I went to go see you.  You were right there and I just couldn't bring myself to going over.  You were there for me in my darkest time and I remembered to love again.  I wish I could have been there for you but I needed to grow.  I will forever be grateful and thankful for you... for stepping in when you did.  I love you bub

I just found out. I'm crushed, torn and confused.  He was an amazing brilliant guy.  Always was there for me.  A great friend. He was there for me when I was going thru depression and suffering.  I loved him so much. My heart goes out to his friends and family

Met Xanders around 2019 off and on at MacArthur Village where I used to work as a gate attendant with so many negativity at that place whenever Xanders arrived to visit his friends he was the light to the darkness of that job he always made us happy with his endless compliments and tolerating our slow computers and then we became friends on the Pokemon Go game to trade some of our best Pokemon. I always had a great experience whenever I ran into Xanders be it at the job or at public transportations, regardless it is always heartbreaking when Mother Nature decides to take a genuine great person too soon. 
My condolences to all of Xander's friends and family. RIP friend. 

Sincerely Omar

Xander and Delilah at the Depot office in Inglewood.  May they rest in peace

Craig Wald

Xander,

I loved you. You were a brother to me and It hurts that you're gone. You werent perfect, but you didn't have to be. You just had to be you and that was more than enough. I'm sorry you could never figure that out. I'm sorry this life failed you. It's not your fault and I don't blame you for leaving us. I just wish we could have had one more day. Wherever you may be now, just know you will be remembered and loved. Thank you for the time and friendship we shared.

Rip Brother

Xander, was a very humble human being and is very sad to hear the news about him, I couldn’t believe it when I found out through my friend Manny and his brother. Xander wasn’t perfect but he had a heart and cared about others. I wish I spent more time with him and friends as well, but life got in the way. Just know that I cherish every moment I had with Xander and I’ll never forget it. Xander wherever you're at brother I love you and miss you, thank you for the memories. My condolences to the family 

Sincerely,
Tyler Marine

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Salvador Alexander Avila

May 26, 1987 – May 22, 2024

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