Tabitha R. PATI

April 4, 1967November 26, 2018

Tabitha R. Pati, age 51, of Whiting, passed away on November 26, 2018 at home. Tabitha was born in Toms River and had lived in Beachwood before moving to Manchester in 1992. She worked for Aetna Insurance as a Claims Investigator Specialist and had the privilege of being a loving stay at home mom for her two children for the past fourteen years. Tabitha attended and was baptized at Whiting Bible Church. Surviving are her parents Tom and Judy Romans of Beachwood; her loving husband Joseph Pati of 28 years; her cherished children Joseph Pati III and Amanda Pati; two brothers Tom Romans and his wife Mary Ann of Delaware County, PA and Tim Romans of Tennessee; and a sister Tammy Landosky and her husband Richard of Toms River. Visiting will be on Friday, November 30th from 3-5 PM and 6-9 PM with a funeral service at 8pm at the New Life Church of Toms River, 700 Main Street, Toms River. Entombment will be Saturday, December 1, 2018 at 10:30 AM at Ocean County Memorial Park, 1722 Silverton Road, Toms River. In Lieu of Flowers, contributions may be made to Whiting Bible Church or New Life Church of Toms River (formerly 1st Baptist Church of Toms River) in memory of Tabitha.


  • Visitation Friday, November 30, 2018
  • Visitation Friday, November 30, 2018
  • Funeral Service Friday, November 30, 2018
  • Committal Service Saturday, December 1, 2018

Tabitha R. PATI

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Tracy Kiernan

December 2, 2018

I first met Tabitha when I taught her daughter Amanda and got to know her even better when Joey was in my class! Was surprised when we realized we were cousins two ways (Sloan and Romans sides). What a great mom she was to Amanda and Joey! Such a great loss to this world. My sincere condolences !!

Colleen Scaglione-Braun

November 30, 2018

My deepest sympathy to the family. I grew up with Tabitha and have very fond memories when we were young growing up. Praying for the family.

Stan Bortnowsky

November 29, 2018

Very sorry for your loss
It was always nice to see her working in the yard with a smile.
She will be missed by her neighbors.

John Fiorentino

November 29, 2018

It is tragic to hear about your loss and I express my sincere sympathy to all of her family. I graduated from high school with both Joe and Tabitha and so happy that we got to reunite on the Manchester softball fields; I miss those softball days and will miss Tabitha dearly. We were blessed to be able to sit and cheer our daughters on the field from the bleacher together; Tabitha was such a personable person with a lively personality and cheerful spirit. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family. May care and love of those around you provide comfort and peace to get you through the days ahead. Please accept our most sincere condolences, John and Kim Fiorentino

Darnell Williams

November 29, 2018

Tabitha was a true ray of sunshine! I had the privilege of being a coach for her amazing daughter! She was our biggest cheerleader during freshmen year! Coming to games and providing a warm love of positivity and support! I will miss our lovely conversations!
Heaven has certainly gained a wonderful-spirited angel! Rest in paradise my friend!
With Love,
Coach Dee

Joe Hanily

November 28, 2018

I remember meeting Tabitha back in 2010 when my youngest daughter Kristina played coach pitch on the Reds with her son Joey. From then on I had the pleasure of coaching her daughter Amanda and son Joey. Tabitha was always so nice to talk to. So pleasant and such a genuine person. She will be so missed.
May she rest now, God Bless,
The Hanily’s

Mary Ferrauiolo (Vosseller)

November 28, 2018

Tab, you will forever be in my heart!! You were always a phone call away when I needed anything. Your smile could light up a room. I remember our times when you would watch Ray and I when mom and dad went out for the night. Then there was my bridal shower where you were your teams "bride" and wore the toilet paper wedding dress! You were so much more to me then a friend you were like an 'Aunt' ...I miss you and will always love you! Rest in Peace!!