 An open letter from Lisa's parents Fred and Deanna Roth:
       
Lisa Marie Roth came to us on June 26, 1973. From birth she stood out as a unique person. She was strong willed and could be a challenge to both of us from time to time. She was curious, forthright, happy, full of energy and from the start, her love for everyone, especially animals, was noteworthy. Her first pets were a pair of tri-colored guinea pigs, she named Harriet and Bob. She watched over, and saw that everything needed for her little friends were taken care of every day. Her kindness towards all animals sometimes caused issues, especially when some lost creature would follow her home. Many times this led to family adoptions, if they could not be placed back in their homes.

Her early teenage years were sometimes tumultuous. Lisa could stand up to any person or adversity that beset her. Many a boy, who made the mistake of getting under her skin, would end up the recipient of bruises as payment for their misdeeds. She also had the verbal skills to stand up to the best of them, including her old man. Another attribute Lisa had was her sales skills, partially generated by the self confidence she had when dealing with people. The way we discovered this talent was one Sunday, when her brother and Fred took her to the Pomona Swap Meet, where they set up a space to sell antique car parts. Around noon, Chris and Fred went to buy some lunch, as well as check out some of the other stalls at the show. They left Lisa alone, telling her to watch that our items were not stolen. Upon returning over an hour later, they were horrified to see about 1/3 of their items were missing. Thinking she had not been watching the items as asked, dad angrily said, "Lisa, Where did all my stuff go?" "I sold them," she replied looking him straight in the eye. "What did you, do give them away?" he responded. "No!" she replied, "They paid just what you had marked on them." As she said that, she flashed a sizable roll of cash at him. "How the heck did you do that?" he responded. "I don't know, " she said. In order to find out, we stood back and watched in amazement as she sold a few more items, all to young males we might add! The way she used her remarkable good looks, pleasant conversation, and maybe a little fluttering of the eyes, we knew we had a true salesperson on our hands.

Soon after Lisa graduated from high school, all of these positive traits merged together when she went to work in a veterinary clinic. Her love for animals, humans, the ability to stand up to the best of them, as well as  her sales skills and good looks, merged into one terrific young lady. Having been the parents, who had dealt with those teenage years and lots of boys, we couldn't believe our eyes. Our little sweetie had grown to be a terrific, strong human being, as well as a fantastic loving mother to her only child, Randy. We couldn't have been any prouder. As the years rolled by, Lisa continued to grow, and we were amazed at how hard she worked, and the amount of empathy she had for everyone she came in contact with, whether at work or daily life.  Whatever the problem, Lisa could take it on and solve it.

When she was diagnosed with cancer in January 2014, she faced the problem with the same mature resolve she always had. Even as the cancer progressed at an alarming rate, she kept her chin up and kept fighting. She continued working for her company Victor Veterinary Supplies and seemed more worried about taking care of her customers than the issues with this terrible disease. When her dad spent a stint in the hospital, her focus was 100% on his  well being, rather than all her cancer challenges. The cancer spread from her lungs to the brain, and finally progressing to her adrenal gland. The results of this vicious devil caused her to lose most of her motor skills when the cancer wrapped around her spine. Still, she had friends drive her around to her customers, to be sure all was well with them. It wasn't until the last several weeks, when she had her stroke and was unable to use the limbs on her right side, that she slowed down. Even then, she had her husband drive her over to our home for the very sad task of saying good bye to us. She passed quietly on Sept 28, 2014.

We were left with a rage that such a beautiful child could have been taken from us at the very prime of her life. The rage was tempered by the love that had poured out from friends, and yes, customers, during her memorial ceremony. Add to that, the fact that our pride in being blessed with such a wonderful daughter came to light even more. As long as we remain on this earth, her memory will be with us always to comfort us. We love you so much, dear Lisa.
Smooches,
Pops and Mommy

Any of you who want to honor Lisa may do so by making a donation in her name to the University of California at Davis, School of Veterinary Medicine, One Shields Avenue, Davis, CA 95616. - See more at: http://memorialwebsites.legacy.com/LisaMarieRothBernhardtMemorial/Subpage.aspx?mod=1#sthash.yyM4CcF5.dpuf

Lisa- you were an amazing soul and such a bright light. I loved your visits. You were always so kind. Blessings on your transition.

Your vitality and character stays with us. Find your way safely. You are missed

Your vitality and character stays with all of us who knew you. I had counted on saying hello again when I was in Thousand Oaks. I trust you know this. In Peace and in Strength, Find Your Way Safely~

Such sad news about Lisa.  I am lifting up the entire family in prayer.

Like a candle in the wind, you left us too soon.  May your family find comfort in a life well lived.  I'll always remember your wonderful smile and your great sense of humor.

