I'm remembering my sister today and how she came to live with us at 14 years old. It was during the hippie '60 years and she certainly was one, especially when she was a little older and got a car that was so hippy it stood out among every other car on the road because it had all the hippie signs painted all over it, much to the chagrin of our neighbor who sold car insurance. It was such an embarrassment to him to have people come in our shared driveway and see it sitting there. It was a riot. We had many a laugh over the years. Something else comes to mind as well... One day I came into the room to find Pat had taken out the ironing board and was ironing her hair! It was hysterical seeing that for the first time, but it was the thing of the day. Everybody was doing it. There were no hair straighteners at that time so it was the 'in' thing. Another great memory.

Photo of Pat and I taken by my wife Kathy. Early 2000s ?

My condolences to all her wonderful family.  I've known Pat for nearly 50 years. I've always considered her one of my best friends. Even after a long absence it always seemed we could pick up our conversation from where we left off from the last conversation.  Though it's been a while since we spoke I will miss my friend.

Dear Aunt Pat,

As I sit here, grappling with the heartbreaking reality that you've left us, I find myself overwhelmed with a flood of emotions. It pains me deeply to bid farewell, for I wish it were merely a temporary separation. Our time together, though limited as I grew from a child to a young teenager, holds a special place in my heart. The memories we created, though scarce, are like precious gems that I will forever cherish.

Oh, how I yearn for more moments by your side, to strengthen the bond between us beyond what it ever was. If only time had been more generous, granting us the opportunity to create a tapestry of shared experiences and laughter. But alas, fate has dealt its hand, and it saddens me to admit that such a chance will never come to pass.

Now, as you find solace in the embrace of grandpa in the realms beyond, I can't help but imagine the two of you sitting together, reminiscing about our family gatherings. Perhaps you're sitting at that card table we all loved, sharing stories and laughter that will forever echo in my heart. I can almost see it, and it brings both comfort and sorrow to my soul.

Aunt Pat, the void you've left behind is immeasurable. The love, guidance, and warmth you bestowed upon me will forever be etched in my being. I miss you more than words can express, and my heart aches with the knowledge that our time together was cut short. But, as I bid you farewell for now, I take solace in the belief that one day, in the vast expanse of the skies, we shall be reunited.

Rest peacefully, Aunt Pat, in the gentle embrace of eternity. Your spirit will remain alive within me, and your memory will be a beacon of love that guides me through the darkest of nights. Until we meet again, I carry your love with me, always.

With profound sadness and an abundance of love,
Your nephew Thomas

to my younger sister, Pattie, we wanted to keep you here with us, but God was calling his dear daughter, Home, to the place he prepared for you. If this wasn’t true, he would have told you. We know your place was ready because he came and got you (John 14:2,3).
I have wonderful memories of shopping at Hobby lobby and bells with you.
I love the memories of playing cards, the six of us, and having a meal together! 
You loved your savior and believed in the power of prayer as we prayed monthly for our family and the miracles that happened for what we prayed ! Thank You Lord ! 
Gone too soon but someday we will see you again and sit at the banquet table with you and HIS banner over us will be love .
LOVE YOU ALWAYS YOUR SISTER DONNA

Patty Ayers, although we think was way too soon to leave us, only comfort we have is in our lord Jesus and we will be all United one day. Although we all will miss you terribly. Compared to Eternity time here on Earth is short.

What can I say. Patti was my baby sister. Gone way too early. All of our hearts are breaking from the loss of someone who meant so much to us and now she's gone. Gone to a better place I know, but I wish we would have had her here a lot longer. We will miss you sister and you will be waiting for us on the other side

Patty was a super nice lady who was always pleasant to work with. She always carried a beautiful smile on her face. God Bless!

My dear little sister, your friends and family do not know what a tough little fighter for life you were, having contacted severe lead poisoning from chewing on painted windowsills at around five years old.  I clearly remember the doctor telling our parents that ‘there is nothing more he could do’, that it was now ‘up to you’…and ‘your will to live’.  It took months, laying on the couch freezing and shivering, not eating, in mid-summer… but you prevailed!  And you went on to have a full and meaningful life, always expressing humility and kindness to all you were around, both family and friends alike.  As the Brits say, “good on you”, PattyAnn!  Be assured you are already missed, my little sister.   We are all better off for having experienced your fine example of how to always treat others with dignity, kindness, and respect.  And I for one am looking forward with great eagerness to being with you once again in Paradise.  I love you deeply, my little sister.

I am so sorry to hear of Patty's passing.  She worked for me for years and I just loved her.  She was a pleasure to be around and someone that I always thought very highly of.  She will be missed.   Sheriff Bill Cameron

Sending lots of prayers for Patty's family. She was truly a beautiful person.

So sorry for your loss. My prayers to the family of Patricia. Blessings to you all. 

I worked with Patricia at the Charlotte County Sheriff’s Office (Detention Bureau) In Classification. She was very humble and talked about her family often. She was a quiet person but got the job done. You will truly be missed. Heaven gained a beautiful angel. 🙏🏼

Retired Lt. Gail Gamble

My deepest sympathies to Patricia’s family. She was a wonderful person. I enjoyed working with her at the sheriff’s office.

Nick LiCausi  worked with Pat at CCSO.She was a sweet person ,with got along well together.  She will missed..RIP Pat

Thank you for letting me know of your mom’s passing and I am so sorry for your loss. I will miss seeing Patti around here in Harbor Isles walking her dog. May she rest in eternal peace with her Heavenly Father. 
Cheryl Herman

A beautiful lady who acted years younger than her age.  I loved watching the pride in her face as she spent time with her family.  I was blessed to have spent a few scrapbooking  events with her and others from her family.  Prayers to her family in their loss.

I have  wonderful memories from the family  cruise 🚢 
Miss you big time Aunt Patti 
I will See you again in heaven one day … JD

OBITUARY

Patricia Ann Ayers

April 26, 1951 – January 30, 2024

Kays-Ponger, Uselton & Lemon Bay Funeral Homes

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