OBITUARY
Rachel Catherine Caprio
October 15, 1975 – March 24, 2021
On Wednesday, March 24, 2021, Rachel Caprio passed away at the age of 45, after 3.5 years of treatment for breast cancer.
Born in 1975 in Fairfax, Virginia to Hilbert and Catherine (Dempsey) Wilkinson, Rachel grew up in Oakton where she enjoyed swim team, dance, and lacrosse with her childhood friends.
Rachel attended Virginia Tech, achieving a degree in Early Childhood Education, in 1997. There she met her college sweetheart and best friend Matthew. Rachel and Matthew were married in 1999, and gave birth to two sons, the joys of our lives, Miles and Reid.
After briefly teaching Kindergarten, Rachel’s professional career was in Human Resources, working in companies in Austin, Texas, and Seattle, Washington areas. Rachel was a certified HR professional and member of HRCI and SHRM societies.
Her passions were capturing life’s tender moments through photography, experiencing live music, wandering the outdoors, and just being with friends and family. She considered both Queen Anne and Austin ‘home’, and loved to travel, with many places in Europe and beyond still on her wish list.
Winsome, thoughtful, and wise, Rachel enjoyed living in the joy of the moment while at the same time aligning her every action and thought with the big picture plans she had for her life. She deliberately lived life as if she were always on vacation – ‘lifecation’. Rachel’s authentic positivity and pursuit of living life to the fullest attracted friends everywhere she went, and inspired many along the way.
“Life is beautiful. Be sad, it’s normal. Then keep going. Don’t waste a day. Life is a ribbon of love. There was love before us, there will be love after us, and unforeseen beauty yet to come.”
Rachel is survived by her parents Hilbert and Cathy Wilkinson of Warrenton, Virginia, brother Bret Wilkinson of Henrico, Virginia, husband Matthew Caprio and two sons Miles and Reid Caprio, of Seattle, Washington, as well as several cousins, and 5 nieces and nephews.
A celebration of life ceremony to honor Rachel will be held at a future date that is safe for gathering.
If you would like to honor Rachel's memory, please consider donating to https://www.soulumination.org/
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ADD A MEMORYMargaret Wergley
April 8, 2021
Such fond memories I have of Rachael as a small child, just 6 weeks older than my daughter. Rachael’s mom and I taught together for a few years and visited frequently at each other’s homes and parks as our children grew. I remember her sweet smile and easy friendly spirit. Prayers are with Matthew and her boys, her mom and dad and brother Bret and his family.
Katie Hansen Heckel
April 3, 2021
Always remember Rachel’s smile pushing the boys in the stroller, hanging out at the coe playground, and smiling at Amy’s holiday gathering 💕. Full of kindness and strength!
Heather Johnson Baum
April 3, 2021
I just found out that my dear college friend, Rachel Wilkinson Caprio, has passed away after a lengthy battle with cancer. Rachel was a wise soul, gifted with the ability to find beauty and magical moments in everything. She had an innate curiosity about the people and world around her and was a life long learner. Everything Rachel did, she did with her whole heart. Through the years and distance and busy lives filled with motherhood, work, and memory making, we talked less frequently, but always picked up right where we had left off. We stood by each other at our weddings, celebrated babies, and visited in person, but not nearly often enough. On one of her few trips back east, it was late summer, I was HUGELY pregnant, due in a few weeks with Emmaline, and I did not feel like being photographed, but my gifted photographer friend insisted and persisted as only Rachel could. And I’m so glad, because Rachel had a way of making everything memorable and special, including that photo shoot. She left me with beautiful keepsakes and memories of a friendship I will forever hold in my heart. I’m heartsick at losing this one-of-a-kind friend and devasted for her soulmate, Matthew and their two boys. They were toddlers when I saw them last, but are so much like their mama in looks, interests, and mannerisms. Rachel’s light will continue to shine for all of us who love her. Miss you, dear friend.
Mary Prescott
April 3, 2021
This is the most sad day ever for Troop 515 as we have lost the "tiniest" Brownie to wretched cancer. I know every one of you have cried over this personal loss, as well as all your Navy friends and pals. This is so hard to accept We are all heartbroken.
And yet, "it's our grief that gives us our gratitude and shows us how to find hope, if ever we lose it. So ensure that this ache wasn't endured in vain; do not ignore the pain. Instead give it purpose. Use it." Amanda Gurman
"Remember, after all, that pain is one of the ways we register in memory the things that vanish, that are taken away. We fix them in our minds forever by yearning, by pain, by crying out. Pain that seems unbearable at the time, is memory's first imprinting step, the cornerstone of the temple we erect inside us in memory of the dead. Pain is part of memory, and memory is a God-given gift." From "While I was Gone" by Sue Miller.
And finally, from John 16:22
"So also you have sorrow now, but I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you."
May these words give comfort to all who mourn the loss of our friend, sister, family. May Rachel rest in eternal peace.
Jamie Simpson
April 3, 2021
Today I celebrate the life of my oldest and closest childhood friend, Rachel Wilkinson Caprio who passed away yesterday after a fierce battle with cancer. I am happy she is now pain free I am heartbroken but feel incredibly lucky to have grown up with Rachel during my most formidable years. I wouldn't have survived middle school and high school without this fun, warm hearted, good spirited friend. Life is too short. Take time today to appreciate life and the people you love.
Alison Sonak
April 3, 2021
Heaven gained an Angel yesterday!!!
