Becker Funeral Home

219 Kinderkamack Road, Westwood, NJ


Paul Neill

May 8, 1941September 7, 2020

Neill, Paul S. (Montvale, NJ) 79

Paul was born in East Orange, NJ in 1941, and raised by Marjorie (Stauffer) and Everett in Short Hills. Following his graduation from Yale University, Paul proudly served in the US Marine Corp during the years preceding and including the Vietnam War. He earned his MBA from NYU and Rutgers University, and had a lengthy career in corporate management before running his own consulting firm until his retirement. Beyond his degrees, his service and his professional accomplishments, Paul’s crowning achievement is his half-century marriage to his soulmate, Lillian, who survives him. Their love and devotion serves as both foundation and model to his beloved children Kimberly (and Michael) and Brian (and Monika). It was in his retirement that Paul’s varied talents and interests flourished - as historian to Christopher, jokester to Sean, shark hunter to William, homework helper to Aiden, storyteller to Jaxson, and the primary subject of Nora’s most-admired artwork. He will be missed by many, and remembered fondly by many, many more. A memorial service will be held at St. Gabriel’s Church in Saddle River, NJ. Memorial donations can be made to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center (www.mskcc.org).


18 September

Memorial Mass

11:00 am - 12:00 pm

St. Gabriel The Archangel R.C. Church

88 E Saddle River Road
Saddle River, NJ 07458


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Margret Bauer

September 14, 2020

I met Paul when hisand our families joint thru the marriage of our children . I always thought he was a fascinating man and courageous. Well liked by all and devoted family man . R I P Paul we will miss you

Maureen Lostumbo

September 10, 2020

It was always a pleasure to be in Paul's company, to share in his wit, intelligence and kindness. Deepest condolences for Lillian and his family. Sincerely, Maureen Lostumbo


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