Dear Cheryl and Jack. Please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of Heather.  I pray that God and your memories will give you strength and comfort. 
Sincerely,
Judy

Tammy, I think of you every day and wish you healing as you deal with Heather's change to a different state of being. She is with you in spirit, and now she is free from everything that impeded her full expression of who she is. Keep me in your heart as you are in mine.

My angel girl, you will shine in my heart for ever. The light of your eyes will always help your mom in her hours of need. Rest in peace, sweet girl.
Joita Ganguly
North Bengal, India

I am so very sorry!! Heather was a very sweet caring person an she will be missed by so many!! An never forget that no matter what she is an always be with you in your heart!! Just like she like she will be in all the lives she touched!! you are in my families thoughts an prayers!!

Bill, Tammy… It's hard to find the words that convey the sadness I feel for your loss but I want you to know you are in my prayers. May you find the strength to get through this tragedy. God bless.

Heather your Moms heart is heavy she mises you so much, I promise you we will all be here to help her thru this hard times, she loves you so much watch down on her for you are her gaurdian angel

I remember Heather's joy at being included in our EMT training sessions. She was always willing to be the "victim" for us to practice splinting on....And we all  enjoyed doing CPR on stuffed animals and pillows.!! Her lovely spirit helped care for Betty....and  gave joy to all who met her. My sympathies to you all. She blessed us all.

Tammy, I know Heather is watching you and cheering you on as you go through the whole process of grieving and moving through it to a more complete place. Part of that process is accepting the love and support you get from your friends, and you are doing that. Please know I am here for you and pray for you every day.

My wonderful, beautiful Daughter ~

It has now been 3 weeks since I discovered that you left this world to move on to a much better one and, it still really hasn't sunk in.  I feel numb and embarrassed that I have not even had time to truly grieve your loss yet; there has been, and still is, SO much to be done (still keeping your place going and dealing with bills, over 100 Thank You cards to be written, all the problems with SS but, I know that you are aware of all of this).

As I went through this book again, reading all of the wonderful entries, I hope that you were reading them over my shoulder and realizing just how VERY much you were loved and how much you will be missed by so many.  You may not have realized how much you were cared for in this life but I hope that you realize it now.

I don't even know what else to say just now except that I LOVE you VERY much and I SOOO miss you!!

Mom

P.S.  Please stop messing with the phone you kept telling me that needed to be replaced :)

Our prayers and love are with you now now and always Tammy and Bill. This is hard on you both. Just trust in the Lord.

Gale and Joalle Dhein

TAMMY AND BILL. I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I WILL PRAY FOR ALL OF YOU EVERY NIGHT. STAY STRONG.

MY DEAR TAMMY AND HEATHER, THESE TIMES ARE VERY TOUGH ON ALL OF US,I NEVER REALIZED HOW MANY THINGS THERE ARE TO BE DONE AFTER THE LOSS OF A LOVED ONE. YOU MUST HAVE DONE MOST OF THIS TYPE THING FOR MOM AS I DON'T REMEMBER DOING ALL THE THINGS YOUR HAVING TO DO. IT WILL LIGHTEN UP THO HONEY AND THEN YOU'LL HAVE SOME TIME TO JUST BE WITH HEATHER IN THOUGHT AND MEMORY. I AM REALIZING MORE EACH DAY, HOW MUCH OF AN ANGEL YOU ARE. I GUESS MOM MOSTLY, AND ME A LITTLE BIT, DIDN'T DO SUCH A BAD JOB ON YOU THREE MUNCHKINS I MUST SPEND MORE TIME WITH YOU AND TODD FROM NOW ON. CAN'T MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE TWICE. ALL MY LOVE TO YOU TAM, AND TODD, AND OF COURSE MY OTHER MUNCHKIN HEATHER. LOVE ALWAYS OL' DAD

Tammy & the whole family,

My thoughts prayers go out to you all for the loss of your beloved Heather. As a mother I can't imagine your loss.  I pray that you are comforted in knowing that she is now in heaven with your wonderful mother, Betty, and other family members. Love and lots of hugs!

Tammy, my thoughts and prayers are with you, during this sad time. Please know that Heather will always be in my heart. Trudy Hanacek.

