OBITUARY
Biagio "Billy" S. Ciotto
December 25, 1929 – March 20, 2021
Biagio S. “Billy” Ciotto, 91, of Wethersfield, passed away peacefully on Saturday March 20, 2021 with his wife, Jeanne and his son, John by his side. Born December 25, 1929, Billy was the only child of Antoinetta (Scinto) and Joseph Ciotto.
Billy was an amazing man who truly loved people and was loved by so many in return. There will never be another like him. He is survived by his “beautiful bride” of 66 years, Jeanne, his children and their spouses, Joseph, Anthony, Julie and John Ferrigno, John and Sherri Ciotto, and Maria and Ken Larose. He leaves his five grandchildren, Jonathan Ferrigno, Jessica Ferrigno, Gabrielle Ciotto, Daniel Ciotto, and Jack Larose, who were the lights of his life and always brought a smile to his face. Billy also leaves several dear cousins, nieces, nephews and friends (including an extra special group of people whom he and Jeanne considered as their other “kids”), with whom he shared many laughs, smiles and tears over the years. He was predeceased by his parents, his mother and father-in-law, Margaretta and Edmund Purtell, his daughter-in-law, Mary (Lupo) Ciotto, his aunts and uncles Dominick and Rose Ciotto, Antoinette Rosso, Giovaninna and Silvio Paoletta, Philomena and Michael Galizia, Louis and Isabelle Scenti, Mike and Corrine Scenti and Mary Scenti. He was also predeceased by Jeanne’s siblings and their spouses, Shirley and Al Amos, Walter and Lillian Miller, Norman Miller, and Marge and Henry Dowling, as well as many cousins and many dear friends who were more like brothers.
Billy and Jeanne were married on January 22, 1955 at Saint Augustine Church in Hartford. While raising their young family, Billy often worked three jobs so that Jeanne could stay home with their children. One of those jobs was as an accordion player in the infamous Hartford area band, the Bel-Aires, with Ernie Andreoli on drums, Tony Matassa on bass, and John Prokopec on saxophone. The Bel-Aires played an untold number of weddings and dance hall events in the 1950s through the 1970s. As their children grew older, Jeanne would often join the band as their singer.
Billy attended Hartford schools, graduating from Bulkeley High School in 1947 and began what would become a successful 42-year career with the Connecticut Department of Motor Vehicles. His first position with the DMV was as a Teletype Machine Operator on the midnight shift. Throughout his DMV years, Billy worked as an Inspector, Supervisor, Manager, Director of Registry and Title and in 1987 was appointed to the position of Deputy Commissioner by then Governor William O’Neill. Billy served as Deputy Commissioner until his retirement in October 1989. Among his many accomplishments with the DMV was the transition to and implementation of issuance of a photo driver’s license to State residents.
Billy’s love for people was unmatched and after retirement in 1989, he spent the next five years as a volunteer at St. Francis Hospital bringing new patients through the admissions process. As a member of the Wethersfield Democratic Town Committee, he was asked to run for the 9th District Senate seat and won election in November 1994. He served six terms as 9th District (Wethersfield, Newington, Rocky Hill, Cromwell and part of Middletown) Senator. While he was a proud Democrat, during his time at the State Capitol, Billy was renowned and respected for his unique ability to reach across the aisle and bring about common sense bipartisan legislative solutions. As the Senate Chairman of the Transportation Committee, Billy could often be heard saying, “There’s no Democratic way to pave a road and there’s no Republican way to build a bridge. It’s about the people, they just want to be able to drive on safe roads and bridges!” In that same bipartisan spirit, Billy, along with former Democratic State Representatives Richard Tulisano and Joe Serra, co-founded the Italian-American Legislative Caucus with current Republican State Representative Anthony D’Amelio and then Republican State Senator, Lou DeLuca, creating a bipartisan educational scholarship fund to promote the appreciation and understanding of Italian-American history and culture.
Shortly after his retirement from the State Senate in 2006, Billy began working with the Hartford office of U.S. Congressman, John Larson helping countless constituents of the 1st Congressional District until his passing.
Billy was best known for his infectious smile, ever-present cigar and his genuine love of people. He, along with his wife, Jeanne, always stressed the importance of Faith, Family and Friends to their children and grandchildren. They taught all of us so many life lessons. He was never happier than when he was surrounded by family, especially during our annual 4th of July week family vacations at Narragansett, RI with 17 of us all in one house for the week.
