Scott I still am shock ur not here I miss u so much u are the best big brother I have I wish u a happy birthday every time it my birthday at midnight I always spend ur birthday thinking about u I never forget when u came home
From work or took me to the firefighter station when we were little I'm happy u married my sister u gave me the biggest blessing my nephew scotty is so much like u he look just like u he is a grown man and u have taught him well thank u for being a the good person u are sometime I wish I could have saved u deep down I always look for u on social media to talk to u more bc it has been hard since u guys seperated but u always have room in my heart thank u for loving me unconditionally and having good convo the time we have seen each other I love u big Scott 

I am so sorry for your loss/  Scott and I were really good friends growing up and he was big influence on me when we were kids and even until early adulthood.  sadly we lost tough after about age 25 but I will always remember him fondly.  I don't know why but he just came to my heart day.  I am sorry that I wasn't able to make the memorial service but I want you to know that as an old friend I still keep his memory alive.  He was the first guy who showed me how to lift weights and we played football together starting in Junior High and all the way through high school.  We had a lot of fun together.  He i missed by me. My sincerest condolences.

Firefighters are brothers in perpetuity. Our calling was to protect, save, and watch over our community and I know you were proud of your accomplishments and wore the uniform and gear proudly. After a career of watching over others, I know you will be watched over in Heaven. Proud to have served with you.

I can’t believe you’re gone Scott. I was just thinking about you a couple of weeks ago. I couldn’t wait to bump into you at the gym when I came home. Growing up I looked up to you. Not only were you the biggest guy at our gym, you were also one of the nicest people I saw on a daily basis. You gave me so much advice and always took the time to answer my questions no matter how annoying they were. You will truly be missed brother... I’ll cherish the conversations we had and forever be grateful to not only say I know you but that I get to call you a friend. Rest In Peace brother. Love you and will miss you

scott i cant believe your not here i love you u have always been my role model and big brother as a kid i'm happy i saw u when i did when i visited you i wish you would have open up what you felt inside but i pray for you everyday knowing that i love you you have given me the best nephew i can ask for i remember when u guys told me you were having a baby and that was scotty i promise i will not let u down and that i know your watching over me because i know your in Heaven i love you scott and i miss you the memories me and you have will never be forgotten i hope to see you again in Heaven ❤️

Well Scott,  today our son takes his drivers test. I know he will pass just like I know in his joy he will stop and look at me with his eyes tearing up and say “I wish my dad was here to see this, I miss him”.  It’s a phrase I often hear noways.  It wounds my heart each time I hear it because I hate the pain he feels daily. I hope you are at peace. We are still learning to live in this new normal and it’s different and difficult. Keeping looking over Scotty. He loved you very much. Your friend -Maria

Scott, my dear, dear friend. This has to be one of the saddest things that has happened to me in a long time. Everything we talked, laughed & cried about will forever be in my head . I made you a promise & I will absolutely fulfill it . I miss you & pray you’re so much happier in heaven. No pain, no drama , just w/ your family that greeted you @ heavens gates . Don’t ever forget ... I love my friend & I will miss you deeply  RIP & one day I will see you again !!!

Hi daddy i miss you and i love you. im sad that you had to go to heaven and i tried to face time you but you didn't answer. Mommy said they don't have phones in heaven but you can hear me when i talk to you. 
Bye Daddy 
Love Aimee

Scott, I don't even know where to begin because our daughter misses you so much but I'm helping her hold the memories close to her heart. She picked a tree out that we are going to plant in our back yard in your memory and I ordered a plaque with your name on it and it holds a picture of the two of you together. I also have a bench being made so whenever she misses you and wants to talk to you she will have a place to go and do that. Please watch over her Scott. I will always hold onto the happy memories we shared together and we had a lot of them. I know that you are at peace now and with your parents and sister. You will be missed but never forgotten. A part of you will always be with me through our daughter. Goodbye for now Scott.

Scott, 
I have no words. Our son misses you so much. We have found some healing in reminiscing. He enjoys hearing stories about us when we were young and our adventures. Seeing all the pictures has brought back nice memories. I will remember the good times and I will keep your memory alive four our son. I will miss you my friend. I pray you are at peace with your family in heaven. Please give Charlotte, Jerry and Suzie a big kiss from Scotty and I. Please continue to watch over Scotty from heaven. We will miss you very much.

Barb, Mitch and family-
We are so sorry about the passing of your cousin Scott. We know you will hold all of the memories close to your heart and remember how special he was to all of you. We are always here for you.  Sending love, strength and prayers as you grieve.  Love xoxo The Martin Family

Scott,
I cannot believe that you are gone.  You meant so much to me and I loved you more than you know.  My heart is breaking and I wish I could talk to you one more time.  I am going to miss giving you "doggie bags" on Christmas and I will not be able to see if you are tanner than me anymore....which you always were. Thanks for all the times you let my kids ring the bell on the firetruck.  They always looked upto you and loved visiting you at the Fire House.  They still have the fire hats and books you gave them.  I hope that you are at peace and resting with your mom, dad, Suzie, Grandma, and Grandpa.  Until we meet again, you will be forever in my heart. I promise to always be there for Scottie.   We all love you so much.  Barb, Mitch, Nick, Madi, and Nick

Dad, oh how much I’m going to miss you. Your the best father I’ve ever had. A kind, hardworking, and a loving person. We’ve had a lot of good, memorable times together throughout the years. Like going to the movies, going to the beaches, and going on vacations of just me and you. I’ll never forget the times of where you took me to the Rahway Fire Department and showing me the vehicle’s and some of your buddies. I’ll look out for Aimee over the years and I’ll still be a good man that you made me to be. Thank you for being a perfect loving father that I’ll never forget and will always cherish you in my heart forever. Say hi to Grandma Charlotte, Grandpa Jerry, and Aunt Suzie for me and I hope you are all reunited In heaven and not suffering anymore. Dad, I love you
So much and everyone will miss you dearly and I’ll miss you a lot. I love you, Dad.

Your Son,
Scott E. Finer

My Beautiful Man, my heart is so broken. I love you so much. I will always think of you & all the good times. All the family dinners, all the laughs, all the fun times and beautiful vacations. So many memories. The boys will miss you.  Until I see you again.

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Scott Finer

February 5, 1969 – October 6, 2020

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