Antonette R. "Toni" Wheeler

Antonette R. “Toni” Wheeler passed away peacefully in March 2025 at the age of 79. Born in Mart, Texas, on March 20, 1945, she was the daughter of Lea Sansom Reynolds and Harold W. Reynolds.

Toni married the love of her life, L.A. “Buddy” Wheeler III, DDS, and together they built a life full of devotion, adventure, and laughter. Their 58-year marriage was one of true partnership and enduring love. Toni met Buddy while attending The University of Texas Dental School in Houston, where she earned her degree in dental hygiene. She later launched the first dental hygiene program for Fort Bend ISD, while Buddy opened his private dental practice in Sugar Land.

They raised two daughters, Lea Aden Lueck and Lindie Wheeler Gibbs, and welcomed sons-in-law Michael Lueck and James Gibbs into their close-knit family. As a mother, Toni was supportive, strong-willed, and endlessly loyal. As a grandmother—known fondly as “Gantee”—she was spirited, stylish, and completely adored.

Her grandchildren were her pride and joy: Cooper Lueck, Landon Lueck, and Rawley Lueck Pearce Council, Jacob Laney and wife Lauren, Granger Gibbs, Blakely Grace Lewis and husband Tyler, and Tatum Paige Gibbs

Toni and Buddy were avid travelers, memory-makers, and loyal companions. Whether exploring the mountains of Colorado, the coast of Alaska, the casinos of the South, or the hills of Italy, they embraced life to the fullest—often alongside her sister Tanya Lee and brother-in-law Michael.

Toni had a gift for making people feel welcome and seen. She was deeply connected to the Wheeler family in Sugar Land, sharing decades of love and laughter with her sisters-in-law Jonellen Reber, Janie Waddell (and husband Davis), and Jerry Wheeler (and wife Sam), as well as many beloved nieces and nephews.

A natural hostess and loyal friend, Toni brought warmth and wit to everything she touched. She was actively involved in the Houston Dental Auxiliary, Fort Bend County Fair, Fort Bend Women’s Investment Club, Fort Bend County FFA, and Matagorda Yacht Club. She had a passion for gardening, bridge, politics, and the occasional trip to the blackjack table. She even held a private pilot’s license—proof that there was very little Toni wouldn’t try, and even less she couldn’t do.

The family would like to thank the extraordinary caregivers from The Auberge Sugar Land and Personal Caregiving Associates for their heartfelt care and compassion during Toni’s final chapter.

Her life was full, her love was fierce, and her laughter unforgettable. She leaves behind a legacy of faith, family, and just the right amount of flair.