December 21, 1935 – September 30, 2019
Ray peacefully passed away at the age 83 from a long illness in his Spokane Valley Home with loved ones at his side.
He was born on December 21, 1935 in Eureka, Montana to LaVerne & Cathleen Starling. Ray was preceded in death by his parents, younger brother, Robert, and great-grandson, Porter Blasberg.
Ray met his wife, Peggy Becquart, at Lincoln County High School. They married on February 12, 1953. They had six children by 1959; twins Vickie & Verna, Roxanna, Cathleen, Christopher, & Carol. Thirteen grandchildren were added to the family; Sam, Becky, Caleb (Vickie & Alan), Monica (Verna & Bob), Justin & Nathan (Roxie & John), Katrina & Sean (Cathy), Kira, Dawn, & Danae (Chris & Kristine), Rose & Nicholas (Carol). The Starling family continued to grow with the birth of 22 great grandchildren.
Ray held various jobs throughout his life. Early in his married life, he worked for Great Northern Railroad and Leighty's Sawmill in Troy, Montana. He ventured out and opened Ray's Grocery in Eureka, Montana in the early 1960s. In the late 1960s he moved his family to Spokane, Washington, and while living there he worked for Royal Typewriter, Spokane Presto-log, Powis Painting, and R. A. Hansen. Once again he formed his own business and started his own painting company. He ended his working career in the tree business. Ray developed Starling's Christmas Tree Farm, a successful enterprise which employed many family members during the Christmas season.
Humor was one of Ray's greatest characteristics. He always had a great story or funny joke to share. He loved to use his artistic abilities when working with wood. Ray had a broad knowledge on many topics and enjoyed in engaging in conversation with others. He was an honest man with high integrity.
Funeral services will be held at Thornhill Chapel, 1400 S. Pines Rd, Spokane Valley on Oct 9 at 11:00. Viewing will be held Oct 8 from 4:00 - 7:00 and Oct 9 from 10:00 - 10:45. There will be a graveside prayer service at 1:00 pm at Pleasant Prairie Cemetery, 9303 E. Morgan Rd, Spokane. A luncheon will follow at 1:30 pm at Valley Bible Church, 3021 S. Sullivan Rd, Spokane Valley. All are welcomed.
PALLBEARERS
Chris Starling
Caleb Foster
Sam Foster
John Kappen
Justin Kappen
Nathan Kappen
Kristine StarlingHonorary
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