

February 17, 1935 – August 16, 2025
Athanasios “Tom” Dourmas, 90, of Vancouver, passed away peacefully at
Vancouver General Hospital on August 16, 2025, surrounded by family.
Born in the mountain village of Steni, Greece, in 1935, Athanasios began
life with little material wealth but an abundance of determination,
charisma, and spirit.
In 1961, he married his beloved Stavroula in
Eleusina, and together they built the foundation of a family that became
his pride and his purpose. They welcomed three daughters — Aikaterini
(Catherine) in 1962, Asimina (Mina) in 1963, and Christina in 1966 — and
just two years later set out for Canada, seeking opportunity and a
brighter future. After arriving in Montreal in 1968, they made their way
west to Vancouver in 1970. By 1972, Athanasios had proudly purchased the
family’s first home, which quickly became a gathering place overflowing
with music, food, laughter, and the open-door hospitality that defined
him.
Athanasios never did anything halfway. He worked tirelessly, chasing
opportunities with courage and ingenuity. While buying and selling
homes, he also invested in an apartment building on Cordova and Main,
where he welcomed low-income tenants. For him, it was never just about
providing housing — he often arrived with food, conversation, and
friendship, offering dignity to those society too often overlooked.
Helping others was not charity to him; it was who he was.
With the same drive, he founded Zorba’s Bakery, a small Greek bakeshop
he built with his own hands and vision. That humble shop grew into
Zorba’s Foods, which became one of the largest Greek food wholesalers in
Western Canada. Through it, he brought the flavors of Greece into
countless homes and restaurants, weaving his culture into the fabric of
his new country.
Music was the rhythm of his life. He idolized the voice of Stelios
Kazantzidis and found inspiration in Mikis Theodorakis, the composer of
his favorite film, Zorba the Greek. In 1984, with his characteristic
boldness, Athanasios fulfilled a lifelong dream by bringing Theodorakis
himself to Vancouver to perform at the Queen Elizabeth Theatre. It was a
moment of triumph — not just for him, but for the entire Greek community
he loved so deeply. He lived by Zorba’s philosophy: to seize life fully,
with joy, passion, and resilience.
Athanasios was a man of great spirit, the first to dance, the first to
burst out in song, the first to joke, the first to make friends with
strangers. He was a very generous man and a man of great vitality and
warmth. He lived his life large until his final days. His beloved wife
and daughters were in constant attendance at his side in his last weeks.
He died with grace and honour, befitting the man that he was. He was
always quick with a smile and a joke, and that is how he will be
remembered by his loving family.
He is survived by his beloved wife, Stavroula; his daughters Aikaterini
(Catherine) (Peter), Asimina (Mina) (Angelo), and Christina; his nine
grandchildren — Jasmina, Marie, Stephanie, Costa, Tomislav, Eleni,
Stamati, Athan, and Thanasi; and his treasured great-grandchildren,
Filip (with whom he shared his birthday) and Georgia. He also leaves
behind many nieces and nephews throughout Canada and across Europe, all
of whom felt the force of his love and generosity. Athanasios was
predeceased by his much-loved son-in-law, Ari, as well as by his parents
and siblings in Greece.
A funeral service will be held at Sts. Nicholas and Dimitrios Greek
Orthodox Church at 4541 Boundary Rd. in Vancouver on Monday, August 25,
2025, at 1:30 p.m., with interment to follow at Forest Lawn Cemetery at
3789 Royal Oak Ave. in Burnaby.
The family extends heartfelt thanks to the staff of Vancouver General
Hospital for their care and compassion during his time there, as well as
to Father Tim and Father Niko for coming to his bedside and giving their
blessings over him in his final days.
Athanasios lived life with open arms, open doors, and an open heart. He
was unforgettable — a man whose generosity, spirit, and joy will ripple
through his family and community for generations to come.
Athanasios loved and feared God. Every day he prayed and no matter whose table he sat at or where he was in the world he always did his cross before his meal. He always gave thanks! Doxa to Theo! he would say. He was a member of the Hellenic Community of Vancouver and of Greek Orthodox Church of Vancouver. To show God his gratitude and love he commissioned an Icon of St Spyrydon (for his late brother Spiro who was killed by the German Nazis in WW2 just outside Athens) to be painted in St George’s Greek Cathedral in Vancouver. He also built up a small church near his village Steni as well as contributing to the repairs and rebuilds of many small churches in Greece. Athansios loved God and God loved him back.
In lieu of flowers, donations to the Union Gospel Mission would be appreciated.
Grandpa
Our Grandpa meant more to us
More than words can ever say
To remember all the things we did
Is only a memory away
You were our Grandpa and our friend
And it makes us happy
You are free of pain
Our love for you will never end
And you will never suffer again
Rest Grandpa, sleep Grandpa,
In time our broken hears will mend
Our tears will dry,
But our love for you will never die,
And our memories will never end.
Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared at www.MountPleasantFuneral.com for the Dourmas family.
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