E. Graydon Shuford
May 30, 1934 – May 12, 2012
Emmett Graydon Shuford of Stone Mountain, GA passed away Saturday, May 12, 2012 at Odyssey Hospice in Decatur, GA. He was bom May 30, 1934 in Greenwood, SC to Emmett Graydon & Sallie Scott Erwin Shuford. He grew up in Lincolnton, NC and graduated from Lincolnton High School in l95l where he starred in football and was the President of his Presbyterian Youth Fellowship. In this capacity, he conducted the service and preached the sermon on youth Sunday. He grew up spending several summers in Montreat, NC during his youth. Later, he and his family would meet each July for vacation, camp, and enjoy "the fourth" activities with his mother and his brothers family. Many great times and stories evolved from these gatherings right up to the present. It was a tradition through the years that became the highlight of the summer for the kids of all ages and the number grew rapidly as the family expanded over the years. ln his teen years, Graydon and cousin John Shuford were the dedicated workers their Grandmother could count on in the floral business she had run since 1929 in Lincolnton. Then on the typical Christmas, Easter, and Mother's Day or times of heavy volumes of funerals, the entire group of aunts, uncles, cousins and others would rally together to take care of the heavy work load; but he and John were the more experienced twosome, and they were closer in age than the others. This is the time that Mom, the grandmother, became quite close to them as she led and directed them through all the many chores of Shuford's Floral Gardens. It also gave them some valuable experience in the enterprise as well as meeting and serving the public as representatives of their grandmother's business. In his younger and teen years, he spent several summers in Sharon, SC working at Sharon Sales Service and visiting with his maternal grandparents, along with Dick Babington. They played, assisted and performed duties in their grandfather's store and service station. When their Uncle Arthur came home from WWII, their stays there became more work and less play, but they learned many great lessons of life through his guidance as he had experienced so much during his 36 months of service in Europe. They both showed a lasting respect and love for Aunt Wilma who had become the new bride for Uncle Arthur shortly after the war. Sharon was also the location of many Christmas Day family gatherings and visiting with cousins and other aunts and uncles during those early years, which were a vital part of his family life. Following high school, he attended Clemson College for two years, walked on for the football team, and also won 3 golden gloves boxing tournaments in Greenville, SC, Mt Holly, NC, and High Point, NC in the Novice Heavyweight Division. He had been taught some boxing by his father, but Graydon conditioned himself well and learned many techniques on his own. Graydon remained in excellent physical condition and assisted many young boxers throughout his college and military service years. Graydon was great at coaching his younger brother in football and challenging him to be better conditioned with all the techniques of sound fundamental drills of the sport, and it was successful and appreciated and created a genuine bond even though they were 6 years apart in age, they remained very close throughout his life, assisting each other in time of need. After 2 years at Clemson College, he served in the USAF for 4 years at several locations. Upon discharge from the military, he obtained hisdegree in Economics at the U. Of SC in 1960. He became employed by The Associates Finance Corp. For several years in Charleston, SC and after several years moved to Collection Manager with NC National Bank in High Point, NC. Around 1964, he entered the U. of SC Law School in Columbia, and graduated in 1966, and thereafter set up a law practice in Hanahan, SC. While Graydon was completing his college in Columbia, SC, he was in closer contact with Tom and Sally Mac Babington, the younger cousins, of that family because he worked part time with their dad Dick Babington, Sr. This experience was quite meaningful and memorable for him especially since they had lost their mother at a young age, and his presence was at least a comfort in this critical time for their maturing. It was while he was in Colorado with the USAF that he found his fondness for skiing and the outdoor sports of the Rockies, so it was not too surprising that he eventually bought a second home in the Winter Park area, and became an avid skier with his wife and other friends out there. He bought and rented several properties out there in the Fraser area where he managed to spend almost every August and December vacationing and enjoying the outdoors. He and his wife, Anne, always kept space available out there for friends and family to visit. On many occasions his younger brother and nephews and their families spent some great time skiing with Graydon and Anne on the tougher slopes in Winter Park. In 1973 Graydon moved to Atlanta, GA where he practiced law until his retirement in 2008. He is survived by his wife of 38 years, Anne H. Shuford, of Stone Mtn, GA; children Susan Ingerson of Moncks Corner, SC, Mary Jessey and husband, Paul, of Mt. Pleasant, SC, Julie Barrington of Macon, GA, Alan Hunt of Pendergrass, GA, Laurie Williams and husband, Jim, of Conyers, GA, 9 grandchildren; brother, Dr. Gene M. Shuford and wife, Judy, of Montreat, NC; and nephews Scott, Wynn and Mac Shuford. In lieu of flowers please make donations to the Parkinson’s Disease Foundation, www.pdf.org. Funeral services will be held on Saturday, May 19, 2012 at 12 pm in the chapel of Floral Hills Funeral Home with Rev. Owen Skinner officiating. Interment will follow in Floral Hills Memory Gardens. The family will receive friends on Saturday from 11 am until service time. Please visit our online tribute at www.floralhillsfuneral.com. Arrangements by Floral Hills Funeral Home and Cremation Services, Tucker
- Funeral Service Saturday, May 19, 2012
- Visitation Saturday, May 19, 2012
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Becky Jordan Graue
May 30, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost touch with you and Graydon some years ago, but I thought of you both often. I worked for Graydon many years ago and remember well when you got married. Again, I am so sorry for your loss and offer my condolences.
