Name: Hoffmeister South County Chapel
Address: St. Louis, MO

Diane and boys, although we did not know Robert well we are deeply saddened for your loss.  Please know that we are here to help in any way.

Sincerely,
Paul, Angela, Lily, and Lucy - Neighbors

Diane, Damian, Chase and Dakota, my heart goes out to all of you. Rob was a great man. I met him through your mom when we were just young teenagers. Anyone that has known the two of them has been touched deeply them. I know that your mom and day will be watching over you every minute of every day. Be strong and know that they are with you with every step that you take. 
God Bless.

To Alec and the Fister family, know that the Windsor Football Team Family is thinking of you at this time.

Diane and boys. Our family is so sorry to hear about your loss. My daughter Sara spent a lot of time with the boys when Shannon was sick and Olivia and the boys went from SJA to Oakville together. Our prayers are with you at this time and we are happy to help in any way we can. 
Jane,Frank, Sara and Olivia Mares

Please know you are in my prayers.Diana my heart goes out to you and your family.                                               your friend        Lorraine

Or prayers go out to the Oldham and Fister families. So sorry for your loss!

Our condolences to the family.  We moved in next door to Rob and the boys shortly before they moved to So. County.  Boys - may you be blessed with the knowledge that your parents are now together and joyously watching over you as you become fine young men.

Lisa Martin and Andy
Regal Place

May the peace of God be with you all at this most trying and difficult time.

Di, many thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this tough time.... "The Lake Girls"

I am deeply shocked and saddened to hear of this. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. I knew Rob a long time ago when and was old friends with Shannon. Please know that Rob will be there to watch over each and everyone of you. Butterfly angel kisses to the children.

Your entire family is in our hearts, on our minds, and in our prayers. May God grant you strength and peace during this very difficult time.

Damian, Chase and Dakota, your dad was so proud of you guys. He talked about you all so much the last time we spent some time together. There were so many people that cared about him and all of those same people are caring about you guys now. We are here for you.

We were blessed with some really good times together over the years, and we look forward to the time when we will all be together again.

Charlie, Mindy, Tom, and Brandon

Diane, We are very sorry for your loss, know that we are here for you always. Our prayers are with you and your family .God will guide you and give all of you the strength to get through this; along with everyone who loves you. ....."Judi Ruder & Cathye Accardi' ( St. Louis, Mo.)

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family. Diane, Damian, Chase, and Dakota - No words can express how much my heart hurts for all of you. Just know that you have the support of many friends and family.

To Damian, Chase, and Dakota - Know Your Dad Loved You and Will Always be Watching Over You.

Rob - You will be missed my friend.

Dock, Laura, Johnny and Alex

Diane, Damien, Chase and Dakota, We were all sorry to hear of the loss of your father/husband. May the memories that you all have shared remain in your hearts through these difficult days. May God bless you all with his strength and His peace. Our love and prayers are with all of you. Blessings, The Rund family

So sorry for your family's loss.  He was in my class (82)  in HS and always had a smile.  My thoughts and prayers are with you all.........

Diane and family....Please accept my heartfelt sympathies on Rob's passing. Please know that you and your family will be in my prayers. I pray that Jesus comforts you and guides you. Randy King.

Diane, Damian, Chase and Dakota,  Rob will be missed so much.  He was a very kind and gentle man. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this time.  My God bless you all with peace.

Diane, Damien, Chase and Dakota,   Know that you are loved and cared about by so many friends and family and that together, we will all get through this tremendous loss.  There is no way to replace such a wonderful husband and dedicated father but we will honor him by taking good care of you all.  You have extended families willing to support and care for your needs now and in the future.  Gosh I'll miss him with his loud car doing burn-outs in front of the house.   We are always here for you...just walk next door.  
We love you, 
Pam, Darren and Stephanie Vega

Rob was a very good husband to my Godchild-Shannon.They were both too young to die, but I guess GOD knows best. My symphony goes out to his Sons, Wife, and everyone else who was close to him, or even knew him...Sharon Hecke

Anyone who's known Rob for even a short while will miss him deeply. He was a great friend and father. My heart and prayers go out to his entire family.

Especially to Damian, Chase and Dakota, you boys should know that your dad's memory will live on just as strongly as has your mom's, with everyone who's ever loved them in this lifetime. You have a legacy to be proud of always, and you have many people in your lives who will continue to love and support you boys as a growing part of that legacy.

I wish I could be there today to give each of you a hug, but please know that my thoughts are truly with you.

My sincerest sympathy,

OBITUARY

Robert R. Oldham

January 17, 1964 – October 10, 2010

Hoffmeister South County Chapel

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