To my Abello family.
       My condolences to all of you. So many childhood memories with Brian. Backyard swimming pool , playing red light green light, door bell ditch, we grew up together as young as 4 or 5 years old. We did everything together like family. We lived acrossed the street and we were very ornery  but respectful kids lol... Virginia and Abie were the best parents  they would treat us like their own if Brian and Abie got in trouble we all got in trouble. We put Deanna in a tire and roled her down the street on Cabral Dr. Lol.. ohh we got in big trouble Deanna screaming and we couldnt stop her. Virginia yelled at Abie Brian my brother Mike and I.. lol.. we were so full of mischeif. I could go on and on . GOD BLESS YOU ALL.. i could write a book but for now my brother Brian ill see you on the other side and i know you and my brother Mike connected on the other side we call home with our loved ones and our  Lord Jesus Christ. ++++ Amen & Amen.

Had a few beers every night with Brian while working together in Thailand.  Spoke about how wonderful his family was almost every night.  Great guy, strong work ethic, super positive.  You will be missed my friend!

I will miss you Uncle Brian!! Thank you for always making me laugh with all of your funny jokes and always making all of us smile! We will miss you so much! I love you 🫶🏽

Uncle Brian… I don’t know how to say Goodbye. I miss you! 💔
I wish we had more time to make more memories but you were called home 🕊️
I know you’re at peace and in a better place 🙏
I will forever cherish all the memories we do have,  😔
I love you! Hug my Dad up there for me

May you rest in peace Uncle 😔🙏💔
I love you

We love u primo Brian  I will always remember looking up to you and my older cousins . I can still see you jumping off the roof of the house into the pool I was so amazed to see this before my eyes and I thought you all were crazy.  I would see you and your brother AB change over the years and soon you were hanging out with your friends playing pool in the garage all cholos . As life continued on and we all grow apart, but made our way to the Family reunions where we all shared our time barbecuing as a group together.  The memories are here with me of you and that face you would make when I didn’t know if I should take you serious or not that laugh that we always heard from you. With this said Primo Rest in peace and continue to bless and protect the familia . Rise with the Angels Primo . 
Your Litte Primo who looked up to you every time he seen u . Chono

“There are no happy endings.
Endings are the saddest part,
So just give me a happy middle
 And a very happy start.”
(-Shel Silverstein) 

Condolences Familia….🙏🏼 My heart and prayers are with yall!💞🕊️
Much LOVE!! Your Prima, Dina, from Austin, TX

Sending love, prayers, and heartfelt condolences to our family. No matter the distance, we stand together in times like these. Wishing you strength, comfort, and peace as you honor and remember Brian. With love from Texas, Eugina Smith - daughter of Cookie.

To My Abello Family Dad, Mom, Sis D And Brother Abie and the rest of the Abello  family-
I have been trying to find words of condolences but my tears every time I go to write they get in the way. I send you all a big hug as though I wish I could be there.  For me not only is my family hurting but I am not there which has made this even harder cause you want to be there for the ones you love. 
About My Brother Brian- He was a great person that I have known my whole life. I was a little girl from next door who became blessed to be apart of this family.  Brian was kind, funny  and a little bit of rebel in his own way. Always messing with Deana when we were little is what I remember most. Even though I had not seen him in years but it was always a hug when we did see each other and I was always view as family. 
I love you all and I send a hug to Mom and Dad. So, D make sure you hug Mom and Dad extra tight for me. 
May God give you peace and strength in your time of grief.
Love you all,
Blanca

Rest in peace, Primo ! Say hi to all our families in heaven. Eventually, we will all be together by Jesus side in the great garden up in the sky. May the Holy Trinity surround you with love and blessings!
Hasta Luego Primo🙏🏼❤️

I’ll always remember going to my Aunt Virginia’s house in Fremont with my mom, Laura, for just about every occasion. We spent countless days there swimming, laughing, and making memories as a family.

One thing I’ll never forget is my cousin Brian and his big smile. He always had a way of making everyone around him feel welcome. Those memories will stay with me forever.

You’ll always be remembered, deeply missed, and forever in our hearts.

Our deepest condolences to the Abello family during this difficult time. We are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.

With love,
The Rodriguez Family

To my familia gathered for my cousin Brian’s funeral. Growing up in Los Angeles with my mom, Marcela, I was the only child for the longest time but often spent the weekend and sometimes weeks in the summer, in Fremont with my northern Cali family. Aunt Virginia , Uncle  Abbie, set parent goals for me and Little Abbie, Brian, and Deana were my dream brothers and sister. My fondest memories of Brian will always be his unique way of always making me smile and laugh so hard I would cry.  He was naturally funny, he always had a funny  comment to make about things.  I wanted to take this time to let you know that I will be praying my rosary this Friday during Brian’s rosary here in Dallas, Texas. My prayers will be for his soul, the beautiful life God granted him all the family during this difficult time. I Love you all very much!!  I may not say that enough and may not live close by but you and my family there are  very special in my life. All my love to you and the family this week 🥹

Brian was married to my Daughter ,we enjoyed our great grandchildren. We had common interest as i was in the welding field to.I would stop by his welding shop in Modesto to talk with him when I came into town from the Bay area.He was a hard worker and wanted to live up to his Fathers reputation in his field of welding. He left us way to soon. We are so sorry For Your Loss.  The Ushler Family.

Sending love, prayers, and my deepest condolences to the Abello family. Brian left a huge impact on my life as well as many others who had the privilege of meeting and crossing paths with him. The example he showed as a man and role model I could look up to will be cherished and kept close to me forever 
Miss you Brian!

To the Abello family,
We can’t express the depth of sorrow we feel for your loss. Your son Brian’s memory will forever remain in our hearts. Our condolences to the entire family. Love always, Uncle Augie and Gloria

Sending deepest condolences to the Abello family family. May you have peace and comfort at this difficult time god will watch over all of you! Amen

Cousin...your smile was always infectious....now your with our Buelita and the others....hágoónee'....

My dad had the biggest heart, he brought joy and laughter wherever he went. All the memories will be shared and a part of him will live on in everyone who had the blessing of being part of his story. I’ll miss him for the rest of my life but find comfort in knowing he’s no longer in any pain. I’ll always love you forever.

We will always love and miss my dad. We will always wish we had more time with him. But we have really good memories that I will cherish forever. We will keep his memory alive. We will tell the little stories he used to love to tell. He will always be with us. I love you dad.

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Brian Kenneth Abello

July 23, 1966 – June 30, 2026

DeYoung Memorial Chapel

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