John C. Eforo

November 16, 1965October 19, 2012

Fill not your hearts with pain and sorrow, but remember me in every tomorrow. Remember the joy, the laughter, the smile, I've only gone to rest a little while. Although my leaving causes pain and grief, my going has eased my hurt and given me relief. So dry your eyes and remember me, not as I am now, but as I used to be. Because, I will remember you all and look on with a smile. Understand, in your hearts, I've only gone to rest a little while. As long as I have the love of each of you, I can live my life in the hearts of all of you.

John C. Eforo passed away on October 19th 2012 at White Plains Hospital. He was 46 years old. He is survived by his wife Judith Berger Eforo as well as his four children, John, Alexander, Edward and Danielle. His Mom and Sister survive as well.

Funeral visitation will be held at the Edwin L. Bennett Funeral Homes 824 Scarsdale Ave, Scarsdale NY 10583. On Monday October 22, 2012 from 7-9 PM and Tuesday October 23, 2012 from 2-4 & 7-9 PM. A funeral service will be held at St. James the Less Church 10 Church Lane Scarsdale, NY 10583. on Wednesday at 11AM. Interment to follow at St. James the Less Cemetery.

In Lieu of Flowers donations can be made to the: State Farm College Savings Plan C/O Vivian Lem State Farm Insurance Company 590 Central Park Avenue Scarsdale, New York 10583


  • Visitation Monday, October 22, 2012
  • Visitation Tuesday, October 23, 2012
  • Visitation Tuesday, October 23, 2012
  • Funeral Service Wednesday, October 24, 2012

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Joseph Liggio

May 21, 2013

I am very heart-broken to hear about my cousins sudden death.. My prayers go out to the Eforo family and hope you to see or talk to you soon...

Valerie Gryzlo

October 26, 2012

Dear Judy and Family,
I'm am deeply saddened to hear about John. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this painful time. He was a great man and father, the Scarsdale pool family will miss him but never forget him. With deep simpathy and sorrow.

John Norton

October 25, 2012

Dear Judie and Children,
John Eforo will be greatly missed by all who knew him. A kind gracious workmate, to know him was to love him. With deepest sympathy.
John Norton

Jennifer Doherty

October 25, 2012

Dear Judie and children,
I had the pleasure of working with John in the Yonkers office, when he was the CPS supervisor monitoring one of my foster care cases. It was a difficult and frustrating case, and he was always there to thoughtfully guide us on how to proceed. There were many grueling court dates, and while he had to testify himself, he was also there to offer support and some comic relief during each of my appearances. When the case was finally settled I was so touched to learn that he had taken the time to acknowledge the work that I had done on the case by telling my supervisor and manager. This meant so much, because in our field there seems to be more focus on the negative, and John made sure to recognize something positive.

I was in meetings with John last Wednesday and Thursday, where he was happily accepting complements on his smashing navy blazer. He made us laugh on Thursday when he was in the same blazer, admitting he was only dressing up because he hadn't gotten his winter clothes out!

Please accept my condolences, and know that there are many heavy hearts missing John and thinking of you and your family.

Kim Frohlinger

October 24, 2012

Dear Judie, I just found out about your sudden and tragic loss. I am so sorry for you and your family. My heart goes out to all of you at this sad time.
With deepest and sincerest sympathy,

Rosemarie James

October 24, 2012

Dear Mrs. Eforo, in my short time of knowing John Eforo I was impressed on how nice and easy going he was. He had a great smile as well as great hair. He was easy to talk to and ask questions. He made Jocelyn and I feel welcome when we started as Office Assistants in 2007 at the 137 Alexander location. We will miss him. My condolensces to you and your family.

October 24, 2012

Dear Judie and Family, Words can not express how deeply sorry we are for your loss. Through this challenging time, please count on us for support. Martine,Yahav,Natalie, Ella,Maya and Ethan

Marjorie Morales

October 24, 2012

Dear Judie,
While I worked with John, I did not know him, except in passing by, but I knew he was well liked and a nice person. I am so sorry for your loss and for your family. If there is anything I
can do for you please let me know.
Marjorie Morales

Roy Kerin

October 24, 2012

Dear Judie and Family, I'm at loss of words. I'm so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you and your family. Please let me know if you need anything.
Roy Kerin ( west palm beach)

Gwendolyn Cahill

October 24, 2012

I'll always remember how John and you followed me around in your green Camry to a million different houses. Than suddenly one day I arrived in my brand new 1995 white Camry for our shopping trip for houses. You and John showered my car with pennies for good luck. Finally one day your dream house was found on Drisler…children were born…fond memories of the love you two shared will always remain in my heart. John, a loving father and husband inner and outer beauty will never be forgotten!