I no longer live in Alexandria but when I think of Evelyn I remember a kind and professional and attractive person who I respected.  It is always good to remember her.

I just heard the news today. May she rest in God's loving embrace and prayers too for comfort and peace to her loved ones.  I am just one of the bank's customers and yet she welcomed me as if I was the biggest one the bank has.  Since then, I would drop by  for a short chit chat.  We would jump from one topic to another mostly about our family, our travels, etc. She has given me good advise on just about anything and most of the time I follow them as they were sound and made a lot of sense.  I would miss her dearly.  Rest in peace, Evelyn.

Evelyn was my very first and only personal banker and to say she offered value every time you saw or talked to her is an understatement.  Great hugs and experiential knowledge from being a mom to then a grand mom to a woman in business who deeply cared for her "people."  She left quite an impression on my teenagers, too, when they were just toddlers.  What a blessing Evelyn was to the Lucchesi Family.   We were made better because of her of care and trust.

Evelyn's impact on the people around her was enormous for the too-few years she had with us. Not many people are as consistently supportive and genuine as she was. May her spirit continue to inspire and create community. 

Evelyn, was a warm energetic spirit who always tried to enhance the life of others. I remember playing music with Evelyn having good vibes to the Music.  Evelyn you will be missed

Geno and Dawn

We first met Jim & Evelyn at Ft Leavenworth, Kansas in 1989! Our friendship continued for several mutual assignments in the military.  Evelyn and I moved ourselves during Desert Shield from off post to on at Ft Campbell. We even had our youngest children around the same time!   Evelyn was so helpful when we moved to the DC area the first time.  I started a Bunco group and Evelyn was one of the original members of our  group.  A gracious hostess and tons of fun!!  Then we ended up in Hawaii together!  Her love for orchids came through there!  She had a beautiful gift of Aloha!!  Then we were lucky enough to unite again back here for a second time.   We both were back with our Bunco buddies!  I loved hearing her say BUNCO!  Or come on Jean it’s time... Bunco!  Oh and, Evelyn made the best egg rolls!  She would always send some home for Steve!  She was so proud of her husband and her boys!  She was so excited to be a grandmother!  I will so miss her smile!  Hugs Evelyn!  

To a beautiful, intelligent, thoughtful and caring lady. We will miss you and know that you are in God’s hands. Our thoughts & prayers to Jim and family.  

Evelyn was and is a treasure for all of us.  We were all family, and she was such a bright and beautiful light.  We miss her so much.  There is no getting used to her absence from our gatherings, but then again she really is with us, just in a different way.  We love you always Evelyn, and are comforted as you are in the best of places.  We will see you again❤️

So sorry about Evelyn, I was shocked when my sister Beth told me.  Our deepest condolences.

Evelyn was a true leader and will be sorely missed. She always remembered birthdays and special events and planned them out meticulously. She would always make you feel special and welcomed. What a beautiful and special lady. 

My sincere condolences to the family. 

Evelyn will me missed by my wife and I, she was always ready to stop what she was doing when I walked into the bank and help me. A true friend.

My heartfelt sympathies to Jim and the whole family. I am so sorry. Evelyn was truly a friend to all. If she saw you walk into an event, she welcomed you with her genuine warmth and enthusiasm. In addition to being cherished at United Bank, her tireless commitment to WEBA helped make it the success it is today. She was also instrumental in the growth and success of the Alexandria Chamber of Commerce. She made a lasting difference. 
 
She will be sorely missed not only by your family, but also by our community as a whole. Gone far too young. 
Thinking of you and yours,
Allison Silberberg 

Jim, Jarrel, and Eric,

We are sorry for your loss. We were all deeply saddened to hear of Evelyn’s passing. We enjoyed the time she spent with us all. She will be sorely missed and remains in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless. 

Your Progressive Family 

We have known Evelyn for 18 years as customers at the Duke Street bank. She was Gracious and both very helpful and kind and always professional in her meetings with Bruce and myself.  I was so happy to learn about her son’s marriage and lovely granddaughter.  