Billy received numerous accolades over his many years of public service. The ones that were most dear to his heart were received from the Greater Hartford Italian-American Home (Gold Medal for public service in 1977), the Rocky Hill St. Patrick’s Day Parade Committee when they named him Town Marshall in 2010, Holy Family Passionist Retreat Center in West Hartford for attending over 60 annual retreats; InterCommunity Mental Healthcare in East Hartford, for his work on behalf of people suffering from mental illness; the Rocky Hill Democratic Town Committee naming him the first recipient of the Biagio “Billy” Ciotto Public Service Award, and of course, being named Irish Person of the Year by the CCCCC in 2016.
One of the shining moments of Billy’s life was the personal invitation he received from Speaker Nancy Pelosi to attend her swearing in in Washington, DC in January 2019. The family would like to thank Mary Adjei, Martha Antwi, Sisay Demssie, Angela Johnson-Shaw, Natasha Edwards-Morant, Kemorione Brown, Donna Reynolds, and Teresa Sienko for their loving care of Billy over the last few years.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, March 29 at 10 a.m. in the Cathedral of St. Joseph, 140 Farmington Avenue, Hartford. Individuals planning to attend the Funeral Mass will need to register at www.hartfordcathedral.org and attendees are asked to please go directly to the church. Masks and social distancing will be mandatory. For those who cannot attend, the Mass may be watched via livestream on the church website (see above). Interment in the family plot will follow the Mass in Mt. St. Benedict Cemetery (section R ext.), 1 Cottage Grove Rd., Bloomfield. There will be a drive-thru visitation on Sunday, March 28 from 12-4 p.m. at the D’Esopo Funeral Chapel, 277 Folly Brook Blvd., Wethersfield. In lieu of flowers and to honor Billy, the family requests your consideration of a donation made to the Biagio “Billy” and Jeanne Ciotto Memorial Fund – make checks payable to “Hartford Foundation for Public Giving, Inc.” 10 Columbus Boulevard, 8th Floor, Hartford, CT 06106. To share a memory of Billy with his family, please visit www.desopofuneralchapel.com.
DONATIONS
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Hartford Foundation for Public Giving, Inc.
10 Columbus Blvd. 8th Floor , Hartford, CT 06106
Services
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Drive Thru Calling Hours
Sunday, March 28, 2021
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Mass of Christian Burial
Monday, March 29, 2021
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Burial
Monday, March 29, 2021
Memories
Biagio "Billy" S. Ciotto
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ADD A MEMORYBruno Cerati
March 30, 2021
Jeanne and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Billy had the ability to light up a room. He always had a smile and greeting for everyone. He will be greatly missed. Our deepest sympathy
Bruno and Linda Cerati
Harry Gough
March 30, 2021
Joe & family
So sorry to hear about your dad. In all my work with him he was the most upright and genuine state official I ever had the pleasure to work with.
I know he lived a good life but it is always hard to lose someone whose been in you life for so long.
I would like to have told you in person but for COVID.
Sincerely,
Harry C. Gough, P.E.
DMV Engineer Retired
Marie Sheehan
March 29, 2021
Dear Jeanne and family, My deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your wonderful husband. He was one of the warmest and kind people I have ever known. He reached out to all to help in any way he could. He was enormously proud of all of you, for family was everything to him. He was in touch when Felix (the Doc) was ill. I also needed to reach out to share a sweet of memory of the two of them. We were at an event that Billy was being recognized for but, sadly, I don't remember which one . Felix went out of his way to find the "perfect way to recognize him and get a laugh." We searched the internet and found a great picture of Billy, enlarged and printed it. He then found a very large teddy bear and attached Billy's face to cover the bears. We printed a banner to go along and it said "CUDDLES CIOTTO." Billy just loved it and Felix was thrilled. He reminded us each time he saw us afterwards and said the grandchildren loved it. It was a privilege and honor to know you both. This quote sums up Billy - "Some people pass through life and are soon forgotten. Others pass through life and leave their footprints deep in our hearts and we are never the same because of them." May your happy memories sustain you now and in the future. God Bless dear Jeanne, Marie Sheehan
Joseph Jeamel
March 29, 2021
He called me his "Arab Friend ". When ever I picked him up in my Mercedes he would say "only in America " Rip my friend.
Ed Skowronek
March 29, 2021
Our District meetings at Triple A were always an event. Our lunches at corner grinder could never be replicated, either, not to mention the time he took to get to know and educate us new folks in the office. What an incredible human being and pure force of nature.
Patricia & Josephine Scott
March 28, 2021
Jeanne & Family
Mom and I are so sorry to hear of the loss of Billy. Mom always talks about both of you as such nice people. You may or may not remember me Jeanne, I met you with the coffee group at Tim Hortons with mom. Take care. We will keep you in our prayers.
