

Born in New Bedford, Joseph was a graduate of Bryant University, proudly becoming the first in his family to earn a college degree. Following his education, he answered his nation’s call to duty serving as a United States Army infantryman during the Korean War and was honorably discharged with the rank of Sergeant First Class. Upon returning home, he became the successful owner of Tagus Wholesale Grocery in New Bedford, a treasured local business originally founded by his father in 1920.
Throughout the years, Joseph was deeply committed to his community and was actively involved in numerous organizations. His contributions included being a member of the Wholesale Grocers Association of America and the New Bedford Retail Grocers Association. He was a three time Commander of the New Bedford Power Squadron, a member of the Boston Navigators Club, and a former member of the BPOE Lodge 73 of New Bedford. He was a retired member of the Acushnet River Safe Boating Club in Fairhaven where he was elected to the Board of Directors, served as Pier Chairman, and managed the gas dock for many years. Additionally, he selflessly volunteered and served as a member of Flotilla 65, United States Coast Guard Auxiliary.
He was an avid sports fan with a lifelong commitment to the Boston Red Sox, seldom missing a game. In his earlier years, he enjoyed duckpin bowling, participating in many local leagues and tournaments. He founded the Tri-State Professional Bowlers Association and competed professionally for many years.
An avid traveler, Joseph loved exploring the country with Florida and Las Vegas holding a special place in his heart. He cherished every moment spent in the company of friends and truly enjoyed broadening his education at every opportunity. As a lifelong learner with a thirst for knowledge, Joseph thrived on good conversation, discovering new things, and staying actively engaged in his many hobbies and interests.
Above all, Joseph loved his family dearly and treasured every moment spent with them. His legacy and spirit live on through his daughter, Mary Hardman, his grandchildren, Daniel Hardman and Laura Traleira, her husband Paulo, and their children and his great-grandchildren, Adelyn and Anthony. He is also fondly remembered by Richard Hardman who remained a close and cherished part of his life and family.
He is also survived by his sister, Elizabeth Souza. He was the son of the late Jose and Mary Alcobia, and brother of the late Gloria Alcobia and Ricardo Alcobia.
Joseph will be remembered for his profound love and dedication to his family, his lifelong accomplishments, and his giving spirit within the community. He leaves behind a legacy of enduring friendships, an unforgettable enthusiasm for life, and a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to share in his journey.
Funeral services were private.
Family and friends are invited to attend a Celebration of Life honoring Joseph on Saturday, December 5 from 1:00 pm – 5:00 pm at the Acushnet River Safe Boating Club, 80 Middle Street, Fairhaven. Please RSVP by emailing [email protected]
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