I never got to meet you, and I feel like a heel that I'm just now learning of your passing. I never saw anything on Facebook, but I'm truly sad. You were always fun to chat with even though you were shy and wouldn't talk on the phone with me. I was viewing my memories on Facebook, and that's when I noticed I hadn't heard from you and just thought it was Facebook randomly choosing who to see. I went to your page, and my heart sank. I know we didn't know each other well, and nor was I a good friend to just be discovering your passing, but you were a sweet and awesome guy. I hope you are resting peacefully. 

Jeff, we thoroughly enjoyed meeting you and hanging out. So sorry your gone way to soon. We will miss you.

Jeff, I never imagine I would be having to be saying my last goodbye, goodnight, or love you. No more texts, phone calls or chances to hangout. You loved your friends  and family so much even with the toughest of love. You always done anything when asked or when needed. You been there for me in my time of need , supported me when I needed and lifted me up at my weakest times. You was always there cause our life was special from the start and we survived and shared so much to. 
    This is hard to accept, hard to understand, hard to believe that I won’t see you till I’m there with you again. Life is empty now without your laughs, goofiness, smiles, even complaints. I can only imagine the happiness your in now. 
    I will always be indebted to you. I will cherish and remember our memories. I will always love you and I will never forget you.  Life is no longer the same. 
        Till I see you again and we rejoice together. I’ll miss you everyday now. Thank you for being apart of my life for 13 plus  years. 

Jeff , It was hard to believe that it happened. I couldn't believe it when I was told. I have known you since my early 20's. I'll always be grateful of all our talks and us having fun. You always had a smile on your face no matter what is going on. I'll forever miss you.  We might have lost you but its not a good bye we will see you once we get up there. I can't wait for us to get finish telling each other story's.  I'll forever cherish our memories. You will forever be in my heart. You have gain your wings. I have been praying for your mother and family. Until I see you again. I'm going to miss you so much buddy!!

My best friend for 19 years, I will miss you so much. I could write a book on all the stuff we did and shouldn’t have done together. I know you are at peace and so many people were greeting you in heaven but selfishly I know the ones left here on earth are heart broken you are gone. You were a kind, charismatic, and most of all loving person. You have been with me through the ups and downs and I will cherish each memory I have. I love you “boo” “speedy” one day we will be reunited again and cause a little trouble. 

As we all travel through this life, we have our family and our friends to share moments with. Some of the times are happy and some are sad, but we never forget the folks that were kind and nice to people in life. Jeff, the Angels have come for you and no one know why - but you have your wings now !! We'll all be together again someday talking of fun times we all had. Farewell my friend - see you when I get there !! Robert Akers

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Jeffrey Matthew Ryder

June 14, 1982 – November 13, 2019

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