Pamela Kay Graves

October 24, 1962April 19, 2021

Ms. Pamela Kay Graves entered into her final reward on April 19, 2021. She was born in Thomasville, NC on October 24, 1962 to William Talmadge Graves and Frostie Nealey Graves.

She was a resident of O’Berry Medical Treatment Center in Goldsboro, NC. The family wishes to extend their sincere appreciation to the caregivers and staff at O’Berry Center for the love and care they provided Pam during her lifetime.

Pam is survived by two sisters; Annette Jenkins and husband Eddie and Flora Sowers; two brothers Delano Graves and wife Joyce and Donald Graves and wife Terry.

Her parents, foster mother Christine McKeitan and two brothers, Mitchell and Jerry Graves, preceded her in death.

A celebration of life service led by Rev. Allen Green with special music by Blake Grainger will be held at 2:00 PM on Wednesday, April 28, 2021 at Holly Hill Memorial Park Cemetery, 401 W. Holly Hill Road, Thomasville, NC 27360.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Hinkle Hospice House in Pam’s name, 200 Hospice Way, Lexington, NC 27292.

The Graves family is under the care of Sechrest-Davis Funerals and Cremations of Thomasville. Online condolences: –select obituaries.


  • William Talmadge & Frostie Nealey Graves, Parents (deceased)
  • Christine McKeitan, Foster Mother (deceased)
  • Annette Jenkins & husband Eddie, Sister
  • Flora Sowers, Sister
  • Delano Graves & wife Joyce, Brother
  • Donald Graves & wife Terry, Brother
  • Mitchell Graves, Brother (deceased)
  • Jerry Graves, Brother (deceased)


  • Graveside Service

    Wednesday, April 28, 2021


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Tony Hayes

April 27, 2021


Fessor McCoy

April 21, 2021

It was my pleasure getting to know Pamela and her sister and to have the opportunity to get to know them both. She was an angel on earth and my prayers are with her family at this time. She was loved by her caregivers and will be missed but we know God loved her more and took her home.

Katrina Forbes

April 20, 2021

Pam was such a sweet lady. She will be missed by all! Sending prayers for the entire family!