OBITUARY

Jane Falabella

Passed away on July 12, 2021
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Jane (Iaconi) Falabella was born on July 3 at Paul Kimball Hospital and raised in Toms River, NJ. She joined her Mom, Dad, Sister, and other relatives in Heaven on July 12, 2021. She graduated from Toms River High School South and attended Ocean County College. Jane has both street and book smarts that allowed her to succeed in diverse fields in her professional and personal life. Some of her highlights are being a trailblazing female rock ‘n’ roller (singer and guitarist), a travel agent, teacher, psychic, computer programmer and most importantly a very proud Mom, wife, daughter, sister, aunt and cousin. Jane is a survivor and a shining example of never giving up. After experiencing traumatic events in her younger years, Jane had an exemplary “second act” with her loving husband Al and devoted son Michael. Jane gave everything she had mentally, physically, monetarily, and emotionally to help anyone in need regardless of orientation, race, creed, national origin, and political affiliation. Jane’s love extends beyond humans and includes all animals, especially dogs and elephants. Her lifelong learning involves interior decorating, community events, Feng Shui, new technology, science, games, movies, and sports. Jane is predeceased by her proud parents Frances (Dolly) and Mario Patrick Iaconi, her devoted Sister Joyce Oldson and her Husband John, her special niece Michelle Nelson, other family members and animals that are very important to her. She is survived by her son Michael, husband Al, dog Jesse, her Sisters Susan Leach and husband Ron, Patricia Murray and husband George, Francine Forgione and husband Tom plus all her loving family members and friends whose lives Jane will continue to touch for eternity. The viewing will be held on Thursday, July 15, 2021 from 4 to 8 p.m. at Anderson and Campbell Funeral Home, 703 Main St., Toms River. A Funeral Mass will be held on Friday at 11:30 a.m. at St. Joseph’s Church, 685 Hooper Ave., Toms River. Burial will follow at Ocean County Memorial Park in Toms River. Please follow CDC guidelines, as this is important to Jane. Condolences may be made by visiting www.andersonandcampbell.com.

Services

  • Visitation

    Thursday, July 15, 2021

  • Funeral Mass

    Friday, July 16, 2021

  • Committal Service

    Friday, July 16, 2021

Memories

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Susan Leach

July 15, 2021

Dear Jane
I feel your loss so deeply and it pains me to think that we all will not be able to grow old together. For years, you cared for everyone else so generously, at the expense of caring for yourself. More recently, you persevered while suffering so your family would not give up hope. Those of us left behind, will never forget the sacrifice that you made on our behalf.
When I think of you now, I choose to see you strong and free, no longer suffering, and flying high above with Mom, Dad, Joyce and Michelle, all in the presence of God. I love you dearly and always will. When I hear this quote, I think of how you strived to live your life:
“I Choose”
To live by choice, not by chance;
To make changes, not excuses;
To be motivated, not manipulated;
To be useful, not used;
To excel, not compete.
I choose self-esteem, not self-pity, and
I choose to listen to my inner voice, not the random opinion of others.

With love forever, your devoted sister, Sue.

Robin Maxwell Haines

July 15, 2021

Al - So very sorry for your loss. May your loving memories comfort you in the difficult days ahead.

Love,
Robin

Lorraine Jacobs

July 15, 2021

Met Jane on a trip to Toms River from Australia in2019she is a sweet kind lady her smile is as clear in my mind today as if we just met fly high Jane out of pain remembered fondly condolences to family from Aussie

Debrs Parrinello

July 14, 2021

My sweet Jane.. wrapped in the arms of angels.
I have been blessed by you. In my life for like thirty years .
In my heart forever.
I love you forever .
Jane told me this in the photo and I did it.
Never been happier.
Loves

Carol Tucci

July 14, 2021

I did not get to share much time with Ja
ne. I will always remember our first meeting. I am proud to call her sister. God Bless the family
May she forever rest in.peace.

Teresa Gifford

July 14, 2021

I didn't know the Iaconi girls all that well, I remember them as children.You were all so pretty, your Mom and Dad were sweet people. Jane started calling my home when Uncle Tony stayed with me, she used to chat with me for a while, it was nice getting to know her. She is with our Lord now, May God rest her soul.

Biography

Jane (Iaconi) Falabella was born on July 3 at Paul Kimball Hospital and raised in Toms River, NJ. She joined her Mom, Dad, Sister, and other relatives in Heaven on July 12, 2021. She graduated from Toms River High School South and attended Ocean County College. Jane has both street and book smarts that allowed her to succeed in diverse fields in her professional and personal life. Some of her highlights are being a trailblazing female rock ‘n’ roller (singer and guitarist), a travel agent, teacher, psychic, computer programmer and most importantly a very proud Mom, wife, daughter, sister, aunt and cousin. Jane is a survivor and a shining example of never giving up. After experiencing traumatic events in her younger years, Jane had an exemplary “second act” with her loving husband Al and devoted son Michael. Jane gave everything she had mentally, physically, monetarily, and emotionally to help anyone in need regardless of orientation, race, creed, national origin, and political affiliation. Jane’s love extends beyond humans and includes all animals, especially dogs and elephants. Her lifelong learning involves interior decorating, community events, Feng Shui, new technology, science, games, movies, and sports. Jane is predeceased by her proud parents Frances (Dolly) and Mario Patrick Iaconi, her devoted Sister Joyce Oldson and her Husband John, her special niece Michelle Nelson, other family members and animals that are very important to her. She is survived by her son Michael, husband Al, dog Jesse, her Sisters Susan Leach and husband Ron, Patricia Murray and husband George, Francine Forgione and husband Tom plus all her loving family members and friends whose lives Jane will continue to touch for eternity. The viewing will be held on Thursday, July 15, 2021 from 4 to 8 p.m. at Anderson and Campbell Funeral Home, 703 Main St., Toms River. A Funeral Mass will be held on Friday at 11:30 a.m. at St. Joseph’s Church, 685 Hooper Ave., Toms River. Burial will follow at Ocean County Memorial Park in Toms River. Please follow CDC guidelines, as this is important to Jane. Condolences may be made by visiting www.andersonandcampbell.com.