I had the privilege of being Mrs. Stonehouse's case manager for several years. 

She was a real go-getter well into her 90's and was very aware of the benefits of exercises, going for walks using her walker with caregivers as much as she can.

She had a real sense of style, and impeccable grooming, with colourful pedicures and perfect hair and make-up each time I saw her.

She was always very gracious and inquired after my family.  She  also informed me on every visit that she was very grateful for all the help she received from her daughters and their family members.  Both Valerie and Pamela lived out of town but were always here for her when she needed them.

Please accept my condolences on behalf of the staff here that worked with this amazing lady.

Edith





One tough,intelligent, sweet,classy and cool Nanny and GG to 5! At 98 you could still see the kid inside her, what a wonderful glow she had about her. Always remember her talking about hockey and beating everyone at Jeopardy. 

We will miss you. 

Nearly a century apart, a picture of three kids at heart. ❤️ 

Dear Pam and Val:
Thank you for notifying me about your mother's passing and your kind words!  I am very sorry to hear the news!  Even though I have not seen Dorothy for about five years, I will always remember her beautiful smile and cheerful presence.   She was always so sweet and kind when she came to see me and asked about my children.  Hope you find comfort in knowing that she lived a wonderful long life and was loved by many.

-Dr. Helen Chen


Pam, John & Val,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.  
Remembering  the first time we met Dorothy was when we came to visit Vancouver, in summer 2006.    We spent the day with her at Kistilano beach where we watched firework together.  This was such a beautiful summer memory of fun,  joy and insightful conversations.  Dorothy was charismatic,  elegant and always looked beautiful.   
Dorothy had a zest for life and she will be remembered, always. 
Our deepest condolences to you and your families.  God bless you.
We will miss her
Galia & Frank

Remembering Dorothy, so strong, smart and classy. What a lovely day we had at Kits Beach, laughing, chatting and people watching. Jetta came by for a chat too. Will miss your beautiful smile Dorothy, hug Shelley for us.

Auntie Dot, oh how you will be missed, and oh how you will be remembered!  

Even to this day, Auntie Dot is an inspiration to me.  About twenty years ago I visited Pam in Vancouver.  One afternoon we collected Auntie Dot and went out for a meal. We walked up and down many hilly areas and I was nearly out of breath.  Auntie Dot had two inch heels on and she smiled and chatted the whole time. I asked how she did it and her response was "I live right". She was seventy eight years of age! To this day, when I am challenged I remember Auntie Dot's words and her stamina. She was always a lady, and had such a wonderful sense of humour.

Yes, Auntie Dot, you will be remembered with much love. 

I remember the first time I met Dorothy. I was a child and she was dating my brother, I thought how lovely she is.   On some occasions Dot invited me to join in their evening stroll. She was always thoughtful that way.  In later years I would often share time with her and give her a home permanent. She always looked beautiful!  I was honoured to have babysat little Valerie when Dorothy and Don went out for an evening.  We shared many antics together over the years, always laughing.  Dorothy had a wonderful sense of humour.  Our time together was too short. God Bless you and keep you safe, my dear sister-in-law.
Audrey


My condolences Pam and Valerie.
Thank you for notify me, I regret I am unable to be there on Tuesday.

In 2012 I started volunteering for Vancouver Coastal Health as a Social Home Visitor.  Lucky for me my first client was Dorothy.  I first met and was introduced to Dorothy when she was living on West 2nd, the introductions went well and Dorothy and I agreed we could rub along quite nicely, and we did.  I visited Dorothy on a regular basis for nearly four years, continuing to visit her when she made the move to Braddan.  We would chat about what we’d seen on TV the night before through news events to who we thought were the five most noted impressionist painters. She would always ask for an update on my cat Tess.  Later at Braddan we would do the crossword together. Dorothy was a bright and gracious woman who new all the words to I Wandered Lonely as a Cloud by William Wordsworth, I’m sure Dorothy is now dancing with the daffodils. 

Pam , I'm very saddened to hear of your mom's passing.  Every photo and events you posted Pam I just felt the love and wonderful connection you had with your dearest mother.  I knew she was a very special lady by the way you talked about her.  I loved to hear about that beautiful connection and wonderful things you and John did with her.  I know you get your beauty, cleverness, strength, conviction , gentleness, focus, positiveness , dedication, fun sense of adventure, kindness ,and loving spirit from her and I know she will always be close in your heart forever and she will continue to inspire you to do good things.
My deepest condolences to you , John family and friends.  I will miss her. Nora

Our thoughts, prayers and love are sent to you all from Alison, Richard and Jack Scott, Margaret Farrow and Gordon Towse - Hull, East Yorkshire, UK.  

We have wonderful memories of Dorothy on her visits over to her birthplace in East Yorkshire, notably visiting local places, going over the Humber Bridge and visiting Chatsworth House in Derbyshire.  She was my Grandma's (Ethel Farrow nee Watson) niece and bridesmaid at her wedding to Harry Farrow in 1928.

We wish we could be with you all today to celebrate the wonderful life of Dorothy.

With much love x



This photo speaks for itself. 
Brandon Faulkner - 16 years old.
Dorothy - 97 years old. 

You’ll forever be in my heart GG. 
Glad I got to meet you, I’ll never forget it.

Mum loved to eat.
One time at the Boathouse restaurant in Vancouver, it was her birthday I believe, she couldn’t get enough of the crab cakes!
Yam fries were another of her favourites, as well as hobnobs cookies.
“Hawkeyes” as her daughters called her, was  always looking out for Pam and Val, making sure they were doing the “right” thing.
Being from a generation that endured the hell of war (WWII), Dot was a somewhat traditional conservative woman with a somewhat unbending set of ethics.
This May have caused some problems for her Great granddaughter, but  be assured she  loved every member of her familty dearly!
It’s 8 o’clock time to call Mum, faithfully every night after Jeopardy Pam would call her beloved Mum.
Sharp as a whip until the end, and full of bling too!
Love you Mum
John 

OBITUARY

Dorothy Vera Stonehouse

August 4, 1920 – April 6, 2019

Vancouver Memorial Services and Crematorium

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