Tam,
You have been like a daughter to us since you were born and will always be embedded in our hearts!  Please know we share in your grief and are here for you always! Heather was a true angel and will be dearly missed. However, she now floats with the rest of the angels in heaven including her beautiful grandmother, Betty, so she is in a better place.
You, Todd and your father each shared a beautiful narrative with everyone yesterday. All of you were truly amazing. 
Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers!
With much love, Jan, George and Bruce

Tammy....Thank you for sharing your 30 year old story.  It was wonderful to learn about your Blue Rose.  I've always considered Heather special!  Such a kind, loving, gentle spirit.   There's a new star up in the heavens, shining down on all of us. Some day we'll all be reunited..Praise God!  I'm keeping you & your family in my prayers.

Tammers and Todd today was a day of love and support. I was so amazed at both your words today of the strong bond your three have and this will always remain. I have no words to take your pain away for I am still in that pain of my own with losing my sister few months back Heather live's with you both still and its just now has to be in this way even thou we don't like it. just always know i am just a phone call away nite or day. I add the photo that covers Heathers FaceBook page

I'm surrounding you all with my love and prayers and will continue to do so. 

Much love - Marykins

Tammy, my friend,
Today is the day my father was born, and now, in my mind, my thoughts of him are linked with thoughts of Heather and of you and your family. I know about missing those little things -- I used to call my Dad every afternoon from work when he was working just to chat for a few minutes. Even now, I miss being able to do that.

I have read all the wonderful entries in this guest book and wish I had known Heather. Maybe we WILL meet some day when we all meet the people and animals we knew and loved. I, too, like to think that she and Butch are both keeping each other company as they watch over you. Please know that I consider it an honor to call you my friend and I share your sorrow as if I were there in person to hold your hand and hug you. You have a lot of people who want to be with you and have to do so online. My love and prayers.
Jackie (Nicky, Eve, PupPup and the Cat Pack)

Dear Tammy and Todd, Heaven has received another angel. my thoughts and prayers are with you both.

Tammy, I wish I was closer to support you in person.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.

As flights of Angels carry her into the arms of out Everlasting Father, please remember - Love Never Dies. My prayers are with you both.

Tammy and Todd hugs to you guys so so sorry for the loss of such an important person in your lifes, I am very honored to have meant Heather keep her in your heart , as we say good bye to her today remember all the good times and lean on all of your friends and family to help you get thru this. R.I.P. Heather I promise to be there for your Mom if she needs anything

Dear Tammy, I pray for you to find comfort, strength and courage to get through each day from those of us who love you and support you, no matter what! Hugs!!!

Tammy, I hope Heather is at peace and her love surrounds you as you go through these very difficult days and weeks ahead.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts.

Tammy,  we have met through our shared love of animals.  We share a bond as mothers.  I cannot imagine the pain of losing a child, I pray for you and your family as you  find peace in the many memories you have of your beautiful daughter.  May Gods blessings be with you all.    Kim Valdes

I only knew Heather from online (hope that doesn't sound weird, but had mutual interests and found each other through them) and I'm saddened to hear of her passing. She was such a sweet woman. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Tammy my heart and prayers are with you today as they have been. Remember I am here at any hour if I can help in any way.  May God give you strength and courage in the coming days.

I'm so sorry for your loss.  My heart breaks for you

Tammy, it is a very sad day for you & family and i want you too remember the good times with her.  God Bless

HiTammy -- I know I don't know you and your family personally, but know that I am very sorry for your loss of Heather.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

My Dearest, Beautiful Daughter ~

It warms my heart to see all these wonderful messages.  I hope that it tells you just how special, loved and, cared for you were!  You touched the lives of many people.

I still can't believe that today is the day that I prepare to say my last good bye to you; it is still unbelievable to me, as it is with many.

I hope you look upon us as we gather and KNOW without a doubt, that you were loved by MANY!!

I will ALWAYS love you!
Mom

Tammy,
I was so sorry to hear about your daughter.  As a mom with 2 kids about Heather's age, I can only imagine the heartbreak.  May the good times that you shared bring you comfort, now and always.

Dear Tammy,

Words can never express how sorry we are about the loss of Heather. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts.