She will be greatly missed. 

Our condolences to the family 

Linda and Bruce Greenberg 


Jim, Jarrell, and Eric,

I’m so sorry for your loss.  I played Bunco with Evelyn for many years.  She will be greatly missed and always remembered.  All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.  God Bless, Betsy Rogers

On behalf of  Evelyn's many friends at the Alexandria Chamber of Commerce, we will miss her generosity of spirit, her willingness to help and advise both friends and business owners new and old who sought her opinion. She was always patient and understanding. She represented herself and United Bank in the most professional manner. This allowed her to be seen as "everybody's friend".  At the Chamber, all of us- Board and staff-loved working with her on community activities.  We also miss her gentle and calming approach to all of us. Rest in peace Evelyn.   Joe Haggerty, CEO, Alexandria Chamber of Commerce    

Jim and family, friends, customers and business associates.  It was such a pleasure knowing Evelyn and working with her in BNI and some of her other business and community activities .    She was such an extremely gracious lady!  A total professional  while being committed to her family.  She was the type of person we should all aspire to become.   We shared our  faith and I know her faith is of comfort to her family.   I know she is now directing some event in heaven with style and aplomb!  We will all miss her !  May She Rest in Peace.

No words can express how shocked I was to hear of Evelyn's passing. My deepest sympathies go out to the DeLottinville family. Please know that I will keep the family in my prayers.
May God's love strengthen and comfort you during your time of grief.

Evelyn, you will be missed:  A wonderful colleague who knew how to take care of clients with the utmost compassion and excellent service. I am so sorry and send my deepest condolences to your family. 
I think below picture was taken at the NVFS gala last year.  I recall that we had much fun with “pretend” casino.  I enjoyed our gathering for community events and meetings and am enriched by working with you and knowing you.
In sympathy 
Barbara

My thoughts and prayers for Evelyn's family as she walks on with the Great Creator.  She was a beautiful spirit who regularly brought family and friends out to see me perform. Her warmth and generosity will be deeply missed. This is a total shock as I had seen her so many times recently.  My heart is with her family...

Our sincerest condolences to the Delottinville family for the loss of your loved one.  She will be remembered as a loving and caring friend.
May she rest in peace.
Sincerely,
Baby Enderes and family

I learned of Evelyn’s passing today and wanted to send my condolences to her family, friends, and colleagues. I met Evelyn only very recently through a business transaction at the bank. Her vibrant and upbeat personality were immediately apparent. In addition to being top-notch at business, she was warm, kind, funny, and generous; she invited me to stay in touch and socialize at some point when our world became a bit safer to do that - and I looked forward to getting to know her better.  In reading these many condolence messages, I see that my instincts about her were absolutely spot-on. Our world has lost a lovely and caring soul. May her journey be easy.  

Condolences to Jim and family. Evelyn was a lovely vibrant woman, and I remember her fondly during our days on Godwin Court at Fort Campbell.  

Evelyn was a great friend to me when we were neighbors at Ft. Campbell, KY. She was kind, generous, and had a wicked sense of humor. I observed her parenting skills with her two boys and she was always strict but also so loving to them and always proud of them. Evelyn was also very proud of Jim and his hard work. The world is a sadder place without Evelyn! 

Evelyn was more than a family friend. She was, and always will be, a part of our family. With every holiday and celebration that passes, we will miss her presence a great deal, but will forever honor her memory.

Dear “Boss Lady”,

THANK YOU SOOOOOOOO MUCH! As the tears flow slowing as I type this message all I can say is THANK YOU! You hired me fresh from college in 2011 when I was going through a lot being a young father. You helped me so much!!!! You were understanding, caring, taught me the finer things about life. You are a woman with poise & grace, style, elegance,  & had no problem telling me about myself in the most loving way! I pay homage to you and others from the branch for showing me something new, and transforming me to the man I am today! Even after I left, I never left my first family VCB otherwise known as United Bank. I wanted to come back just to yell out “Boss Lady!” or ask “Where is Boss Lady Today?” All to receive a warm hug with a soft kiss on the cheek. I will miss you and always remember those values you taught me! To the family, I thank you for allowing her to love me as I was her own!
 
