WILHELM, Pamela, F., (nee Brosnan), on Wednesday, December 31, 2014 of Westwood. Beloved wife of Walter. Devoted mother of Jessica Westefeld and her husband Jeff, Sarah Chrystal and her husband Matt and Adam Wilhelm. Dear sister of Neil and his wife Gail and Paul Brosnan. Loving grandmother of 3 grandchildren and beloved nieces and nephews. Pamela was Chief Executive Officer of The Way It Was, Inc., Spring Valley, NY for 40 years until her retirement in 2013. Visitation will be at Becker Funeral Home, 219 Kinderkamack Road, Westwood on Monday 6-9 pm. Funeral service at the funeral home on Tuesady at 10:00 am. Burial on Thursday at Brigadier General William C. Doyle Veteran Memorial Cemetery, Arneytown, NJ at 11:30 am. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Diabetes Assoc., 1701 North Beauregard St., Alexandria, VA 22311. 1-800-DIABETES.