Patricia (Scott) Sachonchik
Josephine Scott
Mayor Ellen Zoppo-Sassu
March 28, 2021
On behalf of the City of Bristol, we share our deepest sympathy with the Ciotto family. We valued the interactions we had with Sen. Ciotto as part of the First Congressional District and Congressman Larson. He will be remembered fondly by all of us.
Sincerely,
Mayor Ellen Zoppo-Sassu
Michael D’Esopo Klett
March 28, 2021
Jeanne and family,
How deeply saddened I was to hear of the passing of one of my all-time favorite people, Sen. Ciotto. I had the incredible good fortune of being your next door neighbor in my earliest years, but the Ciotto’s have always felt part of our extended family. As a young and impressionable campaign volunteer, I learned many important lessons from observing him- he was a man of principles, but treated everyone with dignity and respect, regardless of whether or not they agreed with him. He was a person of unyielding loyalty and a fierce advocate for his family, friends, and community, and he did it with a flair all his own. We’ll miss him dearly and your family will continue to be in our prayers.
Bhupen Patel
March 28, 2021
Billy’s many good qualities include his down to earth humble attitude. He remembered every friend by their name and voice. Even during his ill health when I used to call him every few weeks he would pick up phone and before I identify he greeted me by first name and would talk above Najib and us getting together. My relationship with him was more as a friend. We did not talk politics.
He always asked about the health of our common friend Tony Gallicchio He will be missed by many friends.
May rest his soul in Peace.
Pam Grimaldi Raynock
March 27, 2021
Jean and Family,
I was very sorry to hear of the passing of Billy. He was a wonderful man who always had a kind word and/or sage advise all delivered with a smile. He could make anyone feel like he was their best friend but was always straight forward with his opinions. We shared a heritage as our families came here from Pratala Peligna Italy and he always remembered that when we met. You will be missed by many and I was grateful to know you kind sir.
Pam Grimaldi Raynock
Christine Cappiello
March 27, 2021
My dearest Ciotto family,
Billy, Jeanne and all of welcomed me into your life and made me feel like a member of your family and for that I am forever grateful. There is truly a void in my life with the passing of Billy and while I have great memories of working for him and our friendship long after I worked for him; I will still miss “hello! May I help you” every time we spoke.
Heaven will never be the same now that he is there and nor with it be the same here without him.
Love you Senator and we will always miss you..
Christine, David and the boys
Roz Zagaja
March 27, 2021
Thinking of you all,during this difficult time, as you say goodbye to a wonderful man. He touched many people! You are the legacy he leaves!
Joe Sferrazza
March 26, 2021
Thank you to Senator Ciotto’s family for sharing him with us. He was such a great person to be around. I met him at the State Capitol while being assigned to cover politics & government for News 8. Billy (and I never called him that) always Senator, and I clicked immediately. We would share stories about our Italian heritage. He was so much more than just another “sound bite”, he was truly my dear friend. He was always looking out for my nutrition, telling me to help myself to the food laid out at the Capitol. One Christmas he told me to meet him at his car. He opened the trunk to reveal what looked like a mobile package store. Buon Natale Giuseppe, helpa your self. I’m sure he was spreading Christmas cheer to all of his friends. What he may not have realized was that it wasn’t the liquor that supplied the cheer, it was his great personality. My deepest sympathy to all of Senator Ciotto’s family. I’ll miss you Senator and will always remember you. God bless.
james marchio
March 26, 2021
Joe,
I am sorry for your dad's passing. You were a good son to your parents. You always were caring for them whenever I asked
about them and their health.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Jim Marchio
Riverdale Cleaners
Angelo Faenza
March 26, 2021
My condolences to Jeanne and the Ciotta family. Billy was a dear friend and I will miss him and our lunches and daily phone calls. He was one of a kind who was happiest when he could help someone. Rest In Peace, my friend.
Tani and Angelo Faenza
Richard Balducci
March 26, 2021
Carmela and I send our deepest sympathy to Jeanne and the entire Ciotto family. Billy will be deeply missed by us. Everyone who knew him personally and the thousands of residents who were helped by him, directly and indirectly through his work at the DMV and as a member of the Connecticut State Senate have lost a compassionate man.
When Billy was elected to the Senate, he really found his passion, his stage. He took to the work with a commitment few people possess. He was as proud of his political life as he was of his heritage, his family, his state and his country. He was a 5 foot five giant among men.
