OBITUARY
Judith Kay Allen-Roeder
May 10, 1971 – October 10, 2012
Judith Kay Allen-Roeder 1971 - 2012
Judith Kay Allen-Roeder, 41 years old, passed away on October 10, 2012 in Atlanta, Georgia after a lengthy illness. Funeral service will be held 2:00 pm Sunday, October 14, 2012 in the chapel of Culley’s MeadowWood Funeral Home, 700 Timberlane Road, Tallahassee, FL 32312. Family will receive friends from 1:00 pm until the service hour. A reception will follow the service in the MeadowWood Room of the funeral home. Judy grew up in Quincy, Florida and graduated from Greensboro High School in 1989. She then relocated to Tallahassee, Florida and worked for the Florida Lottery until 2001. While in Tallahassee, Florida she met and married the love of her life, Aaron Roeder in July, 2001. Judy and her family then relocated to Cary, North Carolina where she worked for the lottery as a Prize Validation Manager. While working in N.C. she earned her A. A. degree from A.I.C. in Information Services and continued in her degree until her illness. Judy was predeceased by her children, Shelley, Joshua and Madison. She is survived by her husband, Aaron Roeder, daughters, Jasmine of Norcross, Georgia and Marissa Coleman Williams and husband, Nelson, and grandson Noah, all of Oceanside, California. She is also survived by her parents Kay and Don Hamm of Quincy, Florida and Carl and Pattie Allen of Franklin, North Carolina. Other survivors include her siblings, David Hamm and wife, Eileen of Hosford, Florida, Angela Hamm and daughter Danyelle of Tallahassee, Florida, Jody Bell and husband Kevin of Otto, North Carolina, David Allen and wife, Genna of Franklin, North Carolina, Tiffany Allen of Norcross, Georgia and Anthony Hamm of Quincy, Florida. Judy was of the Christian faith and was a member of Calvary Chapel in Tallahassee, Florida until she moved her membership to Peachtree Corners Baptist Church in Norcross, Georgia. The family would also like to acknowledge the kind and compassionate care Judy received by Longleaf Hospice in Atlanta, Georgia. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Susan G. Komen Foundation, PO Box 650309, Dallas, TX 75265-0309. Please sign the guest book at www.culleysmeadowwoodfuneral.com.
Services
- Visitation Sunday, October 14, 2012
- Celebration of Life Service Sunday, October 14, 2012
REMEMBERING
Judith Kay Allen-Roeder
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RECEIVE UPDATESOctober 19, 2012
Aaron, Merissa, and Jasmine,
My deepest sympathy to all of you.
Although I only knew Judy (and all of you) for a short time...it was God bringing us together to share His love.
Judy is now with God and living in Paradise....how awesome for her.
May God's strength and peace be with each of you in the days ahead and may all the wonderful memories you have of Judy keep you smiling.
Cindy Cummings (Apex, NC)
October 18, 2012
Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your loved one. I lost my sister in March of this year after a battle of lung cancer for seven years. While we find it hard to let go of our loved one, it is the acceptance of them no longer suffering that we must remember. My heart goes out to you at this time. Losing a daughter, sister, wife and mother is tragic but Judy will be smiling down while at peace. Angela--- Love you girl.
Gail Posey (Cookie)
Dan Dettwiler
October 17, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss Aaron and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.
Koinonia Class - Peachtree Corners Baptist Church
October 16, 2012
We only knew you for a short time, but your courage and faith was an inspiration to us all. May you rest in perfect peace and comfort in the arms of Jesus.
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Sheree' Graves
October 16, 2012
Judy, your love, compassion, smile, laugh and caring heart will always be with me. I remember you telling me "I'm not going through this for me". I remember seeing you in pain but yet you still managed to make me laugh. You will always be my warrior sister and always live in my heart. You're gone naturally but still here with us spiritually. By now you've probably had Jesus and others laughing. Love you forever girlfriend. Aaron you most definitely exemplified what true love should be like between a husband and wife.
October 16, 2012
I am deeply sorry for the loss of your dear loved one. May God's love comfort and strengthen your family during this difficult time John 16:22
October 16, 2012
"Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints". Psalm 116:15
The fight was long and the strength Judy passed on to others was remarkable. So now your struggle is over and your victory is realized.
Jon Heath (Apex,N.C.)
Melissa Hildebrand
October 15, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this most difficult time. Sending strength and love.
Malette O'Neal
October 15, 2012
Bulldog one time Bulldog two time Bulldog all the way rest in peace Judy.
Sonja Guthrie
October 15, 2012
I will remember you always with fondness. Godspeed on your journey, Judith.