July 27, 2012
I worked for Graydon and Anne from 1982 until 1989. Even though losing touch over the years, I have thought of them often, and am so very proud to call them my friends. Anne, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
June 16, 2012
Please accept my condolences. The assurance found at 1Thessalonians 4:13,14 gives us comfort and helps us to avoid grieving inconsolably.
June 7, 2012
Just wanted to say one more time how much I love you and how much you will always be a part of my life. I thank God that he put you in my life.
June 7, 2012
Just wanted to say one more time how much I love you and will miss you - my life will never be the same again, but so thankful we found each other.
May 21, 2012
I've known Graydon and Anne since 1988 and started working for him in 1989. He taught me a lot about law and it was a real inspiration seeing him and Anne work in the same office so well together as a couple, which is rare.
We had a lot of fun and exchanged some tall tales on hunting trips with friends and he could sure cook up a mean deer stew. He really loved the outdoors! Graydon was also like a grandfather figure to my son Matt, who has known him since he was 6 years old.
Unfortunately we lost touch when I moved out of the area, but I can't tell you how many times his name came up when telling stories just sitting around having a beer with friends. I could write a book!
He will be sorely missed!
May 20, 2012
I was the little girl next door for nearly 20 years and he was the man that made good of it when he promised me a rose garden.
May 19, 2012
You are in my prayers and my heart. God bless you always.
May 17, 2012
To the Shuford family-
Be comforted by memories of a life lived fully. Look to the Creator for strength during this difficult time(Psalm 46:1). So sorry for your loss.
May 17, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with Graydon's family during this sad and emotional time. The world already seems greatly diminished by Graydon's absence. I will fondly remember him always, such a extraordinary man ... Graydon was one of a kind!
May 17, 2012
To Anne & Graydon's survivors,
Graydon has been known to me since I was his client at the age of 15. When I moved to Ga in 1977 he represented me again. We had an enduring relationship notwithstanding our ages and racial differences because we knew each other so long. He, F Lee, Irvin Lefkov and Mr Steinberg were influences on me to become an atty.Though I never passed the bar, he helped me and several others.I will always have fond memories of him. I am in Texas for next several months,but would like to visit with Anne upon my return. May god bless the family.
May 17, 2012
Graydon was one of my very best friends growing up in Lincolnton, NC. We had many good times while in high school. He somehow managed to get a South Carolina driver's license at age 14 and he and I were on the road to Cherryville every weekend to see our girlfriends. Graydon was always a warm and caring person who I will always remember. My condolences to his family.
Gardner Helms (Charlotte NC)
Roger M. Jones, Jr.
May 16, 2012
In loving memory of a dear friend, good neighbor and great listener. Graydon will always hold a very special place within our hearts and our memories. A true man among all men! We loved him very much.
Roger and Caryn Jones
Roger Jones, Jr.
May 16, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers for you remain within our hearts for all times.
May 16, 2012
Love you, Tiny.
May 15, 2012
Graydon was always a fun person. I 've always liked him very much.!
Billie J. Cole