Judith Kay Allen-Roeder

May 10, 1971October 10, 2012

Judith Kay Allen-Roeder 1971 - 2012

Judith Kay Allen-Roeder, 41 years old, passed away on October 10, 2012 in Atlanta, Georgia after a lengthy illness. Funeral service will be held 2:00 pm Sunday, October 14, 2012 in the chapel of Culley’s MeadowWood Funeral Home, 700 Timberlane Road, Tallahassee, FL 32312. Family will receive friends from 1:00 pm until the service hour. A reception will follow the service in the MeadowWood Room of the funeral home. Judy grew up in Quincy, Florida and graduated from Greensboro High School in 1989. She then relocated to Tallahassee, Florida and worked for the Florida Lottery until 2001. While in Tallahassee, Florida she met and married the love of her life, Aaron Roeder in July, 2001. Judy and her family then relocated to Cary, North Carolina where she worked for the lottery as a Prize Validation Manager. While working in N.C. she earned her A. A. degree from A.I.C. in Information Services and continued in her degree until her illness. Judy was predeceased by her children, Shelley, Joshua and Madison. She is survived by her husband, Aaron Roeder, daughters, Jasmine of Norcross, Georgia and Marissa Coleman Williams and husband, Nelson, and grandson Noah, all of Oceanside, California. She is also survived by her parents Kay and Don Hamm of Quincy, Florida and Carl and Pattie Allen of Franklin, North Carolina. Other survivors include her siblings, David Hamm and wife, Eileen of Hosford, Florida, Angela Hamm and daughter Danyelle of Tallahassee, Florida, Jody Bell and husband Kevin of Otto, North Carolina, David Allen and wife, Genna of Franklin, North Carolina, Tiffany Allen of Norcross, Georgia and Anthony Hamm of Quincy, Florida. Judy was of the Christian faith and was a member of Calvary Chapel in Tallahassee, Florida until she moved her membership to Peachtree Corners Baptist Church in Norcross, Georgia. The family would also like to acknowledge the kind and compassionate care Judy received by Longleaf Hospice in Atlanta, Georgia. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Susan G. Komen Foundation, PO Box 650309, Dallas, TX 75265-0309. Please sign the guest book at


  • Visitation Sunday, October 14, 2012
  • Celebration of Life Service Sunday, October 14, 2012

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October 19, 2012

Aaron, Merissa, and Jasmine,
My deepest sympathy to all of you.
Although I only knew Judy (and all of you) for a short was God bringing us together to share His love.
Judy is now with God and living in awesome for her.

May God's strength and peace be with each of you in the days ahead and may all the wonderful memories you have of Judy keep you smiling.

Cindy Cummings (Apex, NC)

October 18, 2012

Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your loved one. I lost my sister in March of this year after a battle of lung cancer for seven years. While we find it hard to let go of our loved one, it is the acceptance of them no longer suffering that we must remember. My heart goes out to you at this time. Losing a daughter, sister, wife and mother is tragic but Judy will be smiling down while at peace. Angela--- Love you girl.

Gail Posey (Cookie)

Dan Dettwiler

October 17, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss Aaron and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.

Koinonia Class - Peachtree Corners Baptist Church

October 16, 2012

We only knew you for a short time, but your courage and faith was an inspiration to us all. May you rest in perfect peace and comfort in the arms of Jesus.


Sheree' Graves

October 16, 2012

Judy, your love, compassion, smile, laugh and caring heart will always be with me. I remember you telling me "I'm not going through this for me". I remember seeing you in pain but yet you still managed to make me laugh. You will always be my warrior sister and always live in my heart. You're gone naturally but still here with us spiritually. By now you've probably had Jesus and others laughing. Love you forever girlfriend. Aaron you most definitely exemplified what true love should be like between a husband and wife.

October 16, 2012

I am deeply sorry for the loss of your dear loved one. May God's love comfort and strengthen your family during this difficult time John 16:22

October 16, 2012

"Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints". Psalm 116:15
The fight was long and the strength Judy passed on to others was remarkable. So now your struggle is over and your victory is realized.
Jon Heath (Apex,N.C.)

Melissa Hildebrand

October 15, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this most difficult time. Sending strength and love.

Malette O'Neal

October 15, 2012

Bulldog one time Bulldog two time Bulldog all the way rest in peace Judy.

Sonja Guthrie

October 15, 2012

I will remember you always with fondness. Godspeed on your journey, Judith.