My sincere condolences to the family and friends of Lisa.  Her passing is a terrible loss to the animal lovers of the world.

Thou we never meet in person but have talked on the phone you were always very nice and I could hear your smile in your voice. i was at your house yesterday to support Chris and your son Randy which was the first time I ever meet what a good son you have was very polite and was positive great kid you have. And Chris what a great guy one of the best I wish there were more people like him the world would be a better place from my point of view you are loved by so many and made a difference in there lives by being you which is gift you will be truly missed!!! So fly with angels in peace no pain and love ! you will be missed but you are in the hearts of so many and will never be forgotten !!!

I am deeply saddened to learn of the passing of Lisa.  I was very fortunate to have known Lisa both as kids together in elementary school as well as in our adult lives.  I will always remember her friendly and caring demeanor and her sweet smile that could light up the entire room.  My thoughts and prayers are with Chris her loving husband, her son Randy and her family.

Your smile is forever etched in my heart.  You touched my life in so many ways.  Rest well my friend.

Heartbreaking and very sad to here of your passing, will never forget you coming to /dr.Bandele hospital and asking can I go back,your family may you find peace and very sorry for your loss Take care

I will always remember Lisa as the kind lady with a sweet smile who always brought us goodies at the vet hospital. The best rep I've ever met and she was a sweetheart. I can't believe you are gone, at such a young age. My condolences to your family. May God give them comfort and peace in this time of grief! Rest in Paradise

Lisa, thank you for all the moral support you had given me. I will miss your kindness and bright smile. Heaven has gained an angel.

My dear Lisa. I miss you, you beautiful soul. RIP Loving thoughts and prayers for you Chris and Randy and family.

My dear beautiful friend, my godmother to my kids, I am blessed to have had you in my familys life,wonderful memories I will keep very close to my heart,I miss you dearly my friend, rest in peace, I love you lisa ?

Lisa was and always will always be an amazing person. She was a great friend and my first girlfriend...in 5th grade ....although i think we never actually had a date and maybe held hands once. :0) 
     She had an infectious smile and I can only remember that smile when I think of her. I ran into her maybe 5-6 years ago at Jury duty and she was so happy about her current life. She had her son Randy and her Husband Chris. She was successful in the Veterinarian world and I was so happy for her. She was and is one of those people that you just want to run into in life because she brings so  much to the proverbial table. 
      Fred and Deanna I am so sorry for you loss. You raised the most amazing woman who impacted many. 
     Chris Roth, I am still floored by this whole thing. You are a brother to me. We have known each other since I was just a little kid so this hurt is so deep for me. I love you brother and will always be here for you. 
     Chris Bernhardt I have not met you yet but, I have heard amazing things about you as a husband, brother in law and Father. I am so glad that Lisa got to spend that amazingly sweet time with you because from what I have heard and can see you truly made her shine. Thank you for honoring her as the amazing person she was. 
      Randy... I also have never met you but, your mom was an amazing person. I lost my father at the same age so I understand your hurt and confusion. Be true to yourself and make your mother proud. Don't lash out in anger for it easy to do(I am not saying you have or will but that is what I experienced with my own life). You have family who loves you so much. Now is the time to bond together. I blamed myself for not being there when my father died but I realized I was beating myself up over something that I couldn't change. Move ahead with your life and live to make your mother proud. Embrace life; for all those who loved your mom by default are there for you as well. Lisa will be gone but never forgotten in my life for she will always be my childhood friend.

You don't feel gone, you feel more powerful...spread your wings my friend and share your kindness with the rest who did not get to know you. I was one of the lucky ones, and until we meet again, you are forever in my heart.

I am deeply saddened by the news of Lisa's passing.  My thoughts and condolences are with the Roth and Bernhardt families.

You will be greatly missed my friend.  You are an angel and will never be forgotten.  Love you

She was a remarkable woman who served as an example to so many in the veterinary field.  Always positive, always ready and able to give a bit of solid advice or guidance.  I hope her loved ones will find some comfort in knowing how many of us feel she touched us positively.  My deepest sympathies...

You are with me every day I when I work.  You are with me when I laugh.  You are with me when I am disheartened. You are with me every time I touch Fletcher's collar that you gave him 12 years ago...yes, it still fits!
You are the shining angel who reminds us to be the best we can be.  You will never, ever be forgotten.  Chris, Randy, Mr &Mrs. Roth, Chris &Michelle, my heart is forever touched by her spirit.

Rest in Paradise my friend! You were beautiful on the inside and the outside. I will miss our music and concert conversations and your smiling face, with a great laugh. I am heartbroken that you are no longer with us. My thoughts are with your family.