*cries yelling* 
“THANK YOU BOSS LADY!”

“Never a Good-Bye, I’ll See You Later!”

Much Love,

Vondell & Family! 

Such a nice person who always treated me with kindness, patience, and respect.  I am so saddened by her loss; I cannot imagine how saddened you are.

God has taken her to His house.  May He bless you as well.

Evelyn, we will miss you. When we last spoke on the phone in April 2020, I was far to imagine it would be our last conversation. I always looked to you as a mother for you and she were from the same generation.  And now I have lost you both. You were the incarnation of happiness and stoicism through it all. Always keeping your spirit up and that of others. So many memories Evelyn, that this page will not be enough. But I know I can share, the love you had for my family, my son and Jules. How many social events have seen your touch? Who is going to play the majung game with the ladies around a glass of wine to empty our stress filled bodies?  Evelyn, you tried and we were the beneficiaries of your extended hand and love. We love you back. May the Good Lord welcome you back to his home where there is eternal health, life. I know we’ll meet again. Good bye for now...
May your soul Rest In Peace!
As for Jim and the kids, may you be consoled by the Almighty himself!

I was so saddened to hear of Evelyn's passing and my sympathies go out to her family.  Although I've know Evelyn for several years in business settings, her personality, character and collegiality were always on display and will be missed.

Evelyn was an amazing friend, wife, mother and grandmother! Thank you for always being there for everyone. Love you dear friend.

It is very shoking to hear that we lost Evelyn.  I had been blessed to work with such a great person. Evelyn was not only exemplary boss, but also best friend.  I have many memories that will stay in my mind. 

I wish God give her family peace and comfort. 

I wish her soul rest in peace!!

Hanna Metaferia (former colleague)

Jim, Jarrell, & Eric,
We are truly sorry for your loss.  Our family is sending our deepest and most sincere condolences.   Words cannot express our sadness.  May the comfort of God help you through this difficult time.
With love and remembrance.
Joji, Joy and family

Evelyn was a very special woman. A magnificent mentor and friend who showed me something new each and every day. She was someone who I valued greatly and I am proud to have known her so very well. Evelyn, I don’t know what the days that come before me will look like without you but I know that there will not be a day that goes by when I will not think about you and miss you dearly. I love you.

Evelyn thank you for being so gracious and friendly when I first moved to Alexandria. My world was turned upside down, but your vivacious personality made me feel warm and happy. You will be greatly missed. 

My condolences and prayers to the family! Ev, is truly one of THE BEST managers I’ve ever had in my lifetime of working. I always told her a person like her is very rare, she is one of a kind. Her response would be “aww thank you Ki, you’re so sweet.” I will miss her laugh, her conversations, her generosity, her being proud, everything! She treated us like family and I will always cherish that. May Evelyn rest in heavenly peace!
                                                                     Ki


I send my prayers to Evelyn's family during this difficult time. I have been playing bunco with Evelyn for a very long time. She will be greatly miss. She had a terrific smile. great laugh and a generous heart. Bunco will not be the same.  All of you will be in my thoughts and prayers. Marilyn Darden

Jim,

Wishing you and your family peace and comfort during this difficult time.  Our deepest condolences.  

Bing and Vicky

My deepest confidences and prayers go out to you and your children, Jim.  
Rest In Peace Evelyn. 

Love,
Carmen

Jim, There are truly no words to adequately express my deepest, heartfelt condolences to you and your beautiful family. The memories are too vast of my dear friend to share just one! However, I will cherish each and every memory of the time I spent with your wife, mother, mother-in-law & grandmother.
May her memory be eternal. 
Lovingly,
Rosalind Smith

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Evelyn Ocampo deLottinville

March 8, 1956 – September 28, 2020

Demaine Funeral Home

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