Robert Michael O'Hare

March 25, 1946April 11, 2019

Robert M. O'Hare , age 73, passed away peacefully on April 11, 2019, on Cape Cod, MA.

Robert is survived by his children, Son, Scott J. O'Hare and wife, Kelly O'Hare of Sandwich, MA. Daughter, Kimberly J. Brubaker and husband, Craig D. Brubaker Sr. of Forestdale, MA. Son, Matthew P. O'Hare and daughter, Katie E. Wright and husband, Scott H. Wright of Centerville, MA. his 11 grandchildren, Zachary S. O'Hare and significant other, Corinne King of Plymouth, MA. Craig D. Brubaker Jr. and wife, Meredith Brubaker of Fort Worth, TX. Kyle J. Brubaker of Woodinville, WA. Amber Belledue and husband, Joseph Belledue of Chilmark, MA. Mitchell R. Brubaker, Emily K. Brubaker, Ethan T. Brubaker, Lily G. Brubaker and Owen M. Brubaker all of Forestdale, MA. Brooke E. Wright and Brayden J. Wright, both of Centerville, MA. His sisters, Peggy Safarian of Estero, FL. and Barbara McCollem of Newton, MA.

He is preceded in death by his beloved wife, Betty O'Hare of Forestdale, MA; his Grandson, Jamie Michael O'Hare, of Sandwich, MA; and his Grandson, Mark Robert Brubaker, of Forestdale, MA. his Brothers, Peter A. O'Hare of Forestdale, MA, Charles O’Hare of Somerville, MA. and sister, Phyllis Dyer of San Mateo, CA

Robert was born on March 25th, 1946 in Somerville, MA, to parents Peter A. O'Hare and Beatrice O'Hare. Robert was a great family man and a loving father. He married Betty on August 21st, 1965 and the couple had 4 children together.

His family and friends will always remember him as a devoted Father and Grandfather. He enjoyed vacations with his family, days by the pool soaking up the sun and swimming. And most importantly, he loved spending time with his sweetheart, Betty. He was completely devoted to her and missed her terribly after her passing in 2015.

A graveside service is scheduled for 11:00 am on Tuesday, April 16th, at Sandwich Town Cemetery with a reception to follow at Sandwich Hollows Golf Club. All are welcome to attend and celebrate Robert’s life.

We would like to thank all of our wonderful family and friends for their constant love and support. We would also like to thank the wonderful ICU staff at Cape Cod Hospital and medical staff at Spaulding Rehabilitation Center. We want to also extend a thank you to the incredible staff at Pavilion Skilled Nursing and rehabilitation Center along with the VNA Hospice team for their excellent care of our father in his final days.


  • Graveside Service Tuesday, April 16, 2019

Robert Michael O'Hare

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Robert Keefe

April 15, 2019

Rob, Hanging out on Waldo Ave. Diane Martin became a school teacher, Frank Bakey always a politician, George Anderson unknown, Joanne P. now in Florida, Jack P. a Mailman. A wedding dinner at the Ship Restaurant, you and I with Betty looking on in horror, assembling a couch for the living room, it came out usable and safe to sit on. Many a trips to Kelley's Roast Beef in Revere after we received our licences.
I like so many I am sure wish there was more time to spend with you both. The love in my heart and memories in my head will always be something that brings a smile to my face.
Rest in peace knowing that your children, Scott, Kimberly, Katie and Matthew along with their families will miss you, as they have their Mother. You can be proud of the family you both raised, they are beautiful.


With our love,
Robert (Bob) & Merri Keefe

Debi Lentine ( LeFave )

April 15, 2019

Dearest Scott, Kim, Matt & Katie, so very sorry to hear of the passing of your dad. My heart aches for you all. We surely could not have asked for better neighbors on Emerald Way. So many wonderful memories growing up next door to you guys. Your dad a gentle giant, a kind and funny man. His dry sense of humor will long be remembered. I loved the joking banter between him and my dad " Billy Boy " as I recall him addressing my father. And in his younger years resembling Kenny Rogers which brought out the playing of country music at the neighborhood get togethers. The love & dedication to your family always felt. May he now be at peace with your mom his greatest love & loss. Thinking of & praying for you all at this difficult time. God Bless You... With Sympathy, Debi & family