Ruben David Lopez

Ruben David Lopez, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, and Uncle, passed away on February 13, 2025, in Chesapeake, Virginia, at the age of 80. Born on November 15, 1944, in San Fernando, California, Ruben lived a life filled with love, service, and dedication to his family and country.

At the age of 19, Ruben was drafted into the U.S. Army, where he proudly served from 1965 to 1967 during the Vietnam War campaign. His commitment to his fellow veterans continued as he dedicated 36 years of his career working as a truck driver for the Veterans Administration, serving the Veterans Hospitals until his well-deserved retirement.

Ruben's greatest joy was his family. He cherished spending time with his brother Reynaldo, and together they created countless memories grilling and celebrating with loved ones. His weekends were devoted to supporting his children at their softball and baseball games. An avid gardener, Ruben found peace in tending to his garden and lawn, while evenings were often spent playing the guitar and singing, sharing his passion for music with his grandchildren.

He is preceded in death by his Mother, Isabel Lopez; Father, Ralph Alvarado; Brothers, Arthur and Reynaldo Lopez; Sisters, Rosemary Aguirre and Rachel Ortiz; and his dear stepson, Marc Ballin.

Ruben is survived by his devoted Wife of 40 years, Erlinda Lopez, who stood by his side through life's joys and challenges. He leaves behind his loving Children: Nichole (Tony) Llamas, Natalie (Henry) Gallarza, Rachelle (Leonard) Hawkins, and Ruben (Jennifer) Lopez. He is also survived by his Stepchildren: Gregory Garner, Marcos Cortez, Devyn Garner, Eileen Acedo, and Leonard Ballin. Ruben was a proud Grandfather to 29 Grandchildren and 22 Great-Grandchildren, each of whom brought immense joy to his life.

A Celebration of Life for Ruben will be held on Thursday, March 6, 2025, at 2:00 PM, at Smith & Williams Funeral Home/Kempsville, 4889 Princess Anne Rd, Virginia Beach, VA 23462.

Ruben's legacy of love, music, and family will forever be cherished by those who knew him. He will be deeply missed but fondly remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing him.