Reed-Culver Funeral Home

117 West Delaware Street, Tahlequah, OK


Brenda Sue Holmes

October 23, 1949November 19, 2019

Funeral services for Brenda Sue Holmes will be held Friday, November 22nd, 2019 at 10:00am at Fife Indian United Methodist Church in Muskogee, OK with Pastor Richard Wildcat officiating. Brenda will be laid to rest at Greenwood Cemetery in Eufaula, OK. The family will have food and fellowship on Thursday, November 21st, 2019 beginning at 5:30pm with wake services at 7:00p.m.at Fife Indian United Methodist Church located at 1100 Eufaula Street, Muskogee, OK 74402. Online condolences may be left at www.reedculver.com.

Pallbearers for Brenda include John Wilson, Justin Holmes, Cody Holmes, Paul Gilbert, Ernesto Torres and Timothy Jackson Jr.

Brenda Sue (Narcomey) Holmes was born on October 23, 1949 in Eufaula, OK to Raymond and Frances (Lewis) Narcomey in Eufaula, OK. She attended school at Eufaula Public Schools and in Muskogee. She met the love of her life, Mr. Joe Holmes in 1965 and they were married in 1966 in Muskogee. Brenda loved to make Indian jewelry and native arts and crafts. She was a wonderful cook and enjoyed gathering her family together for a meal. She could be found tending to her flowers, always working to make her yard beautiful. She was never far from her feline companions, Missy and Kiddo; they will miss her love and attention. Brenda was a member of Fife Indian United Methodist Church for 50 years and cherished her church family. Brenda was called to her Heavenly home on Tuesday, November 19th, 2019 in Wagoner, OK at the age of 70. Brenda was a loving homemaker and spent her life showing love to her family. She will be dearly missed by them and her community.

She was preceded in deaths by her parents, seven siblings and one great-grandchild.

She leaves behind her husband of 52 years, two sons, Joe Holmes Jr. and wife Donna of Tulsa, OK, and Michael Holmes of the home in Okay, OK, five grandchildren and eight great grandchildren along with one sister Anna Burkin and husband Mike and one brother, Jacob Narcomey and wife Rebecca as well as many nieces, nephews, friends and loved ones.


  • John Wilson
  • Justin Holmes
  • Cody Holmes
  • Paul Gilbert
  • Ernesto Torres
  • Timothy Jackson Jr.


  • Dinner Thursday, November 21, 2019
  • Wake Service Thursday, November 21, 2019
  • Funeral Service Friday, November 22, 2019


Brenda Sue Holmes

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