

Tommie Lou Hayes was born on August 8, 1939, to Claudie Lee and Nettie Lorene Murray.
Tommie was preceded in death by her parents; her sisters, Claudine Procter and Belle Brock; her brothers, Ray Don Murray and L.C. Murray; her son, Ronnie Brock; and her daughter-in-law, Jenni Brock.
She leaves behind to cherish her memory her loving daughter, Rita Whitlock; granddaughters, Ashlie Fellows, Nikole Lehman, and Melanie Oster; grandsons, Robert Benson, John Perez, and Jerod Brock; great-granddaughters, Kadi Horton, Tabitha Rabe, and Naomi Perez; great-grandsons, Easton Fellows and James Perez; great-great-grandsons, Sebastian Rabe and Grayson Rabe; and great-great-granddaughter, Emma Rabe.
Tommie also shared a special love for her nieces, nephews, and extended family, who will forever treasure the wonderful memories they made together.
Tommie had a true love for life and found happiness in the simplest things. She especially enjoyed spending weekends with her niece, Deta Hurst, at Neon’s, where they would dance the night away, cut a rug, and share plenty of laughter. Those evenings were filled with joy, music, and memories that will be treasured forever.
She loved exploring flea markets and garage sales, always enjoying the excitement of finding something special. She also had a soft spot for her beloved Chihuahuas and the beauty of hummingbirds.
Above all, Tommie was a patient, gentle, and kindhearted woman. She had a way of making people feel welcome and cared for. Whether someone needed a listening ear, a comforting word, or simply a friend to talk to, Tommie was always there. Her kindness, warmth, and love for others were among her greatest gifts.
Though she will be deeply missed, the memories of her laughter, her dancing, her gentle spirit, and her unconditional love will remain in the hearts of all who knew her.
Tommie lived a life filled with love, laughter, and precious moments. Her beautiful spirit will live on through the generations of family she leaves behind.
Forever loved, never forgotten, and always in our hearts.
A visitation will be held at Roselawn Funeral Home on Tuesday, October 20, 2026, from 1:00 pm to 2:00 pm. A committal service will follow in the Roselawn Memorial Gardens at 2:00 pm.
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