And I lost the first friend I made when I moved to Virginia. She was a gift to me when I needed it most, a formative part of who I am. We shared a back yard, our high school and college years, and countless memories. Love you Rachel Wilkinson Caprio!!!!
Your light and beauty will forever shine!!!
Marija Danilovic Berker
April 3, 2021
It amazes me Rach that even in time of your personal suffering you found a way to lift up another person, friend or no friend. Your deeply seated goodness was beyond compare. I’ve been revisiting my memories trying to pin point the time we first met after our boys’ Lego camp. We were sitting in the atrium next to the Coe cougar chatting. And that picture of us is stored in my memory as if wrapped in golden light, full of internal bliss and calm and happiness. I thank you for those moments and all the others that followed: the laughter, the long discussions on kids’ upbringing, the books we read, design we loved, birthdays we celebrated, photos you took... so many happy memories. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for bringing me in into your circle of friends and family and for shining your light on all of us.
I so wish I could hug you right now. I love you.
Rest in peace my dear friend.
R. Bruce Morgan
April 3, 2021
This was shocking. I am so very, very sorry. Prayers for you, your family, her family and all who knew and loved her.
Peter Larsen
April 3, 2021
I’m so sorry Matthew.
Elaine Hopeck Stone
April 3, 2021
I’m so sad to learn of Rachel’s passing. I have fond memories of her from when we were neighbors in Oakton. My deepest sympathies to you, your sons, and the extended family. 🙏
Sofia Stein
April 3, 2021
A truly beautiful soul. I’m so very sorry for your loss. Wishing you strength and wisdom; Rachel’s wisdom and optimism surely to be always present.
Tanya Carlson
April 3, 2021
Oh no no no... I am so, so sorry. Rachel was pure light.
Danielle Schlage Altieri
April 3, 2021
Matt, Russ and I are so sorry to hear this. Your family is in our prayers.
Ashley Anderson Kangas
April 3, 2021
I’m so sorry for your loss. Rachel came to my fourth grade birthday party - it meant a lot to have her there since i felt awkward and shy that year. My heart is heavy for you and your boys.
Brandon Ha
April 3, 2021
I'm sorry for your loss.
Donna Marie Cozine-Mills
April 3, 2021
Matthew Caprio there are just no words. Sending love to you and the boys.
Cathy Gangemi
April 3, 2021
So sorry for your loss.
Geraldine Chin Moody
April 3, 2021
I am truly grateful that our family ended up at Coe where we had the great privilege of meeting Rachel - one of the most positive, shining, welcoming, generous, kind, thoughtful souls I have ever met. Her smiles, welcomes, positive energy and practical support made such a difference to us. Sending so much love, kindness and thoughts across the Pacific to you, Reid and Miles and all of Rachel’s family and friends.
Kimberly Easley
April 3, 2021
What tragic news Matt. I’m so terribly sorry to hear and I cannot begin to understand the pain your family must be in. Sending love and kindness to you and your family.
Liane Carlstrom MacDowell
April 3, 2021
Matthew, we were all so lucky to have had beautiful sweet Rachel in our lives! I feel empty without Rachel in this world. Rachel was truly one of my best friends for over 30 years! She loved her family endlessly! Sending you all my love! ♥️♥️♥️
Jennifer Caprio Sorg
April 3, 2021
Rachel will always be such a strong ray of light in our lives. Words cannot express the incredible mother, wife, sister, daughter, niece, granddaughter and friend she was to all of us. The beauty of her spirit will always be with us. She has always been so kind, wise, thoughtful, inquisitive, courageous, determined, patient, influential, creative, intelligent, intuitive, brave, fearless, encouraging, loving, devoted..the list goes on. Rachel’s entire adult life, she understood how to live in the moment and took the time to appreciate even the smallest of moments. Somehow, she knew those moments would end up being appreciated as powerful teaching moments or gifts later to come. She came to know them and value them as blessings. She would look for those moments, try to make memories and always wanted to reflect on them again later. She understood that in the end, for all of us, the only thing that is really important is love and gratitude for the blessings. Rachel was always counting her blessings no matter what obstacles were in her way. I believe she is at peace now, in heaven, sharing her spirit with her heavenly loved ones. Rest Sweet Sister until we meet again, “good night gorilla”.
Brittany Jedrzejewski
April 3, 2021
My heart dropped reading this. Holding you and the boys in my heart.
Xandra Harde Velenchik
April 3, 2021
So sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family.
Annie Campbell Graebner
April 3, 2021
One of the most positive people I have met. Thoughtful, always checking in on others, family focused, insanely organized, and full of light. I was honored to know this beautiful soul.
Kelly Hiltner Riegsecker
April 3, 2021
Rachel embodied goodness, positivity and gratitude. By her example, she taught me to see beauty in both life’s big and small moments and to just be present. She was marvelously deep and fun at the same time. Rachel was the world’s best listener and encourager and always made me feel so special and loved. I feel incredibly blessed to have been her friend.
Lisa Koren
April 3, 2021
I do not know what say. I had no idea, I thought Rachel was on the other side of the cancer. Now, to see she has risen to the true other side. I’m heartbroken and in awe of her strong, positive spirit and influence, and of your’s, Matt. My prayers and heart are with you, the boys and your entire family. Such a remarkable woman building a remarkable family.
Bruce Siegel
April 3, 2021
Matt, I am so so sorry.
Stacy Gould Longcor
April 3, 2021
sending love & prayers to you and your family during this difficult time xo
Elizabeth Salipante Carter
April 3, 2021
Sending love to you and your boys from Pittsburgh.
