Judy and I were close childhood friends.   Her mom took us to manasquan a few times, great memories.  And we walked to kuhns almost everyday after school
And she took me skidooing in the winter.  Her pool in the summer. The Fyfes knew how to have fun.
I loved going to her house as a kid.

Dear Mike.  Please accept my sincere condolences . Lisa

Dear Mike & Family 

I’ve struggled to write this because I just can’t find the words.  Judy was my dear friend going way back.  We could not talk for months and just pick up where we left off.  She was a  Special Wife, Mom, and Friend.  We will miss her so much.  Our thoughts and love are with you all.
Love Helen & Bob

We have many happy memories of out travels with Mike & Judy. We have traveled to Europe , Canada & throughput the USA. Each trip brought us many laughs, fun times, family news & knowledge about the world we live in.
We are so lucky to get to know Judy through our dinners & travels.She loved her family, had a great sense of humor, and a kind heart.
Rest In Peace! Love Tom & Judy❤️

I will always remember the kindness that she and her family gave unselfishly to my family during a difficult time.  Rest in peace Judy, knowing that you were a loving mother to your three boys.  You will always have a special place in my heart.



We are heartbroken at the loss of our dear friend Judy. So many memories. I’m going to miss our every morning texts with Persia. Our breakfasts at the Pearl River Diner and our endless talks. To the Lamendola Family...you lost one of the most loving, caring,  beautiful souls. She loved you all so very much. She will be missed and I know I’ll think of her everyday. RIP dear Judy and say hi to Gail and Marion. 
Love you !  Lois and Mark




Blue Eyes are the Best Aunt Judy. Sorry I can’t be there next week. RIP w Gramps and Chris  🙏 xo

Mike, Michael, Joe, Brian and family: Joe and I are devastated by the loss of your wonderful and beautiful wife, mom, grandma, and my dear friend,  To say I am heartbroken is an understatement. So many great memories shared over the last 30 years. Know that you were all the light of her life.   I will miss her every single day.  Love, prayers, and sympathy to you all.  Rest In peace my friend.
Love, Carolyn & Joe Pompeo

We are so very sad to hear of the passing of Judy.  I'm sure that you and Marion will be up to some sort of mischief.   Will never forget the fun times at baseball games and get togethers. 
Rest in peace 
Sandie,  David and Sean Carney 

Girls weekend was always more fun when she was there. So sorry for your loss. Jack & Inge

Judy was a very special person...kind, caring, and understanding.  Lois, you and I shared a beautiful bond that doesn't come along very often.  I am trying to be brave about.     losing you, I'll do my best.  Know that you will always be on my mind....you were loved my dear friend. 
P.S. Don't forget to tell God to "work with you"

I have no words.  We have been partners in mischief and wine for 30 years.  I know know you are running wild w Marion aka the quis.   I will miss our unfinished business.  🍷 cheers & love my friend.

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Judy Lamendola

September 1, 1953 – August 9, 2022

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