Much love,

Jim, Jodii and Lili Schultz

Tammy,

I am so sorry for the loss of Heather.  We appreciated her so much while volunteering her time here at Ventures.  The clients were very sad to hear of her passing.  Keep those memories of her close and she will never be gone from your life.

Melissa Denotter and all of us at Ventures.

Tammy - 

As Renee' has indicated, words aren't easy to come by for this.  Just wanted to let you know that you and the family are in my thoughts and prayers.

I appreciated Heather's humor and wit.  She always gave me a run for the money.  :)

Love to you.

Your BFF's, BFF

Jimbo

My favorite memory of Heather is from when she was a little girl. My wife and I were up visiting the family at the old homestead on Middle MacKenzie Lake. Heather wanted to visit and go around naming everyone. Capturing the memory of children working their magic is one of the great joys of life and one Ill always remember.

My best friend (aka, sista), Todd and dear family members, 

Words seem inadequate to express the sorrow felt by the sudden loss of Heather. You know I love you with all my heart and will be there for you to offer strength and support. 

I have very fond memories of Heather spanning many years. One activity I know she really enjoyed involved our regular luncheons whenever I returned to the Spooner area. She knew the routine; she knew the location; she knew we'd order our standard “chicken nachos” (along with many other snacks) – sometimes, ever so challenging to acquire but we always got what we asked for, didn't we?! 

Then there was the usual “ribbing” Heather would get from my husband, Jim and our friend Brian during our BBQs.  However, what I found particularly entertaining was how she could dish out the ribbing even better than my husband could.  It was quite a comical exchange.

Please hold tight to memories for comfort, lean on your friends and family for strength, and always remember how much you are loved. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

With love and remembrance, 
Renee

Tammy. My condolences to you and your family. I am truly sorry for your loss.
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I enjoyed watching Heather grow up into such a nice young woman. She was a wonderful girl & will missed by many. She had a great smile & a wonderful sense of humor.

I am sorry to hear of your loss.  I only met Heather a few times but she was a kind and caring person.
My deepest sympathy for you Tammy and Todd.
I will keep you in my prayers.

Dear Tammy and family, I have not known Heather in person but only trough your stories and the contact we have via facebook and email. We are so far away but I feel so close to you, though I have never met you. You and your family are in my thoughts an prayers, much love Tammy, from Greet, Netherlands XXXXXX

I am thinking about your family and saying a prayer for you during this horribly tough time. I am so sorry!

I remember Heather's first visit to our resort. She quickly became best friends with my daughter Paula as they played Barbie dolls on the cabin porch. We looked forward to her visit every year for the next 25 years. Resort owners meet a lot people and make a lot of friends. But they were one of the rare families we would actually take the day off to spend time with, horseback riding, tubing and eating out.Thanks for the memories.

He has called her home. He has made her brand new in Him. When you see each other again, you will be made whole and brand new. It will be a happy day even though today may not be so happy for you. My heart hugs yours Tammy.

I just read the guest book.  Seems as though good people really do go young.  I am glad I was able to meet Heather and for that matter you as well.  It was just a chance meeting we had so many years ago when you had your horse.  Know that I don't really know how you are affected and don't pretend to.  After all I have never been a mother who lost a child.  I was at my mother's side when she lost my brother and sister within one year to lung cancer.  I had to pick her up a few times.  I have something to send you and need your address.  Sincere condolences,

My dearest Daughter,

I know that I have already signed this but, I am finding as each day passes that I am missing you more and more!  I am discovering so many things that I hadn't originally thought of; our talks every morning, discussing shows that we both watch, shopping or picking items up for you when I was in town.  I find myself looking at the clock each morning and thinking that it's about the time you would always call.  There are SO many things throughout each day that we shared together.  There is just such a huge void in my life!
I need for you to know that you brought me so much pride and joy through out each day and that I miss you more every day, if that is possible.
I Love you SO much and you will NEVER be forgotten!!
MUCH Love,
Mom

Heather was such a caring and kind individual.  I was lucky to have her as my aide while teaching an after school class at the Elementary School.  We will all miss her so much.  I count her as a friend and know she is a shining star in heaven.

I remember Heather when I was in Spooner High School. She was so kind to everybody. Praying for Heathers whole family through this very difficult loss at this moment . May God Bless Everybody from this day forward.

