Albert James Ford, III

April 6, 1961 – September 30, 2026

Albert James Ford III was known by many names throughout his life: Jay, Big Jay, Mr. Jay, Mr. Ford, Babe, Dad, Uncle Jay, Senior Chief, and, of course, Papa. Each name represented a different part of his life and the many people who loved him. No matter what you called him, chances are he left you with a story to tell, a memory to cherish, or a reason to laugh.

Jay passed away on September 30, 2026, at the age of 65, leaving behind a lifetime of memories, laughter, love, and a family who will miss him dearly.

Born on April 6, 1961, in Flushing, New York, Jay spent his childhood and teenage years on Long Island, where he met the love of his life, LuAnn. Together, they built a life filled with family, love, and all the adventures, challenges, and laughter that come with sharing a lifetime together.

Jay proudly served his country in the United States Navy, earning the rank of Senior Chief Petty Officer. His military service was an important part of his life, reflecting his dedication, hard work, and commitment to those around him. But while Senior Chief was an impressive title, the ones he earned at home—husband, Dad, and Papa—were just as meaningful.

Jay was a man who wore many hats and answered to even more names. He had a way of making his presence known, whether through a conversation, a joke, a story, or simply being himself. He could make people laugh, sometimes intentionally and sometimes without even realizing it. In fact, his sense of humor was right there on his license plate: “YYGUY”—short for “Wise Guy.” It was a fitting choice for a man who clearly appreciated a little wit and wasn’t afraid to let the world know it. Whether he was cracking a joke, offering a clever remark, or giving someone a hard time, being a wise guy was simply part of being Jay.

Above all, Jay’s greatest legacy is his family. He is survived by his loving wife, LuAnn Ford; his sons, Jay Ford and his wife, Tatum Ford, James Ford, and Jesse Ford; his grandchildren, Tyler, Winter, and Eira Ford; and his brother, Kevin Ford.

He was preceded in death by his mother, Irene Long; his stepfather, Robert Long; his biological father, Albert James Ford II; and his mother-in-law, Sissy O’Kane.

Although saying goodbye is never easy, Jay leaves behind something that time cannot take away: the memories made, the lessons taught, the laughter shared, and the love of those fortunate enough to have known him.

His family will remember him not only for the milestones in his life, but also for the everyday moments—the conversations, the jokes, the familiar expressions, and all the little things that made him who he was.

And while he may no longer be here to tell his side of the story, there’s little doubt his family and friends will continue telling those stories for years to come. Whether he’d agree with their versions is another matter entirely.

A Celebration of Life will be held at Smith & Williams Funeral Home and graveside services with full honors will be held at the Albert G. Horton, Jr., Veteran Memorial Cemetery.

Fair winds and following seas, Senior Chief.

Rest easy, Jay. You’ve stood your watch. We’ll take it from here.