Van, my boyfriend, husband, best friend, our children's father.  You were my back bone as from day one I'll never forget all the firsts I had with you. You showed me love and compassion, and how to just be me.  You found me on myspace and from there we would met for the first time on Nov 5th 2007 at 6:36pm and you woult ask me out on that same night. I do happy I said yes that night and all though you had a job and a active life you made me fit so we'll. I'll never for get the good the bad the ugly the birth of our each of our children . I'm proud to of had one baby daddy and a partner for the next 14 years you were loyal and had a great sprit, you was determined, and even to this day had always figured it out which I was never good at I took pride in our family of 5 and still wake up to hope to see you all. these last 4-5 years were so difficult and still even when times were so bad and we both were blinded you made time for me and I for you. I love you so so much van . There are so many things I don't understand especially when it came to our familys. They would tear us all apart and then keep me from you. Im so confused about these recent thing that had happened I don't know what to do I'm so lost. I want you back in my life so bad. Your sickness was so unexpected and even when I tried to be there I was told I couldnt. Baby our relationship we had was and is one that noone could possibly describe. Family didn't understand and because of that we would not be able to see our 3 beautiful kids Chloe, Graham, Erza. Van I promised you that I would no matter what fight for what me and you believed in. one day I will prevail and be reunited with our 3 kids then they will decide for them self. Untill then I will fi for our rights and make sure your name is not taken in vein. I love you van there's no regrets I have with you you were my love my life my reason and I'll always speek of you like you were still here..I can still feel you around me I'll never forget you my love

I'm sorry Van & family.  I'll never forget how kind you were when I first met you and your brother.   Always smiling.  A truly special person.

I just remember how kind and caring he was and always smiling. 

Dear family,
I am very sorry for this loss that you are going through. I've only met your family a couple of times. However, I could always see the unconditional love you guys all shared. It always amazed me.  
Van has the most beautiful blue eyes that lets you see in his soul. Van had so much love to give!!! He loved his children so much!!! I am very sorry for your loss & for his children. 

Dear Ken, 
I am praying for you and your family and I am so sad for the big loss you all face. 
Love, 
Janet Gillespie
Your neighbor and friend

OMG!! this is so sad news, my heart hurts. Van was like one of my own kids. Van and my daughter Shaya were best friends in high school. Van came over all the time and of course we went to his mom and dads house lots of time for dinner. Our families spent time together for dinners and just hanging out. Van I am so going to miss you...all the memories and good times. Love you my son.  If Van's parents read this please reach out to me as I would love to talk to you. 

Love to the family, thoughts and prayers.
Doug and Melanie Kincheloe

Van and zack always came over for dinner! One nite they decided to have a cheese cake eating competition! If I can remember correct it was a tie! He always was at our house and always to my mom how good her food was! Love u buddy!

OBITUARY

Van Christian Johnson

January 20, 1985 – August 11, 2020

Advantage Funeral & Cremation Services – South Hill

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