OBITUARY
Andrew Joseph Garney Jr.
January 27, 1939 – January 1, 2021
Andrew Joseph “AJ” Garney Jr., 81, passed away peacefully at his home on January 1, 2021 after a brief battle with cancer.
AJ was born on January 27, 1939 in Houston, Texas to his loving parents, Andrew Joseph and Lucille Jackowski Garney, who preceded him to Heaven. He was both Polish and well-polished. He lived in the Heights of Houston most of his life, attended St. Thomas High School, and had a long career working as an Instrumentation Engineer at various firms throughout the Houston area.
AJ was introduced by a friend to the love of his life, Ingeborg Mahler (Miller), and they married on May 4, 1991. He was lovingly welcomed into her family and they shared 29 years of travel, beach time, laughter, Dairy Queen stops, and loving companionship.
AJ was happiest when he was fishing, cleaning or eating fish, or simply relaxing in Galveston at his cherished Texas Campgrounds Club, where he served on the Board of Directors for 12 years. His time spent at TCC gifted him with forever friendships, and his dedication to TCC helped make it the gem it is today. AJ’s heart was as large and deep as the Gulf of Mexico, which he dearly loved.
AJ will always be remembered for his keen sense of humor, his storytelling, and his infectious, hearty laughter. He treasured telling and hearing good jokes. His outgoing nature gave him a true gift for gab and he found endless pleasure in talking to friends and family on the phone or sitting down for a personal heart-to-heart with any and all. AJ had an uncanny ability to make new acquaintances and claim them as an instant friend.
AJ was an avid reader, especially of books about World War II History and airplanes. He was a former member of the Commemorative Air Force and the Knights of Columbus. AJ had endless enthusiasm for all food, music, and getting to the bottom of a good bottle of Scotch. He treasured his travels to spend time with family in Louisiana, Arkansas, California and Utah. AJ loved animals, especially his beloved dogs, Chuy and Addie. He was greeted in Heaven by his beloved Bumper, Schatzie, and Foxy.
At 6’4”, AJ was truly larger than life. A man of honesty, integrity, strength and powerful faith, AJ has left a beacon of light for all of those he knew and loved. He is survived by his loving wife, Ingeborg, his stepdaughter Stephanie Miller, of Huntington Beach, California, his stepson Mark Miller and wife, Gina, step granddaughters, Reece and Riley, of Salt Lake City, Utah. He loved them like his own. He is also survived by his brother (in-law), Klaus Mahler and his wife, Sharon, of Hahnville, Louisiana, numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins, especially Marianne Denny of Germany whom he considered his sister. AJ is also survived by an abundance of friends, far too many to count. He will be sorely missed by his lifelong, childhood friends, those from Christ the King Church, his doctors, nurses, grocery workers, and anyone who ever crossed his path.
Visitation will be held on January 30, 2021 at 10:00 am at Earthman Southwest Funeral Home, 12555 South Kirkwood, Stafford, Texas. A Memorial Service will be held immediately after at 11:00 am at Earthman Southwest Funeral Home, with refreshments served from 11:30 to 1:30.
Ingeborg would like to thank the Chemo Angels who gave her and AJ great joy in his last weeks.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to a No-Kill Animal Shelter or to a charity of your choice in AJ’s memory.
AJ, you were too well loved to ever be forgotten. Rest in peace.
DONATIONS
- No-Kill Animal Shelter or to a charity of your choice in AJ’s memory.
Services
30 January |
Visitation10:00 am - 11:00 am Earthman Southwest Funeral Home |
30 January |
Memorial Service11:00 am - 12:00 pm Earthman Southwest Funeral Home |
Memories
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ADD A MEMORYJOSE A & REBECCA LOPEZ
January 25, 2021
I was in shock and still am to hear of AJ's passing. As a member of the Texas Campgrounds, AJ was very kind and always had a smile on his face. He helped us when we had questions regarding construction and permits. AJ was a busy man when he was at the campground; but he was never too busy to stop and speak to us when we would cross paths. We will truly miss AJ, Heaven has gained another angel.
Jose & Rebecca Lopez-N138
De West
January 23, 2021
To honor such a great spirit it is only appropriate to attend mass, pray the rosary, Ash Wednesday is important, always research and read, find the beauty in everything, fried chicken, potato salad, as well as coconut cake or pie are for picnics, and milk and cookies in a glass (haha) is always a good thing.