Tim Francis
April 3, 2021
Oh, Matt, I'm so sorry. My heart just sank. I cant believe this happened so soon. I knew things weren't great but I was hoping for some miracle. God just received such a kind soul in Rachel. She was always so nice. I cant imagine what you are going through. I hope some of these friends who wrote such nice comments here can be there to comfort you and your sons at this time. I feel so sad for you guys. God bless you all and may He give you strength at this trying time. I wish I lived closer or I'd be there in a heartbeat. I am just a phone call away if you want to talk. ❤
Alecia Evans-Race
April 3, 2021
There are no words to express the loss of Rachel...she was the truest, sweetest, smartest, feistiest, soul. 🤍
Christie Shore
April 3, 2021
I am as moved by Rachel’s transition as I am by her life. Her gentle, mindful and loving spirit will always be with me. Huge love to you all as you move through these moments, days, months, and years to come. May that ribbon of love continue to warm you and aid you as you grieve. If there is anything me or my family can offer you or yours please know I am here and am happy to connect❤️
Alexis Palumbo
April 3, 2021
I’m am so sorry for your loss . Rachel was a beautiful person inside and out and I have thought about her a lot since meeting in 2nd grade . We messaged a few weeks ago and she was so positive and grateful. God you have gained a good one and Rachel you will be missed and I 😘love you. Fly high my friend
Allison Smith Knab
April 3, 2021
I have so many funny memories of Rachel from high school - she was such a shining light and always had her own wonderful way of seeing the world. I'm so sorry for your loss and thinking of you and your boys.
Nicole Lapsys Mirchandani
April 3, 2021
I was so incredibly sorry to hear this news - Rachel was such a kind person and a bright light in the community. Her legacy of optimism and grace will live on. Sending lots of light and love.
Kristen Walsh
April 3, 2021
I'm so sorry for your loss. She was such a beautiful person inside and out. Wishing you and your family love and peace.
Shane Gebauer
April 3, 2021
Our thoughts are with you.
Lisa CM
April 3, 2021
I am so sorry to hear of Rachel’s passing Matt. She was a person who saw beauty in life even in the everyday things. We were lucky to see glimpses of what she saw in her photography and in other ways she expressed herself. We are thinking of you all and praying for all of you.
Melodee Barry Jamison
April 3, 2021
Rachel showed such strength and grace throughout. Her light continues to shine bright - please know you and your family will be our thoughts. Sending big hugs to all of you.
Lori Steiner
April 3, 2021
I’m so sorry sad to hear this. I’m one of the people that knew Rachel from high school. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Trygve Lofterød
April 3, 2021
I am so sorry for your loss, Matthew. Sending my warmest thoughts to you and the boys ❤️.
Stephanie Robertson Stolte
April 3, 2021
I am so sorry to hear of Rachel’s passing. Prayers for you, the boys, and the rest of her family and friends.
Ashley Flowers
April 3, 2021
We met Rachel Wilkinson Caprio during the beginning of our journey as parents. She was like a lifeline during those early days and I can’t tell you how much I looked forward to seeing her every week at our play dates. She was the first and only non- family member (for a very long time!!) that I would let keep Everett, and I will not ever forget how when I dropped him off, she met me at the door eating a plum, and told me that she and Miles had talked and that he understood Everett would need to be held when he got there because he might be a little nervous about being away from me. Her confidence and kindness filled up the room the moment we met her. I’m so grateful to have her presence in our home in a family photo she took of us years ago. I will always treasure her memory. So much love to you, Miles, and Reid.
Donata Biernat
April 3, 2021
Such heartbreaking news. Matthew, Reid and Miles, our thoughts are with you ❤️ so, so sorry for your loss.
Carrie Ann Toreno
April 3, 2021
I am so sad to hear this. I am praying for you and the boys.
Will Everitt
April 3, 2021
I am so sorry to hear of Rachel’s passing. Matt, I cannot imagine this loss for you, Reid, and Miles. Rachel brought a warmth and energy into every conversation and interaction. I am thinking of you and sending love your way.
Lori Klotz Cooper
April 3, 2021
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear of Rachel's passing. Peace and comfort to you, Matthew, and to the boys during this incredibly difficult time.
Eriko Kirsch
April 2, 2021
I’m deeply sorry for your loss. I met her at Little Friends Preschool when our oldest were in the same class. She was always bright and kind. I’m going to miss her too.
Laura Leaver
April 2, 2021
I'm reading all these memories and messages from London, the love that binds us through Rachel will always be a comfort to those lucky enough to have known and laughed with her. Teaching us to stop, listen, acknowledge and be thankful for everything...absolutely everything. I will continue to hold her lessons dear. Sending love to you all Matthew, with extra hugs for Miles and Reid from me and James, Joshua and Dot xxx
Julie Lyon
April 2, 2021
So sorry for your loss Matthew. Know that Rachel’s love and light will always be with you.
Ashley Stroup
April 2, 2021
My heart breaks for you and your precious boys! We adored Rachel and I love all these notes talking about her light and life- so incredibly true! She will be so deeply missed.
Shannon Bentley
April 2, 2021
I’m heartbroken for your loss Matthew. Thinking of you, Miles and Reid and the impression Rachel made on so many. Kind. Full of light. And grace. She will be so missed. ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Andreas Guenin
April 2, 2021
Matthew Caprio it breaks my heart to read this news. You and Rachel have been so kind to me over the years. I know how strong you are and that you will get through this, but please let me know if I can do anything to help.
