Brenda Ann Elftman

February 2, 1953April 12, 2021

Brenda Ann Elftman, age 68, retired Medical Lab Technician, passed away on Monday, April 12, 2021, at her home. Brenda was born on February 2, 1953, in Macon, Georgia, the daughter of the late Murray Edgar and Virginia Ann (Fields) Grammer. On May 11, 1987, she married Keith Elftman, in Georgia. Brenda is survived by her husband, Keith Elftman; two daughters, Kristy and husband, Scott Thomas, of Wichita, Kimberly and husband, Matt Wyglendowski, of Mansfield, Texas; and five grandchildren, Braeden and Kristen Thomas, Alexis, Nick, and Chase Wyglendowski. Per her wishes there will be no public viewing or graveside service. A celebration of life will be held at a later date due to Covid-19 restrictions. In lieu of flowers please make a donation to the Kansas Humane Society, 3313 N Hillside St, Wichita, KS 67219.


  • Keith Elftman, Husband
  • Kristy and husband, Scott Thomas, Daughter and Son-in-Law
  • Kimberly and husband, Matt Wyglendowski, Daughter and Son-in-Law
  • Braeden and Kristen Thomas, Alexis, Nick, and Chase Wyglendowski, Grandchildren


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Brenda Ann Elftman

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Deb Harbert

April 18, 2021

So many memories! We garage sale shopped, antique shopped & medallion hunted together. Ran the roads ragged in her blazer with my 2 boys & usually Bear(her rottweiler) in the back.
I'm terribly sad I didn't see her before, though we talked about it a lot.
We were out 1 day, picking vegetables in Haysville at 1 of those, you pick your own, pay by the pound. In a middle of a field & she picked a pepper & bit into it, I warned her, these may be hot. The LOOK on her face! It was SO HOT, she turned beet red, choked & her truck & our drinks were a quarter mile away! I don't think I've ever laughed so hard! She laughed thru tears running down her face!
She will be greatly missed! I'm so very sorry for your loss, Keith, Kristy, Kim & families, big HUGS. Love you all.

Alyssa Stilwell

April 16, 2021

Brenda had been such a big part of my life for awhile. She helped me grow in so many ways. She cared so much for me and always made me feel welcome. She was always a grandparent figure and i will forever be greatful. Were gonna miss you deeply crazy lady. Rest Easy Nana❤