OBITUARY

Wallace A. Polhemus

October 25, 1924August 8, 2010

WALLACE A. "GUB" POLHEMUS AGE: 85 TOMS RIVER

Wallace A. "Gub" Polhemus, 85, of Toms River, passed away peacefully Sunday, Aug. 8, 2010, at home, surrounded by his loving family. Known to many as "Gub", he was born in Toms River and was a lifelong resident and enjoyed wintering for the past 26 years in Stuart, Fla. He was a graduate of "Old" Toms River High School, Class of 1942, and was honored and proudly inducted into the Toms River Schools Hall of Fame in 2002. In 1946, he began his accomplished funeral career with Anderson and Campbell Funeral Home in Toms River. He attended and graduated from Eckels College of Mortuary Science in Philadelphia Pa., and received his License in 1950. He owned and operated Anderson & Campbell Funeral Homes until his retirement. As a funeral director he valued principles. He was empathic and his compassionate nature would always shine through, showing his warmth and trusting manner to all the families he served. Gub served as Ocean County Coroner from 1962 to 1971. He was Funeral Director Emeritus of Anderson and Campbell Funeral Home Inc., and was a member of N.J. State Funeral Directors Association; Monmouth-Ocean Funeral Directors Association; National Funeral Directors Association. As a man of God, Gub was a faithful member of the Presbyterian Church of Toms River for over 60 years, and served as a Deacon. Gub was an Army veteran of World War II, serving with the 204th Port Co., 10th Army Corps in the Pacific Theatre of Operations. He was also a member of American Legion Post 129 in Toms River. He was a member and past president of Toms River Kiwanis Club, life member of Lodge #1875 B.P.O.E. of Toms River; The National Republican Senatorial Committee in 1994; National Rifle Association. He was also a licensed pilot and was a member of Aircraft Owners & Pilots Association, and the Flying Funeral Directors of America. An avid sports fan, he especially enjoyed the Philadelphia Eagles and Toms River South Football. Gub was a person who genuinely understood and cared for others, he was a wonderful husband, father, brother, grandfather, great-grandfather, and friend, and leaves behind a legacy of cherished memories that will live forever. He was predeceased by his parents, Joseph F. and Jessie Polhemus; and his brother, John Franklin Polhemus. Surviving are his beloved wife of 60 years, Patricia Campbell Polhemus; four devoted sons, Wallace T. Polhemus and his wife Laurel of Beachwood, John C. Polhemus and his wife Carla of Toms River, Mark Douglas Polhemus and his wife Debra of Toms River, and Richard M. Polhemus and his wife Dianne of Pine Beach; two loving daughters, Beth Magee and her husband Gary of Toms River, and Patricia Hodulich of Toms River; 14 cherished grandchildren, Heather, T.J., Patrick, Kary, Laura, Jonathan, David, Lauren, Matthew, Christopher, Amanda, Meghan, Emily and Allison; and three adored great-grandchildren, Kaylyn, Morgan and Owen. Visitation will be from 2 to 4 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. Thursday, Aug. 12 at Anderson and Campbell Funeral Home, 703 Main St., Toms River. Funeral services will be held at 11 a.m. Friday, Aug. 13 at the Presbyterian Church of Toms River. Burial will follow at Riverside Cemetery, Toms River. Donations to the Presbyterian Church of Toms River, 1070 Hooper Ave., Toms River, NJ 08753 in Gub's memory would be appreciated by the family. Condolences may be sent by visiting www.mem.com.

Services

  • Funeral Service Friday, August 13, 2010
  • Burial Friday, August 13, 2010
  • Visitation Thursday, August 12, 2010
  • Visitation Thursday, August 12, 2010
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Wallace A. Polhemus

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Gary & Andrea Yetman

August 27, 2010

So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Early Learning Center

August 14, 2010

Patricia: We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Marge & Tom Lefko

August 13, 2010

Our prayers go out to everyone who ever knew "GUB". He was a friendly and kind man devoted to his family. He gave a piece of himself to everyone he met. He will be missed not only by family and friends but the town of Toms River has also suffered a great loss.

Jilian White

August 12, 2010

Mr. Polhemus was like a grandfather to my brother and I, our whole childhood, and I will never forget him. He was always there with a smile, hug and a kind word for us kids, even when we were driving the rest of the adults crazy.He was a generous, thoughtful and compassionate man. A true gentleman. He taught me that burnt hotdogs were the only way to eat them....and he made our summers even better!! I loved him immensely and he will never be forgotten. I want to send my love and prayers to the entire Polhemus family and to say thanks for all the great memories! Love, Jilian & Austin White

Kathy and Joe Cupo

August 12, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. You have been wonderful neighbors these past 24 years and I will miss talking with Mr. Polhemus as he would walk down the street.

Al & Dee Kedz

August 11, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Polhemus family at this difficult time.In looking back at the past years I appreciate being associated with Gub for his experience and skills in his profession which he shared with me.I will and have never forgotten this.

May you rest in peace,Gub.

David Stein

August 11, 2010

On behalf of all of us at Riverfront Dental Care, Gub's family Dental office, I want to send my sincere sympathy to his family. He was a gentleman in every sense of the word and we will greatly miss him. We wish God's comfort to all of Gub's family and friend who will miss him as well.

Bonnie & Bill DiGaudio

August 11, 2010

To Mrs. Polhemus and your entire family. We only meet "Poppy" a few times, but heard stories of him over and over again from Pat and my sister Sue. She always said he was the "Perfect Grandfather" we all loved him just from the stories we heard. May you know you are all in our prayers during this difficult time. May God Bless you all.

gail pezzicola

August 11, 2010

What a void Gub leaves with us but what joy there is in heaven on this day! There is no doubt he was met with celebration by those who loved him here on earth and meet him now in heaven!He was an amazing man, loyal in every way to family and friends..generous,considerate, and filled with love that he shared with all of us. We will miss you Gub, but WIlla and Jack delight in your arrival! Love Gail

Terry and Bob Moser

August 11, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. From talking to you, your father seemed like such a wonderful man and lived a very happy life surrounded by a very loving and devoted family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you! The Moser Family