Patti was a beautiful soul and a great friend.  Her presence will be greatly missed at all the car club events and my family will miss her as a dear friend and supporter. I challenge anyone to find a kinder and more empathetic person than Patti.  We Love you. You will be missed.
Condolences to Bill and her family. 

Deb and Stu

Bill our thoughts and prayers go out to you !
Patti was a great supporter of ours and more important a good friend!

Hi extended cousins - John and I are so sorry to hear of Patti's passing.  I shared a birthday with Phyllis and Patti and they were always special in my life for that reason.  Really enjoyed connecting with them and all of you on our christmas rounds each year growing up.  I always looked up to the twins :). John and I are wishing you peace and god's grace as you go through this journey of loss.  Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.  Love John and Belinda Wiesehan (Blubaugh)

My sympathies go out to Patti’s family and her dear friends who will miss her greatly.  Patti was a genuinely lovely person.  She was kind and thoughtful. And she had a place in her heart for dogs.  She will be dearly missed by many.

My deepest condolences to the family of Patti Stansbrough, my Junior High and High school Classmate in University City School District! She and her late sister, Phyllis were a lot of fun! We had soo much fun at our milestone Class Reunions as graduates of University City Senior High School! She will be missed by her classmates, graduates from the Class of 1972! I know she and Phyllis  are reunited! Rest in eternal Peace my dear classmate💔💔

Bill, Joey, Liz, Debbie and Chris, I am so very sorry for your loss…

Patti and I met in  first grade at Lourdes, Phyllis too, though we didn’t have a clear memory of that time!
Patti and I became fast best friends in  7 th grade at Hanley, and remained great friends to  the mid 70’s even  though  I was not very athletic, and she was!
We knew each other extremely well for many decades. Our lives running similar parallels.  Patti’s mom had me teach Patti how to drive their stick shift, VW bus in h.s. I will never be sure why?
Those high school days Phyllis would chase Patti out of the house and we would hop in the VW for an escape from Phyllis.
We lost track of each other and I contacted Patti after Phyllis died. We have been close friends since, a friendship built on an unbreakable foundation of love and concern for each other and each others  well being. Patti had huge love and concern for family, friends and dogs.
Patti,  I am so sad. I have never known another, as well as you. I have not had another friend, like you.
I will miss you every day, until we meet again.
Much love.

She was my Legal   Clerk for many, many years. Always helpful and professional.
She got the job done.
Rest in Peace
Donna Consolino Massow
Feontenac

So Very Sorry Bill and Family for your loss. Patti was such a great friend and will remain in my heart forever. We have been friends for 56 years and played a lot of sports together with other close friends too. I am so sad. I will miss our phone catch-ups and occasional get-togethers when I came to St Louis to visit. I will miss you my dear friend. RIP Patti ❤️

My deepest sympathies to Bill, Joe and family. I worked with Patti for over 35 years. She had a huge heart always putting others first. Her absence will be truly felt, but her caring heart will never be forgotten ♥️.

My prayers are with all of you! Pattie was a was a great friend I will miss her.

Bill your in our thoughts and Prayers.
Our deepest condolences.
Dennis and Debbie McBee

So sorry for your loss, Bill and Joe. Patti and I have been friends for over 50 years. We worked together at A G Edwards/Wachovia/Wells Fargo. She was well liked due to her caring nature. She made friends wherever she went. We were Sisters of the Heart. I loved her dearly and will miss her every day. Please know that I am thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers.

Love,
Phyllis Worthen

Stray Rescue of St. Louis

Memorial Gathering of Friends and Family

Raymond and Ruth Stansbrough (nee Ronat)

William Dedeke

Joseph (Lauren) Cuff

Lisa (Jerry)Wheeler

Treasured grandmother of Brenden, Marissa, Sophia, Joseph II, Emma and Oliver.
Dear sister of Elizabeth, Deborah, Christine, the late Phyllis and Kurt.

OBITUARY

Patricia "Patti" Jane Dedeke

March 29, 1953 – January 19, 2026

Hoffmeister South County Chapel

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