Shawn Cassedy Perkins
April 2, 2021
Rachel had such a way of making whoever she was talking to feel like the most important person in the world at that moment. I miss her already. We are here for you, Reid, Miles and Matthew.
Cassandra Western
April 2, 2021
I’m so sorry for you and your boys. Rachel was such a beautiful person and will be dearly missed. Our hearts go out to you and your family.
Michaela Ticen
April 2, 2021
Rachel was a blast. Fun, loving and always ready to help out. The world just got a little darker today. Our hearts are with you, Miles and Reid.
Dina Kiyohara Ringer
April 2, 2021
I’m so sorry for your loss. My ❤️ goes out to you and the boys. 💐
Alison Tintle
April 2, 2021
Rachel has left her invisible strings everywhere by being a mother, wife, and friend we all so deeply admired. She showed us all how to be graceful warriors and the world is forever better because of her.
Katarina Mucha
April 2, 2021
Sending you all light and love, just as Rachel forever will be to those blessed enough to know her.
Christy Bates
April 2, 2021
I am so very sad to hear this. Rachel was always so positive and happy. She was very welcoming to me in the neighborhood. She will be very missed. My heart goes out to you and the boys.
Jahn David Horgen
April 2, 2021
So heartbroken for the heartache you are experiencing. May you know God's healing and life as you continue from here!
Lance Aug
April 2, 2021
Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
Mike Green
April 2, 2021
Rachel is the embodiment of love and kindness. I'm a better person for having known and worked with her. Privileged to call her friend and will miss seeing that incredible smile and the pride that always beams when talking of her family. I know she lives on fiercely within Matthew and the boys. ❤️
Jason Ng
April 2, 2021
So sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.
Colleen Judd Zahn
April 2, 2021
I had the privilege of working with Rachel at PMSI/ASURE. She was so full of light & kindness and I loved working with her. She was my friend & coworker.
I’m so sorry for your loss and hope that your many happy memories will comfort you in the years ahead. ❤️
Sean McMains
April 2, 2021
Matt, I’m so sorry. Rachel was one of my favorite people I met during my time at Origin; knowing how much she meant to those there, I can only imagine the hole her absence leaves for those who built a life with her. We mourn with you.
Danyelle O'Neal
April 2, 2021
Her light will be missed by all who had the pleasure of standing in it! Truly a warm and spectacular person❤️ has left us. Never forgotten!
Jannette McLaughlin
April 2, 2021
I will miss this special lady so much and all the gifts of herself that she blessed us with over the years.
Rachel was...
A bike ride on a sunny day-- with the warm sun shining down, breeze upon her face and in her hair, and a basket full of flowers
She was Laffy Taffy, tenacious and impossible to pull apart
And also a spring flower, full of beauty and grace
She was a gathering of birds, chirping and chattering with glee as she planned fun-loving times with those near and dear
She was Rodin's Thinker, always wondering and in deep thought
And also an architect, pencil behind her ear, carefully surveying what was before her, planning how to make it magnificent
She was Wonder Woman... 'nuff said
And alas, she was a cupboard full of spices-- she enriched all those around her, giving a sprinkle of herself here and a sprinkle there
Blessed is the one who called Rachel friend.
Rest free and in peace, dear friend.
Ruby Aguilar Ruiz
April 2, 2021
Matthew I am heartbroken to hear of sweet Rachel’s passing. I feel like we met during such a beautiful time in our family’s lives and I’m so grateful to her for being there to photograph our budding family as our Aubrey was about to be born over 12 years ago. Please accept my condolences and prayers for you, Miles, Reid and Rachel’s beautiful soul. She was an exceptional woman and one of the most amazing mommas I’ve ever had the pleasure of meeting. Our love and prayers are with you tonight here in Austin. May God’s grace, mercy and love surround you and the boys.
Kristine Tomasovic Nelson
April 2, 2021
I’m heartbroken for you, the boys...for all of us. She was one of the most genuine people I’ve ever met and the model of grace and courage.
Toby Ruiz
April 2, 2021
I am so heartbroken to hear this news. I am sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences.
Sarah Nelson
April 2, 2021
Lots of love to you and the boys. Rachel was a bright light and an awesome mom. ❤️
Shauna Diller
April 2, 2021
Reading all of these sweet messages is so comforting. Rachel gathered friends wherever she went, didn’t she? She is so loved! 💗 Her heart, compassion and optimism were infectious. Rachel taught me to live in the moment- to see it, feel it and to make meaning of it. Even the yucky stuff. She made me a better mom, a better friend and a better human being. I’m heartbroken for you Matthew, Miles and Reid, but I also find comfort in knowing that Rachel poured every last ounce of her earthly magic into the three of you. 💗
We are here for you.
Tuesdee Williams Florence
April 2, 2021
I’m so sorry to hear this news. I grew up thinking Rachel was my legit cousin! It was many years until I realized that honor wasn’t by blood, but by our parents friendship. I recall your wedding shower when Rachel shared the sentiments Matt revealed...” I will love you in Virginia...I will love you in Texas...I will love you in XXXX. It was sweet, honest, and real. Her bravery...your bravery...was extreme and honorable. We will all love her in heaven tonight and continue to love her boys (@matt) included here on earth. Rachel was a sweet soul...not fair I say.
Stacie Conway
April 2, 2021
Matthew, our family greaves with you. Rachel was such a blessing to this world and with you created such a beautiful family, home and memories. So sad. Let us know if you need anything at all. ❤️
Rebecca Smith Norris
April 2, 2021
Your family is in my prayers. Thinking of you all.
