Raymond Gomez Jr.

Raymond Gomez Jr., known to many as Ray, died on August 4, 2026, at the age of 96. He was born on August 21, 1929. A longtime presence to those who knew him across the many chapters of his life, Ray was remembered for the steady discipline of a hard-working man, the quiet humility with which he carried responsibility, and a kindness that made others feel seen and welcomed.

Raised among a large family, Ray grew up with 10 brothers and sisters. He graduated from Visalia Union high, where his love of baseball was already evident—an early glimpse of the energy, good humor, and camaraderie that would continue to shape his relationships throughout life.

Ray’s professional life reflected uncommon dedication and breadth. He served in the National Guard, the Army Reserves, and on Active Duty, completing 33 years of military service and retiring as a Colonel—an achievement grounded in perseverance and thoughtful leadership. In civilian service, he spent 30 years with the U.S. Postal Service, rising from letter carrier to Postmaster in Woodlake, California, a role he held for six years. He also served his community as a Funeral Director for 17 years in Visalia, where his gentle presence and considerate care brought comfort to many families in their most difficult hours.

In 1950, Ray married Annie Ramirez. Together they shared 42 years of marriage and raised two children, Anna and Randy, of whom Ray was deeply proud. In 1999, he remarried, joining his life with Lenora Stubblefield. In 2023, Ray and Lenora moved to Rogers, Arkansas, to be closer to Randy—a decision that reflected Ray’s devotion to family and the generous way he made room in his life for those he loved.

Service to others was not simply something Ray did; it was a guiding principle. He was a Rotarian for 41 years and served as District 5230 Governor from 1995 to 1996, giving his time with characteristic diligence and a humble, steady sense of purpose. In retirement, he continued to lead through the Military Officers Association of America, serving as President from 1991 to 1992. He was also proud to be a charter member of the Avenue of the Flags in 1987. In Arkansas, he recently joined the Knights of Columbus and became a Third Degree Knight. Ray’s commitment to young people showed in practical, personal ways: he coached Randy in Little League and received the PTA Lifetime Achievement Award when Randy and Anna were in grammar school—recognition that reflected the thoughtful encouragement he offered and the belief he had in helping others reach their full potential.

Ray’s interests were as lively as his work ethic. He loved to travel, to golf, and to enjoy time outdoors. After retiring from the Post Office, he learned wood turning from master wood turner Jim Mathias, then shared what he learned by teaching local youths how to build bird houses—an example of Ray’s generous spirit and patient, hands-on mentorship. He especially enjoyed playing golf with his son Randy and with his friends, and he loved deep sea fishing on vacation.

Ray is survived by his wife, Lenora, with whom he shared 27 years. She encouraged and supported him in his volunteer work, especially during his term as Rotary District Governor. Lenora was Ray’s rock, and together they cherished travels to England, France, and Mexico with Jack and Ruby Swanton, their longtime travel companions. Ray and Lenora also traveled the United States and Canada by RV with Jack and Ruby, gathering memories in the simple, meaningful way Ray preferred—present, grateful, and fully engaged with the people beside him.

Ray enjoyed living life to it’s fullest. He loved family and friends, and he most loved serving his country and his community. His last three years were spent in Arkansas, where he was embraced by Randy’s friends, and where Ray’s warmth and humor continued to draw people in. He always enjoyed raising a glass of whiskey, and he coined the phrase, “Let’s have a topper,” a small signature of the lighthearted spirit he carried even as he lived with deep thoughtfulness and care for others.

Ray lived a wonderful life in his 97 years and was a man of multiple careers. He was well known in Visalia, and those who met him often remembered the warmth of his heart—steady, generous, and sincere. Above all, Ray was most proud of his daughter Anna and his son Randy and daughter in law Jeanette, and he will be remembered with gratitude and respect by all who had the privilege to know him.