We love you,
Shane, De, Levi, LaRae, and Laney Mae West
Johnny Maduzia
January 22, 2021
I remember AJ from Christ the King and St. Thomas High School, nice guy. He was a year ahead of me in class. May he rest in peace.
Minerva Perez
January 22, 2021
A.J. was the nicest man. I met him only a couple of years ago. He would make Marissa & I laugh at our Friday's get togethers at Christa's place when he would say the word "chuparosa". My last memory of A. J. , he was sitting on a bench under the tree in front of their house. He was reading a book & getting some Vit D. He looked so peaceful. Sweet Inga, my heart aches for you, cause you lost your best friend. We are here for you and love you!
Maria Eureste
January 21, 2021
My deepest condolences to AJ's family and friends. Unfortunately, I did not know AJ very long or very well for that matter. I met him at TCC in Galveston, and he was always very nice, friendly and helpful. I know he is at peace in heaven and I pray that all of the wonderful memories his family have will help ease the pain of his departure from this life.
Rest in Peace AJ and thanks for your kindness on earth.
Christa Weissman
January 17, 2021
I met A.J. and his wife Ingeborg about 4 years ago. Almost instantly we became best friends.
A.J. was a kind, compassionate, good man, and a great neighbor. I will miss the little and sometimes long chats we had almost every morning when he walked by my house with his dogs. Or our Friday evening margarita get togethers with friends and neighbors. It was always such a pleasure to listen to his funny stories and hilarious jokes. Once I found out he had a "sweet tooth", I started to supply him with chocolates, cakes and cookies and he loved it.
A.J. was a great friend and I feel very fortunate to have known him.
A.J., you will never be forgotten.
Rest In Peace
Christa Weissman
Friend and neighbor
Eli Mahler
January 15, 2021
Aj
you will always have a special place in my heart and You were special in many was.
We always had good conversation with lots of laughs..you are loved and missed. May you Rest In Peace in heaven ...
Love always Eli
Elizabeth Mohr
January 15, 2021
I am so sad that I didn't get to meet him. You all are in my thoughts. Sending love and hugs to you.
Doug Barnhouse
January 13, 2021
I was saddened to hear of AJs passing. I had the pleasure of working with him at GAS a few years ago. AJ was always good with a joke, a story, and always helpful. Truly a wonderful person. I know he loved his dogs dearly, I was proud to know him as a friend. May he rest in peace.
Patrick Callahan
January 13, 2021
A J was the biggest guy in our Class and also one of the best guys in our class - always a good listener and jovial personality - he will be missed.......we were not that close; as many of the guys stuck with others from same Parish - but A J was a friend to all.....
Pat Callahan
St. Thomas Class 1956
Colleen Corcoran
January 11, 2021
Fish On Angel
“I’ve finished Life’s chores assigned to me,
So put me on a boat headed out to sea.
Please send along my fishing pole
For I’ve been invited to the fishing hole.
Where every day is a day to fish,
To fill your heart with every wish.
Don’t worry or feel sad for me,
I’m fishing with the master of the sea.
We will miss each other for a while,
But you will come and bring your smile.
That won’t be long you will see,
Till we’re together you and me.
To all of those that think of me,
Be happy as I go out to sea.
If others wonder why I’m missing,
Just tell them all that I went fishing”
Gene Gomez
January 9, 2021
I always enjoyed my conversations with AJ as we both worked in the same business and know a lot of the same people. AJ is one on the kindest person that I know of. I will surely miss him.
Lina Mititeanu
January 9, 2021
You have always been a beautiful soul and we are all so blessed to have had a friend like you in our lives.
Riley Miller
January 8, 2021
I don’t have any extraordinary memories of my Opa. All of them were normal, like watching TV at home, chasing the dog when he got loose, or playing on the beach in Galveston. But one thing I knew, was that it was peaceful, and overall just happy times.
Reece Miller
January 8, 2021
We’re going to miss you a lot, Opa. I love you!
Harold Miller
January 6, 2021
Christmas with AJ and the kids and grandkids was always a joy to behold. He was full of cheer and kept everyone happy.
I saw how much he loved all his family. They will miss him very much. I will miss him.
GINA MILLER
January 6, 2021
AJ was always a kind and loving Father-in-law. He loved to hear about the weather in Salt Lake and we had great fun when he visited us as he loved to see the snow.
