BENDER - Joan (nee Emminger) September 11, 2011, beloved wife of the late Walter J.; dear mother of Daniel L. (Diane), Barbara J. (Michael) Giardina, Maureen E. (Gerard) Haberstro, Carol E. (Paul) Kostusiak, Ellyn M. (Michael) Urso, Jack J. (Donna), Scott M. (Eileen), Constance A. (Mark) Male, Christine L. (Daniel) Prygon and the late Joanne (Harvey) Seyfang, Eileen Bender, Joyce (Jack) Marsherall; also survived by 38 grandchildren and 25 great-grandchildren; sister of Teresa (late Jean) Watkins and the late John, George, Joseph, Herbert, Clifford and Francis Emminger. Friends may call Tuesday 7-9 PM and Wednesday 2-4 and 7-9 PM at the PERNA, DENGLER, ROBERTS FUNERAL HOME, 1671 Maple Rd., Williamsville. Friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial from Infant of Prague R.C. Church, Thursday at 10 AM. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Our Lady of Victory Homes of Charity, 780 Ridge Rd., Lackawanna, NY 14218. Online condolences may be sent to www.denglerrobertspernafuneral.com