Kristi Kemp
April 2, 2021
What a gut punch, typing through tears. Jim and I knew y'all from when you first dated, and we knew y'all were equal to each other's incredible intellect and emotional depth. We were sorry when you moved from austin but loved keeping up with your life in Seattle. We are so grateful we saw you late November of 2019 when you were visiting in austin. Matthew, you will carry on fathering as if Rachel is by your side, because she is. If ever there were an old soul who has been on earth many times, it is your Rachel. Hugs across the Miles...and Reids, and we will be holding you close as we think of you and this day we never wanted to come. ❤
Chris Kleban
April 2, 2021
I am so very sorry for you and your family. Matt, stay strong and I’m here if you need anything.
Leigh Joines Chapple
April 2, 2021
Such a beautiful ❤️ woman.
Emily Henkes
April 2, 2021
Its hard to find the right words for someone so incredibly special. She impressed me so much and truly was a gift.
Jeff Salipante
April 2, 2021
So sorry to hear this, Matt. Keeping you in our thoughts.
Nicole Bonora
April 2, 2021
Rachel's friendship was a gift. Her strength and determination admirable and her fierce love of her family evident in her every action. She's left behind a village of people who love her and are here for you and the boys. Much love to you, Miles, and Reid.
Marleen Horlacher
April 2, 2021
Matt, I am so very sorry . My heart breaks for you and your boys.
Steven Matacotta
April 2, 2021
So sorry Matt, our thoughts are with you and the kids.
Tim Parkinson
April 2, 2021
Oh Matthew - I am so sorry for your loss, my friend. Your family will be in my prayers.
Ben Ritacco
April 2, 2021
I am so sorry for your loss Matthew. ❤️
Kathleen Love
April 2, 2021
I'm so sorry for your loss, Matthew, Miles & Reid (and all who loved her). Every time I crossed paths with Rachel I walked away grateful for her kindness and authenticity. Wishing you all tremendous support as you grieve.
Ruxi Golea
April 2, 2021
It just doesn’t seem possible! Today is a real sad day! We will always love Rachel, and pass on her wisdom ... toward the end she told me “relationships is all that matters”. Let’s go out there and LOVE and be kind to each other!
Meg Gallagher Brinker
April 2, 2021
I’m so sorry to read this. Rachel brought such light and made the world a better place. thinking of you and the boys.
Carissa Lentz Stephens
April 2, 2021
I hate reading this. I only knew Rachel briefly but her amazing essence shone brightly. Sending so much love and light to your family.
Bill Oen
April 2, 2021
I'm so sorry for your loss, Matthew. My prayers and condolences go out to you and your sons. I had the honor of being one of Rachel's teachers at Oakton HS. Rachel stood out for her kindness and compassion to her classmates and teachers. May her positivity and courage continue to inspire and strengthen your family in this time of grief and may her memories forever be a blessing.
Sandy Musick O'Dell
April 2, 2021
My heart is so sad to hear of Rachel's passing. You and your children are in my prayers.
Tracy Frank
April 2, 2021
Dear Matthew, my heart is breaking for you, your beautiful boys, and all who loved Rachel. Tonight I'm holding the memory of her helping me nearly 18 years ago with two fussy infants so Michael could go with you to an event at Guitar Emporium. Rachel was pure light and love. May her memory be a blessing.
Elizabeth Williams Benson
April 2, 2021
I love that we came to know each other as neighbors- and both recent transplants to Seattle from the south at the time. I will always be grateful that we crossed paths and remember her as a gentle, kind and helpful soul. We love you all.
Sarah Evans
April 2, 2021
Oh my heart just sank into my belly. I'm so so so very sad to hear of sweet Rachel's passing. Such an extraordinary human, friend, mother, wife, and daughter. May her soul soar free, liberated from suffering. Sending my deepest condolences to you, Matthew, and your darling boys.
Cheryl Faber Howard
April 2, 2021
Truly one of the sweetest souls I’ve ever known, I’m lucky to have known her. My best to you and the boys, may Rachel Rest In Peace. ❤️
Matt Brown
April 2, 2021
I am so sorry for your loss. I went to Oakton HS and remember what a sweet and honest soul she had. May you find comfort in the many memories you have. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sue Darrow
April 2, 2021
I met Rachel in austin in 1999 when I was in HR for a tech start up and she worked at Esprit staffing. What an amazing lady! She also took family photos for us and was so generous and kind when my dad passed away. It was her photo of dad we used at his funeral. I will always remember her smile and fierce hugs. She loved life and we all loved her. Saying a prayer for your family this evening that you find peace.
Jamie Adams Kaechele
April 2, 2021
I am so saddened by this. Rachel was the first friend, outside of family, I met when I moved to Austin. Such an amazing soul. I remember how you guys would tell a story, taking turns...perfectly finishing each other’s sentences. Haven’t seen her in so long but she is one who always has a special place in my heart. Prayers for you and the boys and all who were blessed to know her. Heaven gained one spectacular angel.
Susan Gibson Campbell
April 2, 2021
I’m so very sad. Rachel’s positivity was infectious and her courage was inspiring. Her love for her family shined so bright. Thinking of you, the boys and all Rachel’s friends and loved ones.
Stacey Harris Helman
April 2, 2021
Sending you, Miles and Reid so much love. Rachel is truly one of a kind, possessing such a magical mix of optimism, compassion and never ending joy. I’m grateful for her presence in my life and know her spirit will continue to watch over us.