He was a politician who could use a microphone to charm his audience with stories and laughter. Come to think of it, he never saw a microphone he didn’t like! If you thought you might have seen him on the street and he didn’t have a cigar with him, chances are it wasn’t Billy.
He will be missed, but not forgotten. I will miss you be Biagio.
Janet Klett
March 26, 2021
Jeanne, Joe, Anthony, John, Julie, Maria and families....
Words can’t express how deeply saddened we are at the loss of our dear friend, neighbor and “ honorary” family member. The seas parted when he walked into any room. He was larger than life and had the gift of making everyone feel special when in his presence.
Four generations of the D’Esopo family have known and loved the Ciotto’s over the past century....we send our deepest condolences and love to your entire family ....
Janet, Mike and Michael Klett
DONNA SPENCER
March 25, 2021
My favorite memory of Billy was whenever he would speak at DMV (whether it was a retirement party, holiday party, etc), he would always start by saying - "when I first started at DMV, I was 6 feet tall." It always got a laugh out of everyone there. No matter who you were, Billy always smiled and said hello. He made you feel welcome and like he knew you. Didn't matter who you were. My deepest condolences to his family and friends. Heaven has gained quite an angel!
Danny & Rosanna D'Aprile & Family
March 25, 2021
Dear Mrs. Ciotto, Joe, Anthony, Julie, John, Maria and Families,
We were so sad to hear of Billy's passing. He was a true Gentleman in every sense of the word who always was willing to help others. He talked to everyone and listened to them. We loved his jokes too and the cigar. He was a celebrity each time he came into the store. We shared many conversations and jokes. Not many can say this but he knew all 4 generations of the D'Aprile family and the extended...Vito, Kelly, Danny, Lisa and Daniel and everyone loved him.
You are each in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time and always.
Our Deepest Sympathy,
Danny, Rosanna, Lisa & Daniel D'Aprile
and Everyone at D&D Market
Yvonne Le Blond-Brennan
March 25, 2021
Joe and family: I am sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you at this time.
Yvonne Le Blond
Michael Valente
March 25, 2021
Expressing deepest sympathy for Billy and his family from the Valente family, especially Lou, and Peter, who were good friends of Billy throughout their lives. Billy was a special person and will be missed dearly. Rest in peace.
Michael Valente
Joe and Jocelyn Paoletta
March 25, 2021
Our hearts go out to the family. We fondly remember many fun times with Billy (aka uncle Angelo) especially our recent get-togethers including Biago’s Restaurant , Cantina Restaurant and at cousin Donna’s club house.
Peter Soulsby
March 25, 2021
Billy was truly one of the greatest human beings God ever placed on this earth. I know he is sitting back in heaven, enjoying a good cigar, and the company of all his friends who passed before him. God Bless!
Eugene Dessureau
March 25, 2021
Bill was just a great guy. Always a lot of fun and a very good friend. My condolences to his family.
Gene Dessureau - Bulkeley -1949
Bethesda, Md.
Diane and George DePasquale
March 25, 2021
Another star in Heaven! Billy was a most beloved man. Yes, always a smile and a kind word and deed. Loved his wife Jeanne, family and fellow man.
Rest In Peace dear Bill. Loved you.
Sincerely. Diane and George
Mirella Pace D’Antonio
March 25, 2021
To Jeanne and family, my heart is heavy for your loss! Billy was a gem. Our family knew him because of all the retreats at Holy Family monastery where he befriended my Dad, Tiberio Pace. Dad passed in 1995 and both Billy and Jeanne always remained kind to my Mom, Armida. She appreciated your continuous uplifting words until her passing in 2019 for which I and my siblings thank you for your exemplary kindness. We will never forget all the pasta dinners at Holy Family where we raised our wine glasses to say “salute”. So on behalf of the Pace Family, we say “salute” to the life of Billy- a life well-lived and well-loved. God bless you all🙏🙏
Gen LaCava Aureli
March 24, 2021
Maria, sorry to hear about your father. May you take comfort in knowing that he was well regarded and loved by so many. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Gloria McLean
March 24, 2021
My fondest memories of Billy involve campaigning. Billy loved to campaign because he loved meeting and being with people. Whether on a bus ride through his district and then getting off the bus and waving, or meeting people at their front doors, Billy showed how much he respected them and how much he cared about their issues. And they valued him in turn.
Billy was a legend in his own life time. Now he will be a legend forever. My deepest sympathies go out to Jeanne and his family.
Sue Kramer
March 24, 2021
Mrs. Ciotto and family,
I am so deeply sorry to hear of Billy's passing. Certainly he broke the mold when he was born. Such a gentleman always. Heaven is a better place now that Billy is there. Sleep well with the angels my old friend.
