Dear Doris, Apollonia, Declinda, Vivian & Perfetti family,
We are sending you our deepest condolences with Vincent's passing. It was a privilege to know him and your family with our children in two grades together at Scarsdale Congregational nursery school, Edgewood, SMS and SHS. It was always obvious how much he loved his family and was often at Davis park or playing with the kids at Edgewood School. 

Doris, I was always so impressed with you and Vincent and how you were both always calm and smiling - amazing :) 

Thank you for sharing these wonderful photos and memories of Vincent’s beautiful life. 
May God bless him and your family and may his memory be a blessing forever as he watches over you. 
🙏🙏🙏
Sincerely, 
Brenda & Brian Lilly Sr.

Vince and I met when he was at NuSkin. He was always kind and professional to me. We became friends over the ensuing months and I really enjoyed his company. I stayed in touch with him throughout his fight with cancer and he was always positive when we'd talk. I am sad that I lost a friend and mentor. I know he loved his family. My condolences to all who knew and loved him.

I am so sorry to hear this sad news of Vincent.  We worked together at AWS and he was constantly telling me how great I was at my job.  What a lovely kind great man you have lost way too soon.  We travelled to Dubai London and Seattle and many cities in the US for meetings. He always gave great advice and was fun to work  with.  He loved his girls and wife so much.  I remember when the family were moving to an Utah and his girls were going to college he was so proud of all of you.  My prayers are with you and thinking of you all at this time.  Praying for lots of happy memories and so sad for your loss of a wonderful dad and husband and friend.  Helen Winters (Oxford England)  One of the best there ever was xxx

My heart is grieving today for the loss of Vincent. He was an incredible force of good in my life.  He had a capacity to love others and help them grow in ways I can only aspire to. He mentored me, helped me grow, and allowed me to see the world in new ways. This is my favorite picture of him. Hiking. With a huge smile. I pray that his family may feel comfort today and know how much he loved them.

Vince was someone truly special. He was one of those rare people who lived his values every single day – devoted to his family, grounded in his faith, and always looking for ways to lift others up and make things better.

As a mentor, he had a gift for seeing potential in people and helping them reach for that potential. His guidance shaped not just careers, but lives. He taught by example what it means to lead with integrity and genuine care for others.

The impact he made – on his family, his colleagues, and everyone whose life he touched – will continue to ripple outward. We will miss him, but he left behind a legacy that truly matters.

My condolences to the Perfetti family for their loss. I pray for strength during this period of grieving. Though I worked with Vincent for only a short while, his authenticity and conviction resonated with me. May he rest in peace.

Vincent shared himself completely and freely. I had the distinct privilege of Vincent mentoring and guiding me. He was kind, encouraging, and intuitive, but firm and willing to truly push others to be the best they could be. I am beyond grateful that I had the opportunity to spend time with him.  Without a doubt he left his mark on the world and those that were fortunate enough to know him. Anyone who touches people the way Vincent did should be proud. 

My love is with Vincent’s family. 

Zack

Vince and I took our first international work trip to Shanghai with Nu Skin, and he never stopped thinking about his family.    Vince saw this Hippo and immediately said take my picture, my girls will love this!      He was like a brother to me, after my brother passed and he was a devoted father and husband.   Thank you Vince, you will never be forgotten.  Till the next picture we take together!

I was deeply saddened to hear of Vince’s passing. I had the privilege of working with him and will always remember his kindness, professionalism, and the positive impact he had on those around him. My heartfelt condolences to his family and loved ones.

No words can fully describe the sadness and grief I feel over Vince’s passing.

Vince is a wonderful human being and a true gift—not only as a leader, but as a coworker and a boss. His excellence, integrity, and the way he genuinely developed his people made a lasting impact on everyone outcomes and who was fortunate enough to work with him.

He will be deeply missed, and his presence and example will stay with me always.

With deepest sympathy,
Wael

Vince was my manager ay AWS. We traveled together on numerous customer pursuits, and through those experiences he guided me with patience and insight. He helped me overcome several professional challenges and always led with integrity and kindness. Vince will be deeply missed, and I’m grateful for the impact he had on my journey.

I wanted to express my deep condolences and the pain of losing a great leader, friend, and colleague. I am shocked and deeply saddened by this loss of a real "Gem" of a person that Vince was. He will forever be missed. I will keep him and his family in my prayers and truly hope that Vince's loving memories can help his loved ones cope with the loss.

Regards,
Anurag Thakor
AWS Colleague of Vince.

With Vince during our Team Offsite in Amazon Web Services (AWS) in Dallas, TX. Vince was one of the best managers in my 26 year career and I will sorely miss him. He took me under his wings while I was not having a great time at AWS and since then I never had to look back. I am so grateful for Vince and his generosity. He was a great mentor as well. He and his Family will be in my prayers.
- Anurag Thakor, AWS

At our Amazon Web Services (AWS) Team Event in Dallas in 2022. It was so much fun with Vince leading our group. I have the best memories of being in this group of Architects led by Vince.
- Anurag Thakor, AWS

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Vincent Perfetti

March 1, 1970 – February 1, 2026

Edwin L. Bennett Funeral Homes

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