Kimberly Molina Steger
April 2, 2021
I am so, so sorry for your loss. Wishing your family peace and comfort. May she Rest In Peace and watch over you always.
Renee Summers
April 2, 2021
I’m so sorry to hear of Rachel’s passing. 🙏🏻
Rachel Gerson
April 2, 2021
We are thinking of you and Miles and Reid. Rachel always exuded kindness, joy and happiness. May her memory be a blessing.
Misty Bassett
April 2, 2021
She was one of the brightest lights the world has even known. Prayers for you and the boys. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Dana Murphy Schott
April 2, 2021
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers to your family and the Wilkinsons. ♥️♥️
Cheryl Williver
April 2, 2021
Matthew Caprio I'm so very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family. May she Rest in Peace 🙏
Courtney Watson
April 2, 2021
Holding your family close in my thoughts, Rachel was such a gentle, kind, and creative soul.
Katy Williams Gibson
April 2, 2021
I am so sorry to hear this. The times we would meet spontaneously at the Farmers Market will always stay with me. She was a light here on earth.
Kevin Knight
April 2, 2021
I am very sorry to hear this news, Matthew. My thoughts are with you and the boys. 🤍🙏❤️
Aley Mills Willis
April 2, 2021
I am so saddened to hear this. I went to high school with Rachel and enjoyed that we both found home in the Northwest. My heart goes out to you and your boys. May time help you find your way to peace and comfort knowing she was a loving soul who made such an impact in her time here.
Dawn Wilkins
April 2, 2021
Sending love and light to all of us that adored her and held her close to our hearts, and mostly for you, Matthew, and your beautiful boys. She is a treasure and I feel like knowing her was one of my life’s greatest gifts.
Christie JP
April 2, 2021
Sending you all lots of extra hugs tonight❤️. Thanks for sharing Rachel’s journey with us and where we can donate.
Kim Talbot Viersma
April 2, 2021
I am so sorry! Praying for you and your family.
Alison Sonak
April 2, 2021
When she and I were messaging a few weeks ago over memories, she didn’t fail to remind me that “Life is Beautiful”!!!!
Grateful to have known her beautiful spirit and to have shared in a small part of her journey here on Earth! I know she will forever be a guardian angel watching over you and the boys!
Light, love and prayers!!!!!!
Heather Johnson Baum
April 2, 2021
I'm absolutely heartbroken, for you, the boys, and all who loved Rachel. We've lost a beautiful light here on earth, but she will continue to shine through those whose lives she touched. Keeping the Caprio and Wilkinson families in my prayers and sending love and wishes that all the wonderful memories you shared will carry you through the days ahead. I'll treasure the ones I made with my sweet friend and miss her wonderful, wise words and caring heart.
Beth Esstman
April 2, 2021
There are some souls that are just so far above the rest of us that they seem invincible. The absence of her joy and wisdom in this world is devastating. There are some loses that are shocking, even when we logically should have been preparing. Sending love to her beautiful family.
Karen Hein
April 2, 2021
Oh my gosh I’m so sorry to hear about Rachel. She was a good high school friend and I was so fortunate to connect with her in the later years. My deepest condolences to you and the family. May she Rest In Peace and her legacy live on forever.
Simi Denson
April 2, 2021
I’m so lucky to have shared some of life’s most intimate moments with Rachel. I’m heartbroken she’s gone. Sending lots of love to your family.
Julie Almany
April 2, 2021
I'm so sad to hear this. Prayers for the entire family!
Heather Minton
April 2, 2021
I only knew her briefly from the QACP, but she was a light. Much love to you and the boys.
Holly Duckworth
April 2, 2021
Much love to you and the boys.
Patsy Dempsey Rowe
April 2, 2021
Rachel was so kind and thoughtful. She lit up our lives and brought joy to all who knew and loved her. She was very, very special.❤️🙏💕
Elizabeth Munsen Bertelsen
April 2, 2021
I am so sorry for you and the boys. Rachel was such a fun, loving, and kind person. Anyone who met her loved her instantly. Sending so much love to you and your family. ❤️
Michelle Rozendaal
April 2, 2021
Matt I’m so sorry to see this. Happy the pain is no more but thinking of you and the boys so much. When I was reading your holiday card about Miles being psyched by his Alg 2 class I thought how much Noah would have loved to grow up near him. They are totally birds of a feather. Rachel was the most incredible mum and beautiful, loving human. How lucky we were. Heavy heavy heart. Xxxx
Margaret Gubernard
April 2, 2021
Matt- although I didn’t know Rachel very well, she was a mother and wife and the idea of that void in your life is heartbreaking. I am sending lots of love and strength to you all. ❤️
Sheila Arnold Caprio
April 2, 2021
What a beautiful picture of Rachel to match a beautiful soul❤️
Carrie Prescott Brumbaugh
April 2, 2021
Rest in Peace my friend and neighbor from down the street on Willow Green Court.
Rebecca Shores Capo
April 2, 2021
I am so sorry. Rachel was an amazing person who touched everyone with her positivity and grace.
Lena Joseph
April 2, 2021
Matthew, she touched our lives from the moment I met her at Esprit staffing agency to the amazing photos she took during my first pregnancy to our continued friendship across the miles. I always admired her fierce love and loyalty to family, her perfectionism (your Christmas tree decorations and the sugar cube houses we made one year) and her true compassion. I'm grateful to have known her. Much love to you and the boys.
Anne Dillman Swanson
April 2, 2021
I’m so very sorry. Sending you love and peace.
