

James Alexander, age 58 of Bethlehem, GA, was a beloved son husband, father and friend who passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on October 11, 2026. He was born on February 17, 1968, in Phenix City, AL, to Ruby Lee Alexander and Albert Banks. He was raised by his stepfather, Scott Fleming, and with his beloved brothers and sisters: Lawrence C Alexander, Zander Lamar Alexander, Ruby Alexander, and Judy Alexander. He moved to Paterson, NJ, at the age of 18. He worked at various positions throughout his life. While in New Jersey, he became a wonderful father to Jataysia and Mykeyra Alexander. Later on in life, he met and married the love of his life Brineidy Montesino. He then became father to Brandon Love, James Michael, and Tevin James Alexander. He blended his children together and became part of the Montesino family. Their bond was inseparable. In 2005, James and Brineidy came to visit Georgia to see loved ones and fell in love with the lifestyle that it offered. James moved to Georgia with his wife and his children for a house that they called home in Bethlehem, GA. Over the course of the years, he was fortunate to see his sons get married. James Michael to his lovely wife Hannah. who brought laughter and happiness, and Tevin Alexander to his lovely wife Kenricka, who then becomes a bonus daughter and caregiver for him and his wife. James was filled with so much joy that the Lord blessed him with five grandchildren: Naeem Dixon, Malia Alexander, Ariyah Alexander, Amorah Alexander, and Alaia Alexander. He was a man of God and a Deacon of Temple of Glory in Winder, GA. He was a great listener. He dedicated his life to teaching and mentoring his children and others when they needed help or advice. James loved to build and his dream was to own residential properties for his children. He was a wise man. He was his own barber at home and he cut his family and children's hair. He loved food, music, and cooking. James valued family and had a laugh that was contagious. He will be greatly missed.
He was predeceased by his wife Brieneidy Montesino. He was survived by his mother, Ruby Lee; sisters Ruby and Judy; and his brother, Lawrence. He is survived by his daughters: Jataysia and her children, and Mykeyra; his sons: Brandon, James Michael, and Tevin and their wives. He is also survived by his extended Montesino family: Celeste, Francis, Albert and Franny.
There will be a Visitation for family and friends at Smith Funeral Home, 755 Atlanta Hwy SE, Winder, GA, on Saturday, October 17, 2026, from noon until 2:00 pm. His Funeral Service will follow at 2:00 pm in Smith Memory Chapel.
Repast: 504 Carriage Drive, Bethlehem, GA - after 4:00 pm.
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