Demaine Funeral Home


Vanessa Kehau Lee Graham

April 29, 1953February 20, 2021

Vanessa Kehau Lee Graham was born on April 29, 1953 and passed away on February 20, 2021 and is under the care of Demaine Funeral Home.

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Vanessa Kehau Lee Graham

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Debbie Karash

February 27, 2021

I’ve been thinking a lot about my good friend Vanessa this past week. We first met forty years ago when I moved to Virginia. We became roommates through my friends Natalie and Rich. We had many good times over the years, whether it was canoeing in PA with our friend Marybeth, traveling to London with Maude and Brian, playing tennis with her dad or going to the bars in Georgetown and VA. Now, Vanessa wasn’t much of a drinker, but I would beg her to go out with me, and she humored me occasionally.
Vanessa was always happy and up to try new adventures. She loved to travel and did so extensively. I was always envious of the tight bond she had with her family – her dad, Diane, Maude and Kory and their extended families. She was so proud of all her nieces and nephews. Vanessa was so happy when she met David and I know was hoping to have many more years and adventures with him. Although we didn’t see each other frequently after I moved away from the area, we always kept in touch and I will miss her dearly. Rest in peace, my friend.

Natalie Barna

February 22, 2021

Knew Vanessa through our mutual friend Debbie. Such a fun and adventurous soul. Sorry for your loss.