Paul Joseph
April 2, 2021
Oh, Matthew, we are heartbroken for you, the boys, and your family and thinking of you all.
Catherine Silling
April 2, 2021
I am so sad for all of you but grateful you had so much time together as a family to make such beautiful memories. I love you all.
Joann Granato
April 2, 2021
Oh no. I'm so sorry to hear this. Rachel was so sweet. I have known her since middle school. Prayers and love to the family.
Kaitlin Moore Rowe
April 2, 2021
Praying for all of you. Sending lots of love! I hate I never got the privilege to meet her💕 Love you all!
Andria Tusa
April 2, 2021
Matt - so very sorry to see this. Hoping you and your boys find some peace in the coming days.
Pat Sheehan LeClere
April 2, 2021
I’m so very sorry to hear this. Rachel went to school with my daughter and I taught with her mother. Please know I’m praying God’s comfort and peace for you and your family.
Francisco Artes
April 2, 2021
Matthew, our hearts are broken with this news. Rachel was an absolutely beautiful human being and we are so fortunate to have had her as a friend. Julie and I send all our love to you, Reid, and Miles. Our most heartfelt condolence to your entire family. And yes, it is very hard to type this through all the tears.
Victoria McKeever Humphrey
April 2, 2021
She was beautiful inside and out. My heart goes out to you and the boys. Know that you have been, and will continue to be in my prayers.
Katy Hall
April 2, 2021
I am so so sad, but so grateful for the light she brought to everyone around her. Holding you, Miles and Reid in my heart.
Katie Hillegeist Quick
April 2, 2021
I’m so sorry. What an amazing lady. I’ve known her since I was 5.. may she Rest In Peace forever. I’m so sorry for your loss, she fought hard and helped us all learn more about this awful disease.
Kelsey Gerhard
April 2, 2021
I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending love to her family, and I will remember her sweetness always.
Shannon Wicke
April 2, 2021
Rachel brought such joy and light to all who had the great privilege to cross paths with her. Her love of life shined bright in her smile and was infectious. I feel so fortunate that our kids were graced by Rachel's kindness and warmth on so many occasions, whether that be at drop off or pick up at Coe, classroom parties, during baseball games or at Coach Paul's house during pitching lessons. From the first day I met Rachel, I admired her positivity. She was always so generous with her time, sharing of her heart and so giving of her love to all who surrounded her. We feel blessed to have had our lives cross paths, and will carry these lessons of generosity and warmth with us.
Rachel's love for Matthew, Miles and Reid exuded from her and her kind soul will carry on through them. We are here for you.
With much love,
The Wicke's
Anne Altieri
April 1, 2021
We are so sorry about the loss of your beautiful Rachel. She was exceptional. You and Russ were roommates at Virginia Tech for five years excluding your co-op time. You were in Russ and Danielle’s wedding in 1999, here in N.C., and you brought Rachel with you. She was so lovely. She and I spent several hours together during the course of your visit, and, at one point, just before the wedding hour, Rachel and I realized that the two of us had been left here at the house as everyone else had gone in limos to the church and our cars were also gone. After a bit of panic, and finding your car keys, sweet Rachel said “no worries” and she drove me, the mother of the groom, in your car to the church, and we made it on time! Just a happy precious memory. We send our love and prayers that our faithful God will shower you all with His comfort, love and peace as you go through your lives ahead.
Becky Stewart
April 1, 2021
Matthew and boys, I'm so very sorry for the passing of your sweet Rachel. Even though there were many miles between us and many years in between the times we would see each other, we would pick up right where we left off the next time we were together. My boys and I were going on an Alaskan cruise leaving out of Seattle several years ago and she took the time out of her busy schedule to come to our hotel lobby and visit with me. I have a sweet picture to remind me of that special time.
You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love and hugs to you all,.
Becky Stewart
Liane MacDowell
March 31, 2021
My dear sweet Rachel! We love you so deeply! You walked into our life when you were 12; I was 32. And we became best friends forever! There is so much I am thankful for - and I am especially thankful for the love, care, and friendship that you brought. You cared for our children and there was no one else who I trusted more with my babies, than you! Keira, Reed, Daren, Dana and Callie are forever touched by their many experiences with you! I can still hear them all chime in when I’d tell them that Rachel was babysitting. “Rachel!!!”, they would all scream with delight! But little did I know that over more than 30 years that you would be one of my very best friends for life! You have a knack, of always making me feel so important! I hope that I have the knack too, because you are so so important to me! Sooo many heart to heart talks! Sooo many laughs! Sooo many tears! You are always in my heart and soul! I love you and I am so lucky to have you as my best friend! ♥️
Elisa Ford
March 30, 2021
Rachel was such a light. As our boys went through school we often volunteered together. She always had a way of making me (and everyone she came into contact with) feel cared for. She was so present in what she did, so compassionate and thoughtful in her approach to everything. On walks after she learned she was ill, she dealt honestly with the difficulties and fears but chose to focus on the positive things, little moments of joy with her boys, and new fun challenges. Her deep love for her boys and the careful way she helped them manage the strain around her illness to keep them in joy and love were absolutely amazing to see. Decorating the atrium at Coe the last Monster Mash (Halloween party) before COVID, we talked for a long time about one day forming a leadership group for women. She was so passionate about illuminating people's strengths, helping them find connection. Kind, wise, and present. Rachel- you touched so many my friend- and your love will continue in everyone who was lucky enough to know you.