He loved his grandchildren and they will forever cherish their memories of spending time with their Opa in Houston and Galveston.
Rest In Peace, AJ. We love you!!
Jackie Rivers
January 6, 2021
AJ was an amazing role model and godfather to Taylor. He took Taylor under his wing by guiding him through his Catholic confirmation and even came to the church with him. The best part was watching him teach Taylor how to fish. I remember the one time he caught a turtle on his line. The best weekends where spent at the trailer park, fishing, eating and sitting on the porch. AJ you will be truly missed, but your memories will always be with Taylor and me.
Mark Miller
January 6, 2021
From the first time I met you through the last time I saw you on Christmas day (a last blessing) I have always known three things. You were a wonderful husband to my mother (my eternal thanks), you were a kind and thoughtful Opa to my children, and a major pain in the ass (in the best kind of way) that always kept me smiling with your fun personality and jovial spirit.
I will cherish the 30 years of memories we shared together. Whether it was the grandest moments (your wedding), the saddest of times (your parents passing), a million random silly moments (like stealing cookies from the grandkids), or just the simple pleasure of relaxing and having a drink together, you been such an important part of my life and I am thankful for all the memories we got to build together.
This all reminds me of a simple quote from my favorite musical Rent to "Measure your life in love". By my count your life was more than worth living, it was a glorious success that we should all aspire to.
Rest In Peace
Eugene Yezak
January 6, 2021
I am so sad that I lost my Polish-Catholic best friend. He put a big smile on my face when I answered the phone and kept going until we hung up. He was so full of life and witty. I will miss that. We talked about everything from politics to family to fishing (both cleaning and cooking), to corn bread stuffing and homemade pear preserves. He was one of a kind and I will truly miss him. I offer my condolences to Ingeborg and family knowing the sorrow they are going through.
Your polish buddy,
Gene Yezak
Heidi Mahler
January 5, 2021
Dearest AJ... You were such an amazing man with a heart of gold. I will always remember the huge hugs I would receive when we visited. You gave such embracing hugs. I can still hear your loud deep voice saying "hello my favorite niece". You will be truly missed. Thank you for loving and caring for my Aunt Ingeborg (my Godmother) for all those years and making her so happy. Until we meet again, raise your glass of scotch for a toast! (I know you have one in your hand) Rest in Peace. Much love, Heidi
Ellen Mcpherson
January 5, 2021
Bobby and I had AJ for a neighbor in West Galveston where he enjoyed watching the ocean waves roll in......he always had a smile and kind words and I always enjoyed his company. We will think of you often.... Bobby and Ellen Mcpherson
Craig White
January 4, 2021
I worked with AJ at Fluor. He was always a gentleman and very pleasant to work with. He will be missed.
Cynthia Boyles
January 4, 2021
My heart is breaking A.J. You were the one who could make me laugh when I was down. You had the ability to make everything seem it would be okay. We shared a love of reading. I loved the way you would always said Good Evening like Lurch on the Addams Family tv show. It never failed to make me laugh. I knew you were my friend and I could ask you anything. I guess God needed an Angel that had an ability to see the good in everyone. Even though I will miss you immensely I know you are in a place without pain. And to Ingeborg my heart goes out to you because you have lost your best friend. May God give you peace and comfort in the days ahead. I will keep you in my prayers and if you need anything just ask. Love Cynthia.
Sue Holt
January 4, 2021
I grew up next door to A J on Fugate Street. AJ and I had birthdays close together, although he was about 5 years older than me and played with my older brother and the other neighborhood boys. After my Mom sold the house in the mid 90’s and I lived out of town, I lost track of the Garney family. Lucille and Andy were such good neighbors, and she and my Mom continued their many years friendship and to live in their homes after being widowed. Lucille would always come over to visit when I happened to be home visiting my Mom. She would catch me up on the news of A J and Ronnie.
Last summer, I decided to see if I could find where AJ was living on the internet. I did and we had the nicest visit, catching up on family news and what we knew about our old playmates. I’m so glad we had that conversation.
My deepest condolences, Ingabord.
Wanda & GiampierogEMELLI Gemelli
January 3, 2021
Condolence to our friend AJ be in peace end to all the Garney family we will always miss you.
JUDGE AND MRS C. A DICKERSON
January 3, 2021
Our deepest condolences to mrs Garney and and family