Kilyo Marte Wong

Rooted in the traditions of Korea, Kil-yo lived a life marked by quiet strength, resilience, and deep sacrifice. After losing her father at a young age, she grew up understanding hardship early, helping her family endure during difficult times. As a young woman, she worked as a seamstress—her hands shaping not only fabric, but the foundation of the life she would later build.

In 1972, with courage and unwavering determination, she immigrated to the United States with her son, Jimmy, settling in San Francisco, California. Carrying within her the spirit of “한”—a uniquely Korean expression of perseverance through suffering and hope—she overcame language and cultural barriers through hard work and resolve. She later built a life in Milpitas, California, alongside her husband, John Wong, with whom she shared years of dedication to family and stability.

In 1974, she was given the opportunity to work at Avantek, a semiconductor company in Silicon Valley, where she dedicated many years of faithful service. Through her diligence, perseverance, and quiet leadership, she advanced to become a supervisor. Through discipline and sacrifice, she created opportunities not only for herself, but for generations that followed.

Beyond her work and family, Kil-yo formed friendships that were as close as sisters—bonds that lasted a lifetime. She was also known for her generosity and willingness to help others. With a giving heart, she supported many of her friends financially, helping them purchase homes, and assisting them in starting their own businesses and restaurants. Her kindness extended far beyond her own family, touching the lives and futures of many in her community.

In the Korean way, her love was rarely spoken, but always shown—through the meals she prepared, the standards she upheld, and the life she provided. She was a devoted mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother whose legacy lives on through her family.

She is survived by her devoted son, Jimmy; her cherished grandchildren, Martine, Ellis, and Maddie; and her treasured great-grandchildren, Mateo and Mila.

In Korean, it is said, “고생 끝에 낙이 온다”—after hardship comes happiness. Kil-yo lived this truth not for herself, but for her family, ensuring a better life for those she loved.

She will be deeply missed, lovingly remembered, and forever honored.