So sorry to hear about your mother, Karen.  I know she was near and dear to you and that you have many fond memories of her long life.  May she rest in peace and may you cherish the memories forever. 

Diane Reiter

We are truly grateful to have gotten to know your beautiful mom over the past few years. Her light was so bright! She had a special touch with Keira and Quinn, as no doubt she did with other children still, connected with my mom, and I loved listening to her inspiring stories from your childhood and her life. Our thoughts are with you and your family, Alan. She leaves this world with a legacy; she made her mark on many lives including our family, and we’ll never forget her. -Steph, Ray, Keira and Quinn Tang

Harriet, with her undeniable joy, eternally reminding us to smile, do only good things and be the best you can be. No reward required. It’s in the doing.

Harriet and her much loved younger sister, of blessed memory, Marsha.

Harriett had a wonderful ability to make everyone she met feel good about themselves. 
She was a special person and her passing leaves a void in many lives. 
I think she was  the teacher we wished we all had. 
Condolences to the family. 
Best
Michael Walt

Harriet, or Mrs Gardner as I knew her in my childhood, was a beautiful soul. Kind and compassionate, smart and thoughtful, her advice to both Alan and I was always insightful. Her warmth and constant smile was infectious. Through all these years I never saw her angry. The love and care my dear friend Alan showered on his mom through her illness was unparalleled. Harriet lived life to the fullest and will be remembered for the people she helped, the love she radiated, and the life she enjoyed with others. May her memory be a blessing.

I meet Harriet again with Karen at Hugenot cabaret this year. She seemed to enjoy herself.  
It was been a long battle but now she is no longer suffering.

Harriet shared her love of life with us.  I remember the plays she invited us to, our wonderful lunches and her joy-filled dancing at our Fiftieth Anniversary party.  What we will remember most is her beautiful smile.     Louisa and Tom Bisogno

I will remember Harriet as a very lovely, kindly, friendly and giving human being with a big beautiful heart. She has gone but the memories never won't,  from the lucky people that had met her. 
 Rest in peace
God must have a very special place for you soul !

Rest in power... 
She was... is a great pillar for motivation and hope. Such a radiant smile in which illuminates the room.  Every book that I wrote and every project that I made, she always made me feel great about it.

Rest in power... Here's a woman that always spoke highly of my work whether my clothing line or my books on my miniature movies. Every time I see the woman her  smiles brightened my day. And wish anyone would receive a sense of peace, love and acceptance.

From your California Family,
We will miss our dear sweet sister, Aunt and Great Aunt Harriet.
Rest in peace and know how much you are loved.
Laura, Warren
Staci, Randy
Katie, Danielle and Quinn

Dear Alan,

I was deeply touched by your beautiful tribute to your mom. Although I never had the privilege of meeting Harriet, through your words I feel I have caught a glimpse of the extraordinary woman she was and the beautiful legacy of love, kindness, and compassion she leaves behind.

What a precious gift to have shared so much of life with your mom, and to have been able to care for her and create those wonderful memories together. The love you describe is truly timeless, and I believe that a soul who has touched so many lives never really leaves us.

May her beautiful spirit continue to shine through you, your sister, and all those whose lives she enriched. And may you find comfort in knowing that the love you shared is eternal, and that she will always be a part of you.

Sending you so much love, a big hug, and prayers for peace and comfort during this tender time.

May Harriet’s soul rest in eternal light. 🤍🕊️
Sending you love and light,
Sara

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Harriet Lee Gardner

January 15, 1936 – October 15, 2026

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