To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

 Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
 Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
 That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
 God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

 It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

 God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not  be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me. 

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Ben, we will miss you friend but know you'll be looking out for all us, especially Pam.  And, we are here to help her through anything that she needs. Take care and be good up there. We love you and Pam.  Larry & Sandi

Dearest Pam,  words cannot express the sorrow we feel about Ben's passing.  We were proud and privledged to have known him as our close friend.  We will miss him always.  With Our Love, Terry & Jerri

Dear Pam, we were so sorry to hear of Ben's passing. We are praying for you and want to help in any way we can. Please call if you need anything! We love you and Ben! 

All our love, Phil & Leah

Pam, you are in our prayers and you have our sympathy, if you need something please call us.  love, Bob and Luann

Pam, you don't know me my name is, Keith Wilson. I was in the service with Ben. I am sorry for your lose , " OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU," at this difficult time. I, wish I could have seen him one more time. We did talk on the phone a while back. " OUR THOUGHTS & PRAYERS BE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY"

Dear Pam..  You have our deepest sympathy.  So sorry for your great loss. With love and prayers... Royal and Vickie Waldock

We too are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.

Pam, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If we can help you in anyway, please don't hesitate to call us at anytime, day or night.  Love, Larry & Sandi

We are so sorry for your loss.   You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.  We hope to see you in near future.  

Love,

Louis and Kay

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Benjamin Amina Huihui

November 7, 1943 – September 9, 2013

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