith he lived, and the kindness he shared will continue to inspire everyone who knew him. His gentle spirit, compassionate heart, and quiet light will remain with us forever. He will be loved and missed beyond measure.

Thomas is survived by his loving parents, his beloved younger brother, his grandmothers, and many aunts, uncles, cousins, and extended family members who loved him deeply.

A private family memorial service honoring Thomas's life will be held on August 7, 2026. Additional details will be shared with family and close friends.