Abby remembers this day walking with Pam on the beach, gathering shells and special rocks. We will miss her so very much.

Many family memories from Christmas Eve celebrations in Leicester in our early years to reunions on the Cape.  You will be missed by so many.  Rest in peace until we meet again.

I was so lucky when I joined the “Minckler” family in 1988-1989- I married Tom and became part of the whole family.This included having Pam as a sister-in-law, how fortunate for me because through the years and all this time we were also very dear friends.
Pam was such a pleasure to be around , she had amazing qualities which always made me feel like I could share anything with her,the good, the bad, the happy and sad, and she would be there for me and understand.
Pam was such a wonderful aunt to her first nephew and niece Tommy and Tara, and then years later to Gregory. I was and am so grateful for the love, care and time she and Gary gave to Greg through the years.She shared so much love of nature and Im thankful for the time that she and Julie spent together on walks ,at Nickerson Park, with butterflies…being a great- aunt to Kayla and Thomas with Mallorey and the little ones brought her a lot of joy.. Also with my side of the family everyone loved “Auntie Pam”, the shared birthday parties, cookouts, going kayaking, and shared holidays.,the turtle gifts and stories! Also,Garys nephew Jason was crazy about Pam and so appreciated her heart of gold.
The world is such a better place for having had Pam in it and I know I have been so very blessed by having her for a sister-in- law and dear friend for so many years💗, I love you Pam, love always, Jackie

Knitter, reader, walker, kayaker, musician.  An Occupational Therapist, helping others. 
 "Place" was important to Pam.  Leicester, the Cape, a trip across country with brother Jim.  California visits and visits to Maine, and all the trips in between.  Marblehead, Salem, the rest of the North Shore, then home to the Cape again. 
Love of nature and animals, both domestic and wild, was rooted in her life.  Jeremiah, her Irish Wolfhound, a pet parakeet and many kitties. ..wild birds, chrysalises to butterflies, saving turtles.
And woven through her life were family and friends with whom she shared hugs, stories, laughter, sometimes loss, always love.  
Our loss is filled with memories of gentle kindness, a belief in possibilities, courage and an appreciation of life.  Peace, my friend.

I enjoyed Pam’s friendship with our kayak trips in the peace of nature.

RIP Pamela. My memories of you are so wonderful.
Linda

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Pamela M Trummer

October 14, 1948 – September 21, 2023

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