I am so sorry for your loss. Heather was always so kind to everyone. She will be missed by so many. I am praying for you and your family in this extremely difficult time.

Tammy, You know i know where your heart is right now and I am so sorry for your loss.  There is nothing anyone can say to make it better.  Like I said if you need to talk, you know how to reach me.  Love You my friend!!!

Hi Tammy - I hope you find some peace at this difficult time...TC

Dear John and Tammy, I am so sad to hear of your loss. I have fond memories of Heather. As one of her teachers, I always saw her performing to her best. She had a love of reading, and was very kind towards others. My sympathies for you and your family. Kathleen Irvine

Dear Tammy, you and Heather are in my prayers. Love, Mary Lou C, Rock Island

Tammy, I am so sorry for your loss, my dear friend. Please let me know if there is anything I can do. I will pray for you and your family and you will be in my thoughts.
Jackie Cassada

So very sorry Tammy.  It is unnatural for a parent to buy a child and the pain and loss seems unbearable.  If I can help in any way, please let me know.  You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers.     Rose

Dear Tammy, I wish I could give you a big hug.
Peggy, Rochester, NY

Sadness galore - thank goodness you have such wonderful friends and relatives, and especially the "BGA", to help you through these very sad times.

                                                                                           Glishy

Continuing to hold you and Todd in my prayers at the loss of your daughter, Heather- Tony and Emily will be coming for the funeral , and I will be there in spirit! Peace and blessings as you travel through your journey of grief- it ebbs and flows, as all of life- take care of yourself-     Terry Alewine

Tammy, I too am so sorry.  It is so sad.  Again, if there is anything we can please do not be afraid to let us know.

My condolences to the Hartwig family.....losing someone is never easy but so young seems unfair.  She was a lovely woman and she did so much for everyone.  I hope the wonderful memories you have will sustain you in the time ahead....

Dear Tammy, I was so saddened by the news  of Heather. It is always sad for a child to die before their parents but she is with the Lord and most likely, loving the children who have gone on before her. Her spirit will always be with you and she is with Butch! God Bless You all. Love and Blessings! Carolyn and Debi

So very sorry of your loss, she has earned her wings and will fly high and watch over her loved ones forever.  Heather is in Gods arms now and will always be held tight.  Love to you Tammy and all family members on this journey and my prayers are with you all.  Debby Amato, Port Huron, Michigan.

I only met her a  few times but she was always smiling. Butch is watching over her now.

Tammy and Todd hugs to you guys, so sorry for your loss, I am honored to have meant Heather keep her in your heart she will be your gaurdian Angel.

I am so sorry to hear this.  Heather always had a smile on her face as she walked the halls of Spooner Elementary as a wonderful volunteer.  She will be greatly missed!

Dear Tammy and John, 
We are so sorry to hear of Heathers death. I remember Heather as such a sweet little girl, playing with our daughter Michelle. My mother was Helen Marucheck and when we would come to town how Michelle would love to play with Heather. My heart hurts for you and your family. May you find peace and comfort in the Lord and the love of friends and family.

Sweet Heather,  your life on this earth wasn't always easy but you always had a smile on your face.  I will always remember your laugh. God blessed us with you and for that we will always be greatful.  You will be loved and missed always.  

Tammy and Todd we love you both and are here for whatever you need.  You are family of our heart.  

God Bless

Mike, Lisa, Tom, and Spencer

Heather she was  a cool person to be around with.

I am so very sorry to hear this... She was so loved and appreciated at our school. Prayers are with you all.

I am so sorry to see this...  She was a great asset to our students at the after-school program & will be missed by so many.  Such a wonderful, giving girl!  Prayers for the family...

Sorry to hear about your loss of Heather......sending out prayers

My dearest beautiful daughter, you will be SO missed by SO many!  I hope that on Thurs you will be looking upon us all and realizing just how many people loved you and cared about you.

Losing you will leave a huge void in my life and a hole in my heart and you will never, ever be forgotten!  I am already missing so many little things that will just  continue to pile up; our morning phone calls, discussing shows we both watch, joking about Zoey's antics, etc...

I will ALWAYS love you with all my heart,
Mom

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Heather Rae Hartwig

May 22, 1981 – February 25, 2014

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