My condolences,
Sue Kramer
Wethersfield
Ron Di Mauro
March 24, 2021
Mrs. Ciotto and family, my condolences to you, it was a sad day for me as well as many folks in Connecticut, to hear of Billy's passing, my dad, Sam, introduce me to Billy many years ago, when Billy was working at DMV, my dad always had kind words about him, my dad knew Billy's mom. I've always enjoyed talking with Billy, he was one of a kind, Connecticut was a better place because of him, he helped a lot of people. he will be missed by many.
Ron Di Mauro
Philadelphia, Pa.
Michael Bzdyra
March 23, 2021
To Jeanne and the entire Ciotto Family,
My sincerest condolences on the passing of Billy. He was a very special person who loved his family dearly. We will all miss him. I had the extreme good fortune to know him over the years and feel blessed that he shared his wit and wisdom with me and so many. He loved helping people regardless of their station in life and taught us all many lessons on being kind, compassionate, and understanding. He always smiled, had a great sense of humor, and was gracious with his time. I always looked forward to seeing him at the Corner Grinder on Fridays for lunch and miss those days. I am sure he has already started those lunches again and I look forward to seeing him at some point. God bless and my thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Robert Mooney
March 23, 2021
Requiesce in pace !
You epitomized what it means to be a public servant.
Your acts of generosity impacted so many in the communities you served. I will always be grateful for the kind words of support and encouragement you offered over the years of our friendship.
You will be missed by many.
Diane Pagani
March 23, 2021
Dear Ciotto Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Billy's passing.
He was an ever present inspiration to our family, ready to do any and everything to help personally or with business affairs. He was the star of the show at my wedding, I never would have anyone but Billy and his band there for my special day. His guidance has helped me through many obstacles in my life, I will never forget him . My sincere condolences and prayers to you all at this very difficult time. May God bless you and yours.
Sincerely,
Diane Pagani and Family
( Children of Benny and Mary Pagani)
Rosemary Diamond
March 23, 2021
Dear Jean and family
We have such fond memories of our years as neighbors . We are so sorry for your loss.
Jack and Rosemary Diamond
Carol Ciotto
March 23, 2021
Jeanne, Maria, Julie, John, Joe, and Anthony,
Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you as you say good-bye to Billy. A great man with a huge heart who loved family. We are so very thrilled he was able to be with us to celebrate Kristina and Ollie's wedding day. A cherished memory for us.
He may be gone from our sight but he will never be gone from our hearts. He certainly lived life to the fullest and never waivered from giving of himself and his time to help others. A compassionate and selfless role model for us all.
We will miss him!
Love,
Paul and Carol Ciotto
Kristina Ciotto and Ollie Blunt
Jeanne D’Onofrio-Lynch
March 23, 2021
Dear Jean and family. We have such fond memories of Billy driving us to South Catholic every morning. He would drop off your Grandmother at St Luke’s and then drop us off at South. He was such a warm and welcoming person and always made you feel special. He will be missed. We are so sorry for your loss. Love The D’Onofrio Family.
Anthony Avallone
March 23, 2021
I am so sorry for your loss , please accept my sincerest condolences. Billy was like a big brother. We shared many a lunch on Franklin Ave and I would complain that so many people would come to the table to say hello to him and chat that it took two hours to eat. We shared an intense pride in our Italian heritage. I will miss my friend. I am in Florida and will not be able to attend the services but know he will always be in my heart.
Mark Davis
March 23, 2021
Sincerest condolences to your entire family. He will always be the “Senatore!” He was a joy to be with (and always helpful to me going back to the DMV days). News Photographer Joe Sferrazza and I would always stop what we were doing whenever we encountered him. It was always worth the time spent.
Diane Maxson
March 22, 2021
Maria, Ken, and Jack, we are so sorry to learn of the passing of one of the world’s greatest father and grandfather. Hold tight to your memories, they will lift you through the tough times. With love, Diane and David
Jerome," Jerry" Martin
March 22, 2021
It is without being said, Billy, was one hell of a guy. He will be missed, but not forgotten. It will be sad to think that we wont see that smiling face coming in the door or down the aisle. I have thought of him often and was trying to visit CT, but the covid situation stopped me from coming up from Florida. I had visited just before it hit, an as always, it was a very pleasant experience. He certainly was one of a kind, always there to help. I want to extend the sincere condolences, to the family and friends. he will be in our hearts forever. Rest in Peace my friend. Thanks for my JM plates.