Lisa will be missed terribly. The world has lost a truly remarkable person. To her family, as I am sure you can see from the overwhelming messages and prayers, Lisa touched the hearts and lives of so many. I know that I would not be where I am today without her support and confidence in me and for that I am eternally grateful. She was my Webster rep and then became my friend and Patterson coworker. She will certainly never be forgotten as long as I am here. I feel so blessed to have known her. My most heart felt condolences to you, her family.

RIP Lisa heaven has a true angel  above you can rest now and no more pain Prayers with the whole family at this hard time  God bless ????????????????????????????????

Lisa, we all feel robbed of your physical presence. We will cherish our memories of you and keep your beautiful spirit with us at all times.  My heart goes out to Chris, Randy and Lisa's family. She was truly one of a kind.

What a radiant person inside and out! I only knew Lisa briefly but she was one of those people that once acquainted, you could pick up right where you left off whenever you saw her again. She was always smiling and her love for her family was written all over her. She will never be forgotten and the world is a shabbier place without her. What a beautiful soul. Love to the Roth and Bernhardt family and deepest sympathy.

I would not be where I am today without Lisa Bernhardt. As a new vet school grad, I often asked her for career advice.  Several years later, Lisa convinced me to start a practice. This was NOT in my original plan, but I had complete trust in her keen sensibility and judgment. And who could resist her winning personality?  Over lunch one day, she singlehandedly named our hospital and got the ball rolling. Without her, the Animal Health Care Center would not exist. She is one of my greatest mentors, and I will never forget what she did for me.
Lisa battled cancer with dignity and her usual sense of humor.  Her positive outlook is truly an inspiration. May we all remember her fondly and be grateful for having known her. She made an impact on all our lives.

Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Sincerely, 
Dirk Yelinek

Didn't know you Lisa but have heard such amazing things about you from Allison and Alicia...They have said what an amazing and beautiful person you were..Rest in Peach and restored health. Margie from South Shores Pet Clinic

Dear Chris, Randy and Lisa's family, 
My heart is breaking and breaking. Lisa was as close to perfection as a human being as one could be. She will always hold a special place in my heart. I have truly grown as a person knowing her.

Lisa  I did not get a chance to meet you but I had a big crush on your mom in the third grade at Meadows  she is a wonderful and loving person so I'm sure you were the same you were a friend with my daughter Renee Tinsley Booth all through school and she talked so much about so RIP your at peace and looking down on us God bless ??

Lisa Marie was a joy to be around....She was a bright light in the dark of night, always a smile..always sticking up for her daddy, always had something going on!!She was a major source of enjoyment at the car meets and all the car shows we shared with the Roth family in the early years..she was so loved by ALL those she came in contact with,especially my daughters...she has truly gone to a better place..no more pain..just LOVE. Your old playmate is waiting for you Lisa..My heart goes out to the entire Roth family for their loss...All our love, Steven,Jacklyn and Peter Karlock............

Our deepest condolences to Lisa's Family and friends.

She is a positive person that always made you in a happy mood after talking with her.

Our thoughts, prayers are with you and your family.

Jeanne and Alan Grant

Lisa was the most amazing person I ever met, and I will miss her. My deepest condolences to her family.

My deepest sympathy in the loss of Lisa, I worked with her many years ago at Burns Vet Supply.  She always had a beautiful and friendly smile.  Please know that you are lifted up in prayer at this difficult time.

My deepest condolences to Lisa's husband, son and family.  Lisa was beautiful both inside and out,  such a beautiful soul.  RIP Lisa

I only knew Lisa professionally but after meeting her several times as a young rep, she was what I strove to be for my customers.  I'm certain that I'm not alone in saying that she was a mentor, even to those she didn't realize she was mentoring.  Her work and attitude have made us all better.  She will be missed.

I want to express my condolences to Lisa's husband, son,family and friends.  I am fortunate to have called Lisa a friend.  I will remember her sparkling eyes kind smile and caring heart.   Heaven has a special angel, and we have a special angel watching over all of us.

I met and worked with Lisa on many jobs, she was always the hardest working person involved.  I will miss her, and want to express my condolences to her husband and family...

We met Lisa when she worked at Animal Hospital of Thousand Oaks.  She and everyone there became family to us.  Lisa was so beautiful, kind and caring.  We send all our love to her husband, son and family.  We are so very sorry for this terrible loss.  May all the memories you hold in your heart bring you much needed comfort.

OBITUARY

Lisa Marie Roth Bernhardt

June 26, 1973 – September 28, 2014

Pierce Brothers Valley Oaks-Griffin Memorial Park, Mortuary & Crematory

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