Matthew Ryan Budesa

May 19, 1990February 3, 2011

Matthew Ryan Budesa, 20, of Pine Beach, passed away on Thursday, 3rd day of February, 2011. Born in Toms River, NJ, he was a lifelong resident of Pine Beach. Matthew worked for the Ocean County Library System delivering books and other media items to branches throughout Ocean County. He was a 2009 Graduate of Toms River High School South. Matthew was predeceased by his paternal grandparents Marty and Helen Budesa and his maternal grandparents Joseph and Ethel Louth. Surviving are his parents Robert and Linda Budesa; and three older brothers, Robert Jr., William and Michael. Visitation will be held on Monday February 7, 2010 from 2:00 to 7:00 p.m. at Anderson and Campbell Funeral Home, 703 Main St. Toms River, NJ. Services and Cremation will be private at the request of the family. In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting donations be made to the Matthew Budesa Memorial Scholarship Fund C/O Sovereign Bank, 300 Atlantic City Boulevard, Pine Beach, NJ 08741.


  • Visitation Monday, February 7, 2011

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Jessica Walker

January 31, 2012

Matt, I know your up there looking down on Joey & keeping him safe, so thank you!! We all miss you greatly and you'll always be in our hearts. Not a day goes by that we don't think about you bud...

Linda Budesa

December 9, 2011

Mattman... We miss you! We miss your laughter, your hugs and your smile... UWMA Love, Mom

Linda Budesa

April 15, 2011

Dear Friends, Family & Loved Ones;
I wish to sincerely thank you for all your kind words and condolences. For those of you who personally knew my son, you also feel the personal pain of my loss. Matthew was my youngest son. My "go to guy" who would help me with my endless projects. He was my biggest supporter and always gave me the positive support to tackle those "impossible" jobs that no one else would atempt. I miss him terribly! There is not a day that goes by that I don't cry uncontrolably with every sweet memory of his life. We had shared 20 minutes together the night before he died, talking and hugging each other as we often did. I realize now that my son was trying to say "goodbye"... Parents, PLEASE! take the time NOW to hold your child... Love your child...
tell them EVERY DAY how important they are in you life... I wish I did...
Most sincerely,
(Matthew's Mom)

Sarah Brock

March 1, 2011

To the Budesa family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Matthew was a great boy, and I was glad to be close with him. He was sweet funny smart and much more. He will be greatly missed, and loved. My condolences go out to your family.

February 19, 2011

There are no words to express such sadness. Our deepest condolences to you and your family.
Terry & Tom Hamilton, Waretown, NJ

Keri Russoniello

February 14, 2011

To the Budesa Family,
I am so very sorry for your tragic loss. As a mom of two sons attending High School South, I have seen your son numerous times at school functions. I just remember thinking what a sweet, respectful and fun young man he was...full of joy. He will be sorely missed.

Linda Zisa

February 14, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Dr. Ray and Lynne Lasko

February 14, 2011

Dear Bob, Linda and boys,

Our deepest sympathies to you at this sad time.

February 12, 2011

Linda so sorry to hear the news about your son. So glad I remembered your married name. My thoughts and prayers are with you!! Francine Cerminaro Barndt(HIGHLAND PARK)

Reabold Family

February 11, 2011

Budesa Family,

We are saddened beyond words. Our hearts go out to you all.