

Donnie was born February 18, 1935, daughter of the late Thomas de Vaux Fredericks and Ragnhild Tora Larsen Fredericks. She attended Hunter College and Fairleigh Dickinson College. Donnie was a devoted librarian at Southport Elementary School with Faye Middleton for many years. She enjoyed tennis, swimming, gardening, horseback riding, and collecting seashells.
Survivors include her daughter, Karen de Vaux Jones; a step-son, Wesley Kirby; four grandchildren, Kendall Evan Jones, Krystal de Vaux Jones, Kennan Scott Jones, and Kaylyn de Vaux Jones; two step-grandchildren, Carl McKellen Kirby and Gabriella Kirby; two great-grandchildren, Langston Allen Jones and Larsen de Vaux Jones; cousins, Suzan Van Handel, Justine Lerch, and many other cousins, nieces, nephews, and great-nieces and nephews.
In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by husband, Carl “Moe” Mumford Kirby, Jr.; a daughter, Kimberly de Vaux Jones; and a brother, Thomas Fredericks.
A celebration of her life will be held at 3:00 pm on Saturday, December 13, 2025 in the Peacock - Newnam & White Funeral Home Chapel.
Online condolences may be made at www.peacocknewnamwhite.com
Peacock - Newnam & White Funeral and Cremation Service, Southport, North Carolina.
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