Caren Upshaw
March 30, 2021
Jim and I met Rachel when she and Matthew were dating! She was as wise and mature as a young woman as she was her whole life. There have been a thousand descriptions of her that all fit perfectly, but words are only a part of the equation. Her aura of knowingness and love were evident in the air she breathed and the smile she beamed. Our hearts break because we are human. There is more, and I love the ribbon of love that goes on. May it wrap around the hearts of all who love her.
Simi Denson
March 30, 2021
Our paths crossed briefly, but in the most intimate ways-- Rachel photographed my daughter Mariela's birth and I photographed her labor with Miles. I am forever grateful for the joyful presence she offered as my daughter entered the world and for the honor of bearing witness to her journey to welcome Miles. We traded a handful of messages over the years, mostly staying in touch via Facebook. Rachel was always so positive and wise-- someone who you knew your life was better for knowing, however casual your interactions.
Kirsten Kendrick
March 30, 2021
Rachel was the mother I strive to be. I first encountered her through our kids' elementary school and then through Little League. My most vivid memory of her is when her son Miles and my son were on the same baseball team. She was at every game with a shirt that said, "Go Miles." I was so touched by how quietly yet lovingly supportive that was. I am honored that I got to be in her light for a while but sad that the time was so short. May she rest in peace. And may her family find comfort through the community that she helped cultivate.
Liddy Zierer
March 30, 2021
I haven't seen Rachel in many years, but I am struck by how much a person can influence your life even if your time with them was brief. When I think of Rachel, I think of her kindness, warmth and positive energy. But what really sticks with me is that when I was with her she was completely present. I felt seen, heard and valued. That is such a gift. I am so grateful for the time I had with her. I am also grateful for the many photos of my children that she captured. When I look around the house, a lot of the photos on display are ones that she took. I look at them and enjoy them every day. My heart goes out to the Caprio and Wilkinson families. I am so sorry for your loss.
Shawn Perkins
March 29, 2021
Rachel was one of the most gentle, loving and encouraging people I know. She had this way of making you feel like you were the most important person in the world when she was talking to you. She lifted up everyone around her, even when she herself was struggling. Rachel lives on in her amazing boys and in Matthew. Our community will keep her with us always as well, holding her in our hearts. I am a better person because of my friendship with Rachel. I miss you already, dear friend.
Bob Rowe
March 29, 2021
Not many times in my life have I known someone as gentle & kind as Rachel. She was the epitome of love & grace. She will be missed & cherished for as long as all of us who knew her live.
Alison Sonak
March 29, 2021
I met Rachel as a scared 10 year old whose whole world was turned upside down in a move from New York to Virginia. And Rachel...she took me by the hand on day 1, and walked me to the creek behind our houses to look for treasures!
It was the first of so many of our adventures! We’d rush through our Saturday morning chores (thank you Rachel, I still make perfect vacuum lines due to your teaching skills) and then we’d ‘create’ in the kitchen. Some serious baking flops!!!! Some delicious masterpieces!!!
From childhood to young adults we shared countless lunches together at Virginia Tech. I remember watching her light up as she talked about Matthew!!
One of my favorite Rachel memories was heading to the art store in Blacksburg. We spent over an hour in the store just enjoying the paints, sketch pads, pencils, and the endless possibilities to create from the color palette within the store!!! She was that kind of person...one to find joy in a perfectly sharpened set of colored pencils, the smell of paints, the possibilities that lay on the empty pages of a sketch pad.
Although gone from this earth, she left a piece of her in so many hearts, that there will always be a part of her still here!!
Until we meet again my friend!! I will see you in the colorful sunrises and fondly remember our afternoon in an art store!!!
Katy Hall
March 29, 2021
My heart is heavy, but then I remember that we grieve because we love. I loved Rachel’s mindful approach to life; I always felt like she was so thoughtful and purposeful, but without the angst and stress of the hyper-focused or overly-driven. Every conversation with her was a wondrous mix of delightful, informative, funny and sincere. It doesn’t surprise me one bit that so many considered her a friend and that beyond that, so many more people feel deeply saddened by her passing. The world just doesn’t feel quite so light right now, but I know that in time, we will all remember to live and love a bit more like Rachel; her memory and life will endure. So much love to Matthew, Miles and Reid, and to the many many family and friends who are missing this wondrous woman.
Catherine Silling
March 26, 2021
Rachel was a splendid and special woman. Her focus on life, family, love was evident to all. We will miss you so, Rachel. Love, Catherine Silling
Katie Rudlang-Choi
March 26, 2021
I had the privilege of working with Rachel at PMSI. She was a joy to work with - professional, passionate, wise, creative, fun, thoughtful, dedicated. A hard worker and a team player. But more than that, I got to know Rachel as a person - a mom, a friend, a human. She was so funny and always positive. She inspired me and always had great perspective. She talked about her family - her husband and boys - with such pride and love. You couldn't help but be happy when you were around her.
My heart is heavy. I wish Rachel's family and friends continued healing. She will be forever remembered.
Corinne Drumheller
March 25, 2021
Rachel was truly one of the world's most wonderful human beings. I feel so lucky to have known her at all. I am so shocked and so saddened right now by this news that it is hard to say anything at all, but I want you to know that even those of us who were not lucky enough to say that she was family or even that I was one of her best friends, she touched us. She touched all of us. She was amazing. Each time I thought about self-improvement, I thought about trying to be more like Rachel. I am sure those closest to her saw her moments of imperfection, but I was never so lucky. She was an amazing human being and this is evident in part through her amazing sons. I know they will forever hold her in their hearts. You are an amazing family. She loved you all so deeply, and rightfully so.