Sadly, I was not well when my precious niece, Elaine passed; so I was unable to attend the service or even write a memory.  It made me so incredibly sad because I so love seeing the family, and sadly families don’t get together like they once did.  I remember when I first started dating my husband, Uncle Charles, I loved going to his house and seeing all his siblings and nieces and nephews.  Elaine, Caroline, and Michelle were precious little toddlers , such great friends, and all so gorgeous!! I have so many fond memories of those years. A more recent memory of Elaine, which always warmed my heart ,when I thought of it ,was her kindness and generosity.  She didn’t have a lot financially herself , yet one night at the Speedbowl she bought Donnie, David, and my Jon an ice cream! That might not seem like much to some, but it spoke volumes to me about her sacrificial love for them.  My sincerest condolences precious sister, Charlene.  It grieves me to think you’ve had to bury 2 children, along with a much-loved granddaughter! I pray that the Lord will continue to give you the strength to bare such heartache.  To Elaine’s children, how I wish I could have been there to extend my condolences at such a great loss.  Know that when I am well, I continue to pray for you as I described in the letter I asked your mom to forward to you some years back.    I do hope she was well enough to forward that letter to you. If not, please let your grandmother know and I will send another copy out to the three of you. I wanted to send each of my husband‘s siblings and their children that letter, but regrettably , did not have everyone’s address .  Again, my sincerest sympathy and prayers.  Love, Aunt Linda

I will miss you my beautiful niece. You never never failed to tell me, that you loved me each and every time I saw you . My condolences to your mom, your brother donnie and your beautiful children. May you rest in peace with your brother, David . Love, Uncle Tim 💔

Linda, Charles, Jonathan, Chuck, Christine Flynn 
We would like to give our deepest sympathies to the Berge, Pakos, families and Elaine’s families

Aunt Linda, and Uncle Charles remembers when you were born. We can still see your smiling face and always laughing. 
Rest in peace Elaine, we will always love you and never forget you.
John chapter 14 verses 1 thru 21

So sorry for your loss a beautiful person .
Praying for everyone!

Elaine loved her family. She loved to be with her cousins having fun. She would always make you laugh. She also loved her dogs. Elaine had a heart of gold. She is in heaven now. She is sadly missed. I will miss her. RIP 
Aunt Evie and Tony

The moment I heard you passed away my heart stopped, I couldn’t breathe the tears kept rolling down my face, god knows how much I am gonna miss you. We was born a week apart and grew up together inseparable, cousins best friends, did everything together. I will miss you until we meet again someday. Rest in peace cuz, I love you forever.

Soo sorry for every one lost i work at backus hospital with her

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Elaine Marie Berge

July 23, 1965 – January 9, 2026

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