John/JoAnne Heiting
October 14, 2012
To Aaron, Melissa and Jasimine, although this is a sad time for you, may you understand that your wife, and mother, is at peace and will be looking after you. We send our prayers and are thinking of you during this sad time. Prayers for all in the Allen Roeder families.
October 13, 2012
sorry for your loss. marilyn mears and family
Steve Edwards and famly
October 13, 2012
Please accept our sincere condolences.
October 13, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you as you grieve but yet celebrate Judy's inspiring life. May God's amazing Grace surround all of you. My life was blessed by the gift of knowing Judy!!
Shalom,
Jane Bell Morgan (Otto, NC)
October 13, 2012
TO THE FAMILY OF JUDITH,
SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS.
MAY THE GOOD LORD GIVE YOU ALL PEACE.
K. Davis
October 13, 2012
My deepest sympathies to the family. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. She fought so hard, may she rest in eternal peace. Her smile and laugh are memories I shall treasure.
October 13, 2012
Aaron, SEANC District 44 will always have wonderful memories of Judith. We can be at peace knowing that she is now well and with her family members and friends who were awaiting her homecoming. We will continue to pray for you and your family. Hold on to all those beautiful memories! Sandra Johnson, Apex, NC
Shay Newell-Blue
October 13, 2012
I always say, You are my hero. I will forever know you as a fighter, a lover of people, and an inspiration. We will forever tell your story, show your strength, and be your voice. Truly, we will miss you but knowing you have a strong, healthy, and vibrant body now, gives me great joy..My hero you will always be..
Evelyn Williams- Hester
October 13, 2012
Gone but not forgotten,, the memories will forever live on..
Diane (Dee) Young
October 13, 2012
To the Family:
Be strong in the Lord and He will direct your pathway, and remember that Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal.
Aaron Roeder
October 13, 2012
Scented candles--one of Judy's favorite pastimes; will be missed but never forgotten
Lise Mumford
October 13, 2012
Thinking of you guys here in Raleigh. Judith what an amazing woman you are and what wonderful, beautiful daughters you have blessed this world with! You will forever be in our hearts and we will continue to support the fight against cancer in your honor and memory. With all the love you had to give, you leave a legacy of love behind! Love you guys!
Tammy Graddy
October 13, 2012
Judy may you REST IN PEACE Gone to soon but God love you more
Terry & Annette Bell
October 13, 2012
When there is love, any life is too short. Terry and I knew Judy only for a short time, but right away we knew she was a special person who could make friends easily. No one who knew her will ever forget her. It was evident that Judy deeply loved her family. Jody, we realize how deeply this loss touches you but we know how strong you are. We love you so much.
Shinita Baker
October 13, 2012
Take your rest my friend. You were strong and encouraged others with your posts on facebook. Praying that God gives the family comfort and peace in their time of need. We love you Judy!
Stacy Howard
October 13, 2012
I didn't know her but know a friend of hers! MY HEART goes out to the family! GOD BLESS.....HEAVEN HAS ANOTHER ANGEL!! xoxo
Stacy Howard - Tallahassee, Florida
Angela Moore-Mathis
October 12, 2012
Gone But Never Forgotten
Katina Dunn
October 12, 2012
Our sincerest condolences are extended to Judy's family. We are praying for you all during this time to give you strength and understanding. I will always remember Judy. I am thankful for the opportunity to have known her, as I know the other people that knew Judy are as well.
A. Jacobs
October 12, 2012
You changed my life w/out even knowing. You took me under your wing & loved me like I was your own. I will NEVER forget the good & bad times we shared. Thank you for everything! Now you are at peace & resting w/my mom. I love you so much!
Dawn Joyner-Weeks
October 12, 2012
May God keep you all in his tender care and provide the comfort, strength, and peace needed during this time of sorrow. Judy will forever be remembered and missed.
October 12, 2012
My sincere sympathy to the Allen-Roeder family, may the loving memories of Judith and the word of God at Psalms 55:22 give your comfort in your time of grief.
Jem. Florida
Jerry Beech II
October 12, 2012
Take care my friend, I know the journey you have begun is most difficult and the unknown does scare us all. Your body may now rest and the pain you've felt will no longer affect you or your loved ones. You now move on to a more suitable place for you to watch over them and to see all the good that they may do. Meet with those who proceeded you on the journey and rejoice in the happiness that you may now share together. You will certainly be missed my friend - I hope your family understands that you will be watching over them and guiding them to be the best they can be and do all of the things that they desire in life, until you each shall meet again.
With Love,
Jerry Beech II
& Khristopher Galligher
FROM THE